Okay....about a month ago my ex and I were hanging out over at one of his buddies' houses. Well...before that, my ex showed this buddy naked pictures of me, and while at the buddy's house, was trying to get me naked in front of them both(while i was drunk). Since then, his "buddy" has contacted me and i responded and we've met up and you can guess the rest...
Now my ex is very upset with him and me. He has tried everything to stop it from going on and says we're disrespecting him. Now, I don't know about you guys, but what are your thoughts on this? Should I feel extremely guilty or is he the one that needs to let it go and move on? And does this mean I'm easy?
2007-06-04 17:28:29 · 21 answers · asked by Audrey V 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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He's ur ex. Who cares about what exs think?
Just do what makes you happy (and always be responsible).
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2007-06-04 17:34:03 · answer #1 · answered by kevinrtx 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well was he your ex when you were hanging out with him? If you would have got naked in front of them both then you would really be wondering what to do cause u know what would have happened. If you just slept with him to sleep with him and did not want a relationship then yea he probably thinks you are easy. If you sleep with a guy just because you can or some other lame reason like he already seen you naked in pics then you have some things to ask yourself. What you going to do when word starts getting around that you will sleep with a guy just to sleep with him? Soon you going to have all the little wankers around trying to get into your pants. If you were not going out with you ex then no need to feel guilty, he should not have been showing your pics around. He disrespected you for showing your pics to his friend in the first place then trying to get you naked in front of them he disrespected you again. All they are after is sex so find new people to hang out with.
2007-06-05 00:37:15 · answer #2 · answered by Will 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about you...I would be piss at your ex's for showing those pictures of you naked to his friends. Right there along he still having issue over the break up and totally disrespecting you as a woman. On top of that he trying to get you to strip in front of them. Right there you should have left the house and dont want to have any more contact with neither of them.
Well, he shouldn't be upset with you for something that he had start in the first place. He have alot of galls to put his guilt on you, that you were the one being disrespected. In my book that you're grown woman (I hope) and you did want you wanted to do, its done and over with and the both of you should move on.
Can you pls tell me why did you do it?
2007-06-05 00:56:55 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did nothing wrong by hooking up with your ex.`s friend. You are allowed to date whoever you want. Your relationship with your ex. was and is over. The thing that is wrong is that after the relationship was over he showed pictures of you naked to his buddy. If anyone disrespected anyone it is your ex that did. The old saying goes revenge is a b*tch!
2007-06-05 00:34:38 · answer #4 · answered by lambdachi525 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have some serious issues. Your relationship is non-existent with your "ex". Think about it, what would you tell your friend if she told you exactly what you just told this entire community? This is absurd. Your ex is ridiculous for even putting you out there like that. Not only does he not respect whatever that it is you guys had between each other, but, he is suddenly upset because you actually took the bait and fooled around with his friend? What did he expect to achieve from all this toying around?
Break up with your "boy friend" if you can even call it that, and dump the other guy. Re-think about what you just asked, and I'm sure you can figure it out yourself.
2007-06-05 00:34:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are serious about this new guy, then go for it. If the new guy was worried about his friendship with his friend he wouldn't have called. If the new guy just used you for sex, then that is bad. I hope that you are not trying to get back at the ex by sleeping with the friend. That would be bad and would make you look easy and such.
He need to let go and move on.....but I can see why he is hurt. It shouldn't so much be at you but his friend for sleeping with his ex.
Best of luck.
2007-06-05 00:33:31 · answer #6 · answered by pinkribbons&walking4boobies 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your actions were not only trampy but dangerous. Were you the only one drinking? How hard would it have been for you to be attacked.
If your ex cared about you at all as a human being he wouldn't have asked you to degrade yourself that way and his friend went after a girl who lets a jerk take naked pictures of her so why would he respect you either?
I am sorry but you need to care about your self a lot more and protect yourself better.
2007-06-05 00:33:44 · answer #7 · answered by New England Babe 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is really an easy answer. I would suggest you avoid Alcohol when around guys. ETOH dulls your senses and you are unable to make decisions that you want to make.
Next, I would suggest that if you really like both men that you develop a relationship with both. It's called polyamory. I must say that you must be completely awake and alert and able to communicate well and sober to live this way. If it's not possible than you had better stick to one guy and stay sober.
2007-06-05 00:55:34 · answer #8 · answered by Dan B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he was trying to get you guys to hook up and when you did he got pissed. He instigated things by showing his buddy naked pics of you and then trying to get you to undress in front of the both of them. It sounds like he had very little respect for you and your relationship. He got exactly what he deserves.
2007-06-05 00:33:57 · answer #9 · answered by Mad Man in a Blue Box 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, what the F were you doing taking naked pictures in the first place? And, what was he doing exposing them to his friends? Your ex sounds really rude to me, and yes, you sound really easy.
2007-06-05 00:37:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, yes you are easy. Did you honestly think he wouldn't find out that you were sleeping with his friend? Secondly, I hope you know that your ex will now if he hasn't publish your nude picture on the Internet for revenge.
2007-06-05 00:34:54 · answer #11 · answered by King Midas 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋