Family & Relationships - 6 June 2007

My STB Ex-Husband left me a little over a month ago for his "mistress" of one week. Since, he has chosen to go to NC with her three weekends instead of see his daughter. He has chosen on several occasions other than these weekends to see her instead of his daughter. He has been planning to move to NC to be with this girl for a few weeks now (keep in mind, they have only known each other for 6 weeks!!!). Well, I find out this morning, that he moved in the middle of the day yesterday without telling me, or WORSE, not saying goodbye to his daughter! Now he wont answer my calls or return my text messages. Why is he doing this to our little girl?!?! Why does he CONTINUOUSLY pick this mistress over his own flesh and blood?!?! He has spent $2,500+ on his mistress, but a meer $210 on his daughter over the past month! Does he just not love his daughter anymore? This girl has a daughter our daughter's age, and part of me feels like he's letting THAT little girl take the place of our own daughter

2007-06-06 00:50:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my guy and i have been in a relationship for 3 years now. we both are faithful and very committed towards each other and have discussed marriage in great detail.

recently we decided to break the news of us being committed to our respective parents. my parents gave in after some convincing but his parents are not ready to say yes because i have spinal scoliosis.

because we do not stay in the same city, my guy and i keep in touch through phone and internet. of late i sensed that he has changed somewhat owing to his parents who have been emotionally blackmailing him. they are threatening to disown him if he gets married to me.

in the beginning he tried to give it a fight and we also discussed court marriag but now he is scared of losing his money and business. his mom is also not keeping too well so he is all the more worried.

i dont know if i should be angry with him or be supportive.am suffering fom mood swings and am scared.i am scared to lose him!!help!
thanks in advance

2007-06-06 00:49:09 · 9 answers · asked by sun 2 in Singles & Dating

i've known women who give oral sex on first dates as they don't see it as bad as going the whole way . I see oral sex more intense than the full act itself - but what do the panel think ?

2007-06-06 00:38:11 · 44 answers · asked by sd_lewis2003 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with the same guy 7 years IM 25 He is 27 we were engaged in 2005 and were to be wed aug 19 2006 my mother and me planed a butiful wedding and put a lot of work into it and quite a bit of money as well money that my family worked vary hard for we are not a rich family by all means so for my parents to give something this big meant a lot to them and to me two weeks before the wedding the groom walked out and I have not fully recovered sense I was vary hurt AND my family to this day have a hard time trusting him as do i we have broken up and gotten back together with the intentions of marriage three time and each time we get close to the date and he runs we tried again in feb this year and I told him he could plane the wedding and I would be happy with any thing he plan im not a material girl I should mention his family hates me because im not rich and THAT has a lot to do with the break ups I feel like I have lost my best friend and my true love
what do i do

2007-06-06 00:37:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Im worried about this? is anyone else shes only 12<< so she says>> could be anyone hey???

2007-06-06 00:36:22 · 12 answers · asked by louise 2 in Friends

My wife and I were recently separated, we both agreed that it was better off this way.
We are both of Catholic religious beliefs, not practicing Catholics, but raised as such (ie. Baptisms, First Communions, Conformations for both of us). We both decided when we got married that we would not have it done in the Church for reasons not to be discussed here. The ceremony was done by a non-denominational minister outside of the church.
If the wedding was not held in a church, is it still recognized by the church? When I do plan on getting married again, it will be in a church, so do I need an annulment or can I simply get a divorce and be able to do this??

2007-06-06 00:32:04 · 5 answers · asked by ragu13ca 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex boyfriend is stalking and harrassing me. i'm scared, i don't know what to do. he's contacting my job, telling my boss lies about me. i need advice

2007-06-06 00:30:05 · 1 answers · asked by ??? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

-my dad used to hit me with a belt (he never does that now,but he used to,the unfair thingy was that he never did it to my my elder sister and kid sister.i’m such an unlucky girl.)
-my mom hurts my feelings
-someone once took an incessant picture of me
-my dad slaps me
my gramma said something bad about me and i felt bad and my mom told her not to bother me coz i'm not normal
(this hurt my feelings)
-someone i know(cant tell who)once hit me with a broom
-many kids atschool call me weird and bully me verbally
what do you think?

2007-06-06 00:18:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been thinking about this a lot lately... and out of curiosity I would like to know what other people think about this.

Times have changed and so many people break tradition in many ways. Women have careers as well as families, many people have sex before marriage, people are getting married for the first time older than people did in the past, more people are college educated, more people live with their partner before they get married, brides don't have to just wear white, and I'm sure there are a lot of other traditions that have changed or are not being followed anymore.

But when it comes to marriage, it still seems like it's the woman who is expected to change her name and not the man (I know many women keep their maiden name or hyphenate) . I found this very interesting. Do men ever change their name to their wife's name? I wonder why for the most part this particular tradition has not changed with the times - it is still the woman who takes her husband's name.

2007-06-06 00:07:05 · 33 answers · asked by muchadoaboutnothing 3 in Weddings

All his cloths and things are at his house but he can't go near. We know most of her alligations she made against him are not totally true and she has wanted him out of the house for a few years now. For finanacial reasons the house and other things are in her name and he is now staying with us, miles from home. How does he go about getting his things from the house and he is having to comute from Manchester to London several times a week due to commitments he has. Where does he stand in all this, what are his rights. ( the alligations were assault-she called the police and he lost it with them, he is going through a very bad court case over something else and we think maybe the stress has got to him, but i really don't know?)????

2007-06-06 00:00:29 · 10 answers · asked by BARBARA K 1 in Marriage & Divorce