Should i call him?
Should i call him?
i've been going out with this guy whom i have a crush with.. unfortunately i have been busy for few months and so everytime he would asked me out i was not always available. i am now sad that he stopped calling me for a month now, i tried to reach him but i think he is no longer interested in seeing me. should i call him? or should i stop waiting for him to call me. what will i do? ..what seems to happen i dont know, because we've been ok before he stopped calling me.
i did call him. but he won't answer it. instead he texted me,, i said i missed him, but he didn't reply again what will i do? can i still win him back? even for friendship? pls anyone who can help me on what to tell him, i'm getting really desperate now. thanku.
2007-06-04 21:38:24 · 14 answers · asked by confused lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't give up on him. I f you want him, then go get him
2007-06-04 21:41:54 · answer #1 · answered by klallen197902 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep trying, you sound very keen on him. I can understand why he stopped calling, he probably feels you are deliberately trying not to see him! But if you just call and leave a message explaining that when you met, you were at a very busy time in your life and that you were interested but everything was happening at once. Try saying you would would like to be friends if he has moved on as you would rather have that than nothing. If he is as decent as you think he is, he will understand. Good luck! x
2007-06-04 21:48:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause you have been busy for a month and telling no everytime he asked u out he kinda got the message that u were no longer intrested or something the reasson he hasn't called well that is obvious he has moved on and left you to it and no don't call him he might have somebody else in his life now am afraid you will have to move on you left it too long u cant blame him for not calling for a month as you gave him nothing but set backs everytime.
2007-06-04 21:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by baby dust for me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to let go of this guy. If he doesnt respect you enough to even answer your calls or texts then he doesnt seem worth wasting your time on!
Ok, so you had a busy few months - doesnt everyone?!
A real friend and genuine guy would understand.
You did your bit & called him - leave him to sulk now!
He will soon realise that he lost a good friend in you.
Good luck x
2007-06-04 21:43:18 · answer #4 · answered by MinibabeUK73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's hard to say cause the ball is in his court. He might be trying to make you feel the way you had made him feel all that time. I would use reverse physiology on him. I would call and if he didn't answer again. I would text and say, "Well I guess your to busy for me, I wish you all the best bye ....." Or something along those lines. If he doesn't reply than give up. If he does than respond to him.
2007-06-04 21:47:46 · answer #5 · answered by Nicki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
text him again saying that your really sorry you've been busy, things have been super insane, but your all ears now, wanna talk? It's probably best if you ask him out on a date before he does to make sure he knows your interested in im still.
2007-06-04 21:58:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain that you were very busy before, but that is out of the way now, and you would like to get to know him better. He may have a girlfriend already by now, however.
2007-06-04 21:47:07 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why were you busy for a few months? If you liked him that much,surely you could of spared him 30 mins for a coffee at the least!
2007-06-04 21:51:56 · answer #8 · answered by heebygeeby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have made more of an effort before - the poor guys ego has been bashed. He is reluctant to get involved in case you do it again. Personally, I would put it down to experience and dont do it again
2007-06-04 21:49:16 · answer #9 · answered by forgetmenot1908 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no! this has happened to me once, they kind of lose interest really! He has probably moved on tov another girl. That's why he hasn't text back. Maybe you should do the same?x
2007-06-04 21:54:14 · answer #10 · answered by stunnin_always 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry gurl i think u lost him and he lost interest and i think u should juss let things be and next time u have a crush on someone who has the mutal feelings for u go for it and dont let ur work take over ur love life...
2007-06-04 21:44:59 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋