Well. I always thought that this girl liked me and I was pretty confident about it but when I asked her out she said she doesn't have the time for dating. I accepted it and moved on. Our friendship didn't crumble after she rejected me but it was as strong. She would still say hi and maintain eye contact. Well, today I saw her. She froze up and couldn't finish saying the word "Hi" to me. She then stopped the eye contact and looked down on the floor and we passed by each other. I was not dirty or anything because I was wearing my suit for my interview. What happened? It was just so awkward.
Also, I don't want to ask her what was wrong with her because it would just make things more awkward
2007-06-04 16:10:14 · 12 answers · asked by john23213 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe her boyfriend was with her and she didnt have the heart to tell you
2007-06-04 16:13:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, u dont want to get any wrong ideas, it could b that there was someone with u or next to u, on both those times. then if u cant really think of someone that was there that sh would of liked, take a chance and ask her out maybe just as friends. but then kind of turn it in to a date and b romantic. make a move on her and then c how she reacts.
2007-06-04 16:18:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably uncomfortable. If she really thought you were just friends it may have took her by surprise. If she likes you it again may have took her by surprise and she may regret not saying yes. One way or another you have to ask her. If she just wants you as a friend tell her you thought she liked you and that's why you asked her. Hopefully you can save the friendship.
2007-06-04 16:18:39 · answer #3 · answered by shelly6483 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i been in that situation before, and i know the feeling. there are things in a girl's mind that you just can't fathom. thats why you just have to love them or go crazy with them. all you can do is to wait and be patient. do not change your ways towards her and do not overdo things which might send her a wrong signal. let her compose herself. im sure there's a logical explanation to her behavior. for the meantime, look for other options you have. good luck!
2007-06-04 16:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by mans 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how old are you guys? what it sounds like is she really likes you but she didnt want to ruin yall freindship. shes probably thinking what will happen when we brak up will he not feel the same way about me. and the reason she is ignoring or seems like it is b/c she is ashamed and thinks that she lost you b/c she said no you prbably need to go up to her and be like its okay that you said no their is nothing to worry about.
2007-06-04 16:14:31 · answer #5 · answered by Grace W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably looked breathtakingly hot in your suit!!! <3
don't acknowledge that you guys had a weird moment, just see if she's back to normal next time. and if she's not, then you have to ask her what's up
2007-06-04 16:17:46 · answer #6 · answered by J A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey cool DUDE! GET A GRIP!
you need to be in control and you are not
don't read in to what she is doing and REACT!
you need to learn to lead!
read david deangelo's book
it changed my life.
2007-06-04 16:13:03 · answer #7 · answered by CHRIS10202 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she might haave been thinking of something else akward or strange or important and not had the focus to give you the usual friendly greating. but just ask her casually what's up and that she seemed not herself.
2007-06-04 16:15:04 · answer #8 · answered by decepticons_go 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i guess she thought you looked hot in the suit. i don't know why but guys sure do look a hell of a lot hotter in a suit.
2007-06-04 16:14:02 · answer #9 · answered by Karrie_Poo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She thought that you looked "hot" in your suit. Duh!
She has a thing for you dude!
2007-06-04 16:12:40 · answer #10 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋