Family & Relationships - 6 June 2007

I've asked my best friend of 8 years to be my maid of honor. She was so excited and honored at first. I even asked her sister (another friend of mine) to be one of my bridesmaids. Now my problem is that i'm now 5 months away from my wedding and she wont return any of my emails or phone calls! We didnt get into any arguments and the last time we talked everything was fine...but now she wont give me the time of day! Should I forget about my dream to have her in my wedding, or should I keep calling and hoping for the best? HELP!!!!

2007-06-06 05:48:56 · 19 answers · asked by capshcky11 1 in Weddings

2007-06-06 05:46:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Growing up, I always promised my cousin I would make her my maid of honor when I got married. However, lately I do not support her lifestyle. She doesn't have a job or car and does not seem to care about her future. She is also very immature. I love her to death, but I don't think she can handle the responsiblities of the job and she surely will not be able to afford the dress, shoes, etc.

At the same time, I have a best friend of 7 years. She is also friends with my cousin. She disapproves of her lifestyle too. We both agree she is headed down the wrong path. However, I really want her to be my maid of honor. She is responsible and someone I can rely on. She has a job and would be able to afford the dress with no problem.

Who should I pick? I'm worried about hurting my cousin's feelings, but she really isn't showing me her ability to be my maid of honor well. Also, I'm afarid of what our families will think. We are very close and I know my mother

2007-06-06 05:46:07 · 10 answers · asked by Answer Girl 2007 5 in Weddings

I really want to do Willow Tree Angels/Figurines for them but I'm torn as to if I should buy them all the same one that says Thank You and is holding a bouquet of forget-me-nots, or if I should buy them eacha different one that fits our relationship.

I am also torn if I do buy the thank you one if I should buy the firgurine or the plaque. What do you all think?

2007-06-06 05:45:29 · 7 answers · asked by ♥Mommy to 3 year old Jacob and baby on the way♥ 7 in Weddings

My questions are simple. Why do the good females go for the loser guys that treat them like trash? Why is it hard for females to trust you around the mother of your child? Why do females not want you to bring up what they did in the past, but continue to do it themselves?

2007-06-06 05:41:53 · 12 answers · asked by slbeezie 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm Catholic and my boyfriend is Christian. Lately we have been talking about getting married, I love him and I would love to be his wife. I would also like to get married in a Catholic Church, but as long as we get married it doesn't matter. He knows that I would like to get married in my Church and I would never push him to become Catholic. He has talked about coming to my Church to see what it's like but like I said, if he wants to stay in his religion I'm okay with that. Is it possible that we can still get married in a Catholic Church though?

2007-06-06 05:41:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ive been married 4 7 yrs. I have a 9yr old from my previous boyfriend. i also have a 6 yr old from my now husbund. we had 7 wonderful yrs weve been together 4 8.. I went out one night w/
2 meet w/my gf who was having marriage problems, but she never showed up. i was having a good time w/some friends from high school and got drunk, i went outside to get some air and was attacked by a man i didnt know..(nothing sexual happened) My old high school friend (a guy)beat the crap out of him and he took me to his parents house. He helped me and took me home but it was 3oclock in the morning. my husband was pissed and i never told him what happened. he would ask over and over about the nights accurances but i just lied and said nothing happened. he still is having sex with me regularly. he found out 3 months later what really happened but not from me and is even more pissed.because of all the lies. he has lied to me too about a girl at work..my husband flirts bad and she called me and told me .

2007-06-06 05:40:17 · 28 answers · asked by machele 3 in Marriage & Divorce

am 24yrs and am virgin

2007-06-06 05:40:08 · 11 answers · asked by quietmoon 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Are there any situations that really it might help make the marriage stronger?

2007-06-06 05:39:44 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been together 8 years. He is a wonderful person and I love him very much- but I'm no longer IN love with him. We no longer have the same goals and want different things from life. I have been denying the truth for a long time, trying to convince myself that I'm happy, but I feel like if I continue to stay with him I will be lying to myself. It's also not fair to him as we're both still young and he could find someone who wants what he wants. I don't know how to break the news- this will come as a real surprise because we don't fight or anything and have always appeared to be the perfect couple. I don't want to hurt him, he's been nothing but kind and loving to me, but if I continue to live this lie I just know I will start to hate him and I don't want that. I'm also afraid that if I do approach him he'll just dismiss the problem and try to convince me we can work it out, which I know is impossible. There is no one else involved and we have no children.

2007-06-06 05:39:23 · 19 answers · asked by lauras_jewels 2 in Marriage & Divorce

just wondering but how many of you are 14-16?

2007-06-06 05:38:55 · 4 answers · asked by ~Angel~ 1 in Singles & Dating

Mu husband is going away for two weeks. I was thinking of planning a weekend getaway with my girl friends (some single, some married). Should this be acceptable or does my husband have a right to not want me to go? He is going to visit family and friends and i am planning to go relax and have fun with the girls. What are some opinions on this.

2007-06-06 05:37:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my husband have been married for 3 years I love him but I'm not in love with him and I have to force myself to have sex with him. We have been having problems for about 3 months now...he works 8a-8p mon-sat so he is never home, he is always cranky, he is always asking me if i'm cheating on him, he accuses me of everything...he insist that I be a stay at home mom but then sarcastically tells me how "hard" my job is and why I shouldn't be tired...he wakes me up in the middle of the night asking me questions...we have been to marriage counseling and it gets better for a month or so and then right back to the same stuff in last marriage I was beaten BADLY and he always says stuff like "i know why he beat your a**, or if he see's someone on tv that has been beaten up he'll ask me "did you ever look like that" e calls me 20x's a day to see where i am e doesn't like any of my friends and if i go there he gets mad he gets mad b/c i don't drink with him but i don't really drink.

2007-06-06 05:36:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He rarely puts much into it and we only do it like once a week. We have been together for 3 1/2 years now, and in the beginning we had sex as much as we could. I always want it and he is like i am sick or I am tired. Is it me, do i not attract him enough>? Or is he just lazy? He is a very lazy person though, that's a fact.

2007-06-06 05:35:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Asian girls seem to be stronger emotionally, and selfless to a degree I have not often observed in the other girls I've known. Is this just a fluke, or is there something going on here?

2007-06-06 05:35:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-06 05:32:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

really! wat is it that attracts you in a girl?

2007-06-06 05:32:50 · 19 answers · asked by djental 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a single mom. I have a 10 year old daughter who is a great kid and I am pregnant with my second child. My daughter has grown up with a father that is only there for her when it is convienent for him, and unfortunately the father of the child I am carrying went from being Mr. Wonderful to a piece of crap too. So now I will be a single mom of two kids without fathers. I was told just yesterday that because of the situation that I have been put into that I won't be able to meet a great guy because I am now "damaged goods with a lot of baggage." I have asked some of my guy friends if they were to meet someone like me if they would think the same thing but of course they aren't going to say anything to push me down even further. So now I am going to ask complete strangers because I want honest opinions. I'm a great person who has just been dealt a couple of bad hands. I don't feel that just because i have kids that I am not worthy of finding that right person.

2007-06-06 05:28:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this question is for ladies only.

2007-06-06 05:27:23 · 19 answers · asked by Nnamdi N 1 in Weddings

I'm still in love with my ex-fiancee and he doesn't love me anymore. He is still single and tells me that I'm very special to him, but he doesn't love me. I need to get over him in order to find someone else. But, it's not easy and I truly believe that he is my soulmate. Help!!

2007-06-06 05:26:49 · 28 answers · asked by Momof3inIL 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-06 05:25:48 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and he finishes in me every time. i dont really mind so i never say anything. is it really bad that he does that and what are the chances i can get pregnant? should i stop even though it doesnt bother me?

2007-06-06 05:24:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

over for my kids birthday, he's only 2, he'll never remember it anyway. If I fight this battle, will she leave me?

2007-06-06 05:24:05 · 18 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-06 05:23:40 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have quite a few things in commen, yet I do not want to blow it with over eageness. The sex was great and she seemed to like me. Can you help me to understand how to make it happen with her again. Do I act like I could care less? Should I call her? Wait for her to call me? Let her see me with another women? Please help me to understand a womens mind.

2007-06-06 05:21:47 · 18 answers · asked by Ted 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-06 05:16:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

This question can be for both men and women. However, it seems that I often hear more tales of women doing revenge cheating than men do.

FYI, If I had a girlfriend or wife cheated who on me, that would be the end of it for me, period, and I would not play into such a ridiculous game.

2007-06-06 05:14:54 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-06 05:14:50 · 9 answers · asked by zainab afrin 2 in Weddings

So, someone lies to you betrays you, you forgive them. But, just because you've forgiven, does that mean that the person steps back into your life? Or does the person have to earn the place back?

2007-06-06 05:13:15 · 33 answers · asked by why70 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-06 05:12:54 · 16 answers · asked by Proud mother! 6 in Marriage & Divorce