Family & Relationships - 6 June 2007

There is a woman in another state who I've known for about 17 years. We recently started talking and corresponding by way of the internet and we went from hot and heavy to cooled off (for reasons I'm not sure of) and now she want to add me back into her life by way of internet. She's married also. What should I do. Needless to say I sure want to do her and my wife doesn't put out unless there is a full moon. LOL In other words not very often. Should I go for the one nighter? Noone will ever find out! Like I said before what should I do? By the way, I'm using my friends e-mail address so that I won't get caught.

2007-06-06 17:35:33 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my wife is getting a divorce and her lawyer has asked that i levae the house. i am not on the deed and i signed a quick claim. i wish i would of known about the quick claim. i thought it was for the purpose of my credit not effecting my wife credit so i signed it. also my wife put a ex parte order on me claiming that i abducted our child. my court date is not until 7/12/07 and my child mediation is 6/12/07 how does that work. Also my lawyer thinks that i should move out of the house? I'm confused and was question weather i should get a place? my wife is playing hard ball. i have not seen my child in two weeks. I'm hurt. and what will the first court hearing do.

2007-06-06 17:29:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This guys gf likes me and he found out. Since then everytime hes txted me hes threatnened me 2 a fight and called me a pu$$y. He txted me "hey'' 2day and i said ''bye'',then he said not 2 get fu**** smart w/him. I've told him bye multiple times.Wat do I do now?!?!

2007-06-06 17:25:18 · 10 answers · asked by Big D 1 in Friends

My son is 3 years old. He has more toys than we know what to do with. It's actually overwhelming because I spend half my life trying to figure out how to organize all of his stuff. His aunt has a real spending problem and much of the time she buys him things that he already has too much of (like stuffed animals) or things he can't use (like 144 foam airplanes from Oriental Trading). I appreciate her generosity but with everything she buys him and everything that everyone else does too he just has way too much stuff and there is honestly nowhere to put it. She will even buy something for him when we are visiting her and I'll often purposely leave it at my Mom's house for him to play with and she'll say "aren't you going to take it with you when you go home?" I also live 1500 miles away and she constantly mails him things.I feel like if she wants to do something nice for him, buy him a savings bond, or pay for him to go to gymnastics or something. Is there a nice way to say this?

2007-06-06 17:25:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How can i tell somone that i like them and want to go on a date?

2007-06-06 17:24:26 · 1 answers · asked by Ben10 3 in Singles & Dating

I hate wearing strong perfume, but I want to smell nice. Sometimes I think my shampoo is all I need, it smells so good! (Herbal Essence is awesome!) What kinds of perfumes, lotions, or body sprays do you like to smell? What specific scents, in general, are you attracted to?

Thanks!

2007-06-06 17:22:42 · 11 answers · asked by Angela G 2 in Singles & Dating

hey!!ii have a very gud frnd of mine n his birth day is approaching i want to gift him something very special....not something like wallet aur belt or that common stuff....smthng which cud b with him forever so that he never forgets me.....
hey!!he is my best friend and not boy friend....
so some decent suggestions pls

2007-06-06 17:21:40 · 10 answers · asked by sweetie 2 in Friends

2007-06-06 17:16:17 · 20 answers · asked by freddy 5 in Singles & Dating

If not then how can we tell? Not that size matters, but if guys can tell how big are boobs are we should be able to tell how big his ___ is, shouldn't we? Is there any part on his body that gives us an indication?

2007-06-06 17:14:34 · 30 answers · asked by Dood 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-06 17:14:02 · 16 answers · asked by da da 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im 5'5. and im wondering why are most teen guys so short? i hate it wen a guys shorter than me! do u prefer a girl shorter or taller than you?

2007-06-06 17:08:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-06 17:06:54 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's always introducing himself now like this, "Hi, I'm Doug Dannger, a gay man and a gay journalist". It's soooo dumb.

2007-06-06 17:03:38 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Since I was a child I've been the odd man out, the adopted red headed child in a family of dark haired people, the tall one surrounded by average people, the philosopher amongst fundamentalists, the rude one among those who never dared rock the boat except with passive agressive anger and superficial happiness. Now that I'm an adult I'm still embarrassing my parents. I don't have a job, I have mental illness, but rather than even try to understand, they say everything's fine yet the get so mad whenever I do anything out of the ordinary, are so touchy when I bring up the past, don't want to hear what I have to say, don't answer my questions, don't respond when I send them pics of my trips, my kid, my wife. Why would a parent say everything's fine, yet by their actions show they don't want anything to do with you, and when confronted deny everything despite being caught in the lie before?

2007-06-06 17:02:39 · 8 answers · asked by Hammurabi 1 in Family

Sure he works hard, and I dont expect him to clean anything, but is it too much to ask that he picks up after himself, eg. puts the milk back in the fridge or washes the hair down the bathroom sink after he shaves? When ever i ask him to do that he goes crazy saying I'm useless and do nothing all day, and its my job, I spend my days cleaning and looking after my 2yr old son and being sick as because of being pregnant.

He doesn't care about me at all, he always gets shitty at me for not telling him whats upsetting me, but when I do tell him he starts yelling and makig everything into my fault.

It's driving me nuts theres a whole heap of other things but It would take forever to write them all. But I'm just pissed, I have no money because he doesn't want to combine finances, and the little money i get each week, goes straight into groceries or bills. He earns heaps of money and just says you need to budget better, yes I do and I dont expect to takehis money i dont want to do that.

2007-06-06 16:59:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok so my boyfriend has 4 kids... i know that is alot. he is not some low life with no money and too many kids though he is a successful business man that spoils his children to death. anyway i get along with the 3 youngest ones. the are 13,9,and 7. but the oldest one is 16 and she wont even give me a chance!! what should i do to let her know i am a good person and i just want to be her friend? should i just be patient? i need help because every time she comes over, she wont look at me or talk to me and there is this weird tension in the air...... help!!

2007-06-06 16:58:15 · 10 answers · asked by Megan W. 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-06 16:57:41 · 5 answers · asked by jamie d 1 in Family

i caught my boss with another woman, her wife is Illinois working as a nurse. and he has 3 children... should i tell her wife what happenin or should i keep my mouth close? we're here in the Philippines!

2007-06-06 16:55:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

And the other day I got a blowie from another girl who was not my fiance. Shewas more attractive, though. Unfortunately I'm scheduled to be married in 8 months.

2007-06-06 16:53:23 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is a wierd question really dont know how to explain it but ill try my best.how can you tell the difference from "puppy-love" or the "real-deal". me and my girlfriend have been going out for 8 months and it has been the most amazing months in my life.shes great she makes me laugh.we talk alot,we both care about each other alot.we both say we love each other and kiss.she even told me she wanted to marry me when we get older.(we are 16) and i feel the same way.we been through some tough times but stuck it out and made it through.we spend almost everyday together.we both respect each otehr and trust each other with all our hearts.i think its th real deal but i want to see what yall think aobut it?
is it just puppy-love or can it be a real deal kinda relationship?

2007-06-06 16:52:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband thinks staying home and taking care of our daughter is not as hard as going out to work! He always gets to go out on Friday and SAt night because he said he NEEDS to relax from a tired week of work! WHAT ABOUT ME???? he said my job is not hard! i cook, clean , cook, clean and take care of a 16 month girl!

2007-06-06 16:50:14 · 46 answers · asked by missyme 2 in Marriage & Divorce

after telling her i liked her?

2007-06-06 16:45:09 · 20 answers · asked by KID87 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-06 16:43:53 · 13 answers · asked by sunny05 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i need to ask this boy out before school ends, but he is kinda picky, so what should i say to not embarras me or him, but also get him to think about it, or say yes

2007-06-06 16:41:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If I'm talking with a guy, how do I know if he's flirting, and how do I flirt back? How can I make sure he knows I'm not just talking but I'm flirting?

2007-06-06 16:39:37 · 6 answers · asked by Vivian K 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-06 16:39:04 · 17 answers · asked by Florida-Fan1 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-06 16:33:26 · 12 answers · asked by okay. 2 in Singles & Dating

my weight is 100kg and my bf is only 48kg.. sumtime it matter me coz evrytime we walk together at public there are many eyes staring on us just like they c a beauty and the beast where the beast is me hmm.. sumtime i feel so embarased and sumtime that matter owez b the reason me and my bf hav a fight, oh sumtime i feel is that true, i knoe he love me at what i am but sumtime i feel is that true he love me,, oh my it owez haunted me evrytime we together, once i heard sume voice say that me my bf just like a couple at movie call shallow hall or whatever the movie title is and it keep me embarased and sad .. sumtime i try to loose weight and once time i got fainted and sumtime got gastric it gettin killing me.. pls y it not fair for me to b like other normal people to b love and to love normally

2007-06-06 16:29:46 · 15 answers · asked by miss red 1 in Singles & Dating

Husband and I have been married for ten years. He met and married his first wife when he was 19. No kids, it lasted a year and a half. He is now 41. We were at dinner and a crazy woman came up to us yelling about "replacement". She started throwing stuff at us and being a general um insert the word. She then sat down on my side of the booth and asked if I knew who she was. I said "No, but you need to get the F*** away from me." I can handle myself, but she hit me. I told the waitress to call the police. But, I didn't know at that time that it was husband's ex-wife. Husband just sat there in shock that this was happening. I filed charges and plan to get a restraing order on her, but husband says it's just a chance encounter don't bother. I will go ahead with the charges of assault. But should I go out of my way for a restraining order?

2007-06-06 16:28:55 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I keep asking questions about my wedding on here. Yet, people keep calling me a snob. Yes, I'm spending $25,000 on my wedding, but I can afford it. Why does that make me a bad person. I want my wedding to be perfect, but not for me. I want it to be perfect for my guests and for our families. I want everyone that is celebrating with us to be happy. I want my guests to have a warm, friendly and inviting atmosphere. Is there anything wrong with that.

I asked about getting my bridal party gift certificates to tanning. They all love to tan. I got called vain. But, why? All I wanted to do was give my bridal party something nice, that they may not be able to afford otherwise. Their expenses are enough, so I offer to foot the bill for something. I can called a snot.

I asked if I could arrange someone to pick up my 4 year old nephew at the wedding reception, so my new BIL (best man) and SIL could stay to the end. I was told I can't tell people how to raise their kids

2007-06-06 16:25:03 · 29 answers · asked by Answer Girl 2007 5 in Weddings