I hung ou twith my friend yesterday anh she wanted me to hangout with her today and i said i didnt want to because i have to babysitt. And now sh jsut called me saying she wants to hang out tomorrow and i really dont want to what excuse cna i use ?? a good one a believeable one.
She wants me to go over her house but i hate going over house and i hate when hse goes over my house because when i go over her house she goes on the computer the whole time on IMVU i just have to sit there til her grandmother drops me off and when hse goes over my house she bothers my brothers and she says bad stuff in front of my dad .
PLEASE I NEED AN EXCUSE? A GOOD BELIEVE ABLE ONE!!!!
im 12 turning 13 soon and she just truned 13
2007-06-06 13:41:32 · 26 answers · asked by GiRLY GiRL xO0 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sorry for all the spellnig mistake its becuase im nervous and when im nervous my typing becomes horrible !! im really sorry !! shes gonna call soon ! so please help
2007-06-06 13:42:17 · update #1
Ok say you have to do stuff with your parents, like shopping for food or go to an elders house or your grounded because you went over your phone bill so you can't hang out with friends...thats all i got i hope i helped good luck!!! =]
2007-06-06 13:46:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really don't want to tell her the truth (i.e. Chill out girl, I need a bit of personal time once in a while too, eh?), then just tell her your not feeling so great or that you're a little tired. That or that you already have another personal commitment (grandmother, ionno).
Tell her the TRUTH! You don't like spending time at her house when she's spending the whole time on the computer and you don't like it when she runs her mouth off in front of the rents...
2007-06-06 20:46:19 · answer #2 · answered by tricolore_21 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you make an excuse today, you'll just have to think of another one the next time she calls.
I think you need to be honest with her. You don't need to be rude or insulting, just be truthful.
Next time tell her you don't want to be on the computer all day, you have more enjoyable things to do at home.
If she wants to come to your house, set limits. Make it only once or twice a week, and tell her to watch her mouth around your dad.
She sounds like a bad influence. Set limits and stick to them. I'm sure there are other girls you'd enjoy hanging out with more.
2007-06-06 20:51:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume that by excuse, you want us to make up a lie for you.
From your description it sounds like this person isn't much fun to hang out with anyway, so I find it hard to understand why you want to go to all of the trouble to lie to your friend.
I think that if you want the situation to change you should try some good old fashioned honesty.
It's a win/win situation for you either way. Either she stops wanting to hang with you because she doesn't like what you have to say, or she listens to you & decides that there's some merit to what you are saying, & changes her ways.
So no excuses. Tell her the truth, tell her what you told us.
2007-06-06 20:51:35 · answer #4 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is 3 things you can do,
1. u can tell her the truth and tell her that u get bored at her house
2. suggest you guys do something else
3. make up an excuse and say ur parents dont want u guys hanging out everyday
2007-06-06 21:06:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u should just tell her the truth because if u lie 2 her n she finds out its just going 2 make things worse n right now i think there bad enough 4 u so just tell her how u feel n she what she says i hope everything goes good 4 u
2007-06-06 20:59:21 · answer #6 · answered by iluvshawn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excuses? You don't neeed to! Just tell her the truth rather than to lie and lie and lie. And besides she might call you again and ask if you can hangout with her, so you'll need another excuse. Tell her that you don't have so much time to hangout or just tell her that you hate her hobbies and her way of speaking. Just be open!! And remember to say it nicely, so that you won't hurt her feelings..
2007-06-06 20:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel it's my job to say, "Be responsible and tell her the truth"
However, I remember being 12, and how much life could suck sometimes..... tell her,
You're going shopping with your mom/dad/brother/someone.
You have summer reading to do.
You are babysitting again, you did so well yesterday.
You aren't feeling that well, and want some down time.
Your mom is going to teach you how to cook tonight, and you don't want any distractions
2007-06-06 20:46:20 · answer #8 · answered by jumpstreet2100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her your in trouble for something & your not allowed to go out or to have company for a while. Or some relative is coming to visit & you have to stay there & nobody else is supposed to come over while they are there! Good Luck!!!
2007-06-06 20:48:38 · answer #9 · answered by Sherrie L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why lie to her? just tell her that you dont want to hang out with her cuz she is always on the computer while your there,or that u dnt like how she says"bad stuff" infront of your dad and is mean to your brothers.if she is a frend she well understand
2007-06-06 20:48:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋