My ex placed a temp restraing order on me, and on the papers the judge signed says no order on custody what does that mean? Is it just that no matter the outcome he cant get full custody of my children ? Is their any way to get this dismissed? Will it effect a child custody case coming up?
2007-06-04 21:48:19 · 5 answers · asked by ~*STARR*~ ~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Cant afford an lawyer, and am tring to find legal advise but can even afford that...I;'mkinda alone on all this stuff
2007-06-04 21:55:05 · update #1
as well, I dont know why but my temp restaining order and child custody have the same case number? Do you know why?
2007-06-04 22:03:51 · update #2
I do believe it means there is a RO on you involving him, so arrangements will have to be made in order to transfer the children so neither of you are within the set proximity of each other as ordered in the RO....so the RO is in effect, but the child custody is not ruled upon and visitation, as agreed so far, continues, but with arrangements regarding the RO....but ASK AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE..I AM NOT AN ATTORNEY, although I have played one on stage in high school.
2007-06-04 21:55:18 · answer #1 · answered by big D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A no order of custody means that neither one of you has been granted custody until the custody hearing. A temp restraining order is basically for you to stay away from him. It is more than likely that you will both get equal custody rights.
On your court day and ask the judge to dismiss it and
validate. Tell him that your ex filed an invalid temp order on you and I'm sure he will dismiss it. Just don't miss your court date because then the order will become valid.
Depending on what state you live in, call 411 and ask for the number to Legal Aid. Legal Aid assists people with low income, or no income. They will definitely help you.
2007-06-07 08:02:59 · answer #2 · answered by **Panther** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some very good questions was the restraining order deliverd via a police officer? Did they say anything while handing you the paper?
Just a suggestion don't contact your ex cause that would be in violation and I don't think you will be able to have time with the children at this time you will all be due in court to discuss this in the very near future. It won't be easy, it's tough on the person that filed and it's tough on you having this placed in your hands,it's even tougher on the children cause they love both of you very much. So chin up and go to court be coridal and if you have any thoughts you want to have said in court write them down before entering the court room to give yourself some time to be you,just breath in and breath out. This too shall pass but not fast enough.
Best wishes
2007-06-05 04:55:54 · answer #3 · answered by ღ♥ღLaurieღ♥ღ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do need to consult an attorney on this, most offer free consultation, check the yellowpages or online in your state.
Try findlaw.com
2007-06-05 05:56:26 · answer #4 · answered by LC 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your attorney. He will advise you.
2007-06-05 04:52:12 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋