ok theres this boy i really really liked and we talk like everyday no joke and he is always saying im beautiful and he told me he liked me
but we were tlking online a minute ago
and he said omg i just got a girlfriend and im trying to act like im happy for him yet i just want to scream
what the crap im right here whats wrong with me??
but i fell like its my ault for not asking him out when i had him
what do i do??
i feel so numb
2007-06-04 16:12:25 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
o and every1 i have told him how i felt i told him tht i liked him and thts when he told me he liked me too
2007-06-04 16:24:34 · update #1
ok i knew him in 2nd grade and he moved
we strted tlkin again on myspace but i know him
i saw him today and we tlked for a while
and weve been tlkin everyday for about 3 monthes
on the phone and online
2007-06-04 16:29:05 · update #2
I feel so bad for you! I remember how much this stuff hurt me when I was your age. But, I did have a thought?? Could it be he just said that to make you jealous?? Maybe he is trying to get you to see him as more than just a friend and doesn't realize you already do? IM him back and say something like, "so what's going on, you think you need two girlfriends, her AND me???" Or something along those lines. Be sure you need to be feeling all this rejection before spending the night crying.
But if he really is breaking your heart, you could try what my daughter used to do when she was younger. She'd come into my room, spill her guts, I would send her older brother to the store for cookie dough ice cream AND chocolate (it has amazing powers!!) and then we would talk and cry and say rude things about the meanie until she got some of the pain out of her system. The next day her friends took over. You will feel better sweetie, I promise. It feels like you will die from it, but you won't. Really.
2007-06-04 16:22:15 · answer #1 · answered by naniannie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let's evaluate your situation for a moment. First, have you ever MET this boy (in person) before? I'm not talking chatting on the Internet, I'm talking a face to face meeting.
Second, how long have you known this person? One week up to one month, does not qualify for long enough to have a broken heart over someone. Relationships take longer than that to develop.
Next, how much time did YOU invest in this friendship with the
boy? He may not see it that way at all. There is no telling how much time the other girl invested in him.
I hope this helps you. If your heart truly feels broken- let me know. I met a wonderful heart surgeon today that would be glad to fix it.
2007-06-04 16:20:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this happens a lot and there is no reason for it. Sometimes guys just dont like to make the first move. Maybe his new girlfriend made the first move. I think maybe he was waiting for you but you didnt get it. this isnt your fault. It happens. I bet it wont last long before they break up. Make your move then. In the meantime, keep talking to him.
2007-06-04 16:26:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I"m sorry u have been given ur coronary heart broken! yet i assume it quite is an element of existence! besides the fact that it is going to likely be so large whilst u discover the single real love of ur existence..it is going to likely be the suited concern that has ever occurred to ya..i could attempt and neglect him and get on with ur existence
2016-11-25 23:38:41 · answer #4 · answered by siwani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will go away after a while
you did nothing wrong you waited for him to follow up on all the hints he was dropping
maybe he is trying to exact a reaction from you perhaps you should try not to react and see where it goes. I mean if you guys were really friendly how come he never mentioned his interest in this other person?
2007-06-04 16:16:29 · answer #5 · answered by redseagoddess 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Might be that he doesn't really have a girlfriend. Maybe he is just trying to get you to freak out and ask him out or something. Because he is shy. And silly. Or maybe he really does have a girlfriend. In that case, I think you are out of luck until they break up. He'd only start to dislike you if you tried anything now.
2007-06-04 16:16:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How about not e such a wimp, get some testicles, and tell him straight up how you feel/ Why is everyone so afraid of telling the truth? Why does everyone have to put up a front?
2007-06-04 16:16:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there!
All good things will come with time girl! He may just be trying to see if you like him or make you jealous. Let him know how you feel about him!!
2007-06-04 16:15:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's like a ripple going through your entire body, isn't it?
Get used to it, Sweetie, it will happen a lot. That's really how you know you're alive.
2007-06-04 16:15:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Last night I dug your picture out from my old dresser drawer I set it on the table and I talked to it til four I read some old love letters right up til the break of bone Yeah Ive been settlin alone diggin up bones
Then I went to the jewelery and I found our wedding rings Ive put mine on my finger and I gave yours a fling I crossed this lonely bedroom of our recent broken home Yeah tonight Im settlin alone diggin up bones
Chorus:
Im diggin up bones,Im diggin up bones Exhuming things that better left alone Im resurrecting memories of love thats dead and gone Yeah tonight Im settlin alone diggin up bones
And I went to the closet and I found some things in there Like that pretty neglige that I bought you to wear And I recall how good you looked each time you had it on Yeah tonight Im settlin alone diggin up bones Im resurrecting memories of love thats dead and gone Yeah tonight Im settlin alone diggin up bones
2007-06-04 16:14:48 · answer #10 · answered by sausage_eater 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋