what is the best way to tell people that you don't like the way they speak to you?

Question

answer fast , pls.

Answer 1

Just calmly tell them, don't be rude or aggressive just say 'can you not speak to me like that please? It makes me feel...........'

Wish I could take my own advice!

Answer 2

First I'd ask, "Why do you do that?" When they ask what, say, "Talk to me like that. Do you know how mean/rude you are when you talk down to me like that?" Then tell them you find it very offensive and not to speak to you at all if they can't be polite and kind.

Answer 3

I'd say 'Sorry but I don't like the way to speak to me. Maybe you could be a little more polite. It really upsets me'.

Answer 4

just tell them you dont like the way they speak to you

Answer 5

i dont know what is 'the best way' but when it happens to me i say something like:
"i know u cant help urself talkin like that but i hardly like people when they show no respect, so get away or learn some stuff from ur parents....."

Answer 6

Hit them in the face with a wet fish

Answer 7

personal id talk to them the way they spoke to me or just turn round and say look i have notice this for a while and i wonna know what iv done to have you talk to me like that or just *** out wid it

Answer 8

tell them that you dont want to be treated that way.

say please

be calm and nice.

smile.

but if they still do it to you, just stare in their eyes while being silent. keep on doing it everytime they do it to you until they will look down and avoid your stare.

if the problem persists, consult you doctor

Answer 9

tell then frankly that u dind like tha way of their talk...tell them what u feel ....howz it affecting u.....

a person who likes u will change the way they behave to make u happy

but..........i think most of the peopls like the way they r n they do donnt like any change...

Answer 10

well be grown up about it and tell them how it bothers you or hurts your feelings whatever way the tone they talk to you.=]