why is it that men find women kissing a turn on but i think both sexes find it unpleasant to see two men kissing -
2007-06-04 22:59:29 · 15 answers · asked by sd_lewis2003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-06-06 17:03:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women are prettier than men. But really because I think it's a common consciousness that women as a gender are by in large more sensual and attractive so the idea of two women kissing is by enlarge more aceptable, especially since the most popular men's fantasy is two girls at once andmany straight women confess to fantasising about same sex encounters.
Plus from a man's point of view seeing two women kiss can very easily be branded "Hot and sexy" but to see two men kiss arouses (sorry) the age-old fashioned urban myth/homoerotic terror that "seein or watchin somethin gay happen between two men, and not being disgusted and repulsed and and repelled like superman from kkryptonite makes you gay as well".
Women don't seem to have that hang up.
2007-06-05 00:11:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it's got something to do with attraction, it's okay for guys to see two women kiss because men are attracted to women, and it's a turn on for them of course, but if a straight guy sees two gay guys kissing, it would be disgusting for them. And plus, women's image in our society is always portrayed the weakest, and plus, men treat women like whores.
2007-06-06 02:19:21 · answer #3 · answered by Light 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean, a lot of ppl see men kissing men to be a real turn off, but then again some find it sexy. personally ive kissed women myself and i know a lot of people find thats its real turn on. i think its because women kissing each other seems more sensual plus girls are always seen to be physically attached to their friends, they will hug each other more often, or link arms when going shopping, whereas with men, they are stereotypically meant to be 'macho' and they are not really seen as physically compassionate towards thier male friends. you will often see men just shaking hands, but not hugging or kissing men on the cheek that often. ofcourse the middle east is an exception, where it is common that men greet each other with hugs and kisses.
if it is seen as hot for women to do it, it should be for men too, but unfotunately its one of those psychological things in ppls minds which makes gay men kissing quite unpleasant.
i dont know it that all made sense, but that what i think anyway.
2007-06-04 23:11:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love seeing two men kiss, I think I'm in a minority though. But I don't like seeing women kiss - it always seems to be to impress men which is so sad. True lesbians no problem but usually it's two female friends trying to attact men by lslightly lezzing up.
2007-06-04 23:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by bees 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to tell you the truth i am a woman and i find it kind of sexy to see 2 women kissing... even being one of the girls doing the kissing...2 guys on the other hand is a different story... i think men are so obsessed with women in general if they can have 2 they like it even more
2007-06-04 23:12:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find 2 men kissing hot.
2007-06-05 00:31:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont find it unpleasant to see two men kissing, I find it hot
2007-06-04 23:02:39 · answer #8 · answered by OriginalBubble 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because women are 'hot'?
I'm sure there are deeper, snooty answers, but that's what it boils down to.
I guess you could add that girls can kiss for a laugh and a joke, so its all a bit more fun???
2007-06-04 23:03:50 · answer #9 · answered by Simon C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
With tongues? Or like the French?
2007-06-04 23:04:17 · answer #10 · answered by Barbara Doll to you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like poles repell.Opposite poles attract.
2007-06-05 00:01:32 · answer #11 · answered by leowin1948 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋