Family & Relationships - 6 June 2007

First off I'm only 16 and my boyfriend is 17 and we have been dating two months but I already like him soo much. He leaves at the end of August to go to boot camp for the Marines and I won't see him for 13 weeks. I have never had sex before and a lot of me really wants to with him but I don't know if I am too young. Some of the girls at my school have already have sex and my friends think of them as whores and I don't want to be known as one. By the way my boyfriend is a virgin too. HELP!

2007-06-06 07:34:06 · 46 answers · asked by steph 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-06 07:26:46 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

btw its a guy

2007-06-06 07:25:32 · 91 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why? Really, what was the reason? Lack of attention at home? Lack of love? I just can't seem to understand.

2007-06-06 07:24:11 · 21 answers · asked by juggalizzle 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been married for 20yrs and recently discovered that my hubby has a myspace page and has himself listed as single.There are no messages whatsoever on his page to or from, however I just cant believe he would take the time to do this and list himself single.Im soo mad Im ready to leave him, do you think im overreacting or is this a hint of other deceptions?please help asap!!??

2007-06-06 07:24:06 · 57 answers · asked by LISA J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met a girl the other day in my summer class and we've become friends...I think. Anyway this girl is pretty cute and I'd like to get to know more about her. We've talked some about the class and the college where we go and stuff like that but I dont want our conversations to get old. What can we talk about to keep things interesting? Something that can spurn a real conversation.

Thanks!

2007-06-06 07:23:33 · 12 answers · asked by packerswes4 5 in Singles & Dating

one day i met a great guy with the kindest and most beautiful eyes and heart, he did things for me no one else would i didn't realized it... after 6 months i realized that i wasn't being as nice as i was supposed to be but i did always love him tremendously,
i have tried to be the perfect girl (physically and emotionally) since then and we've been together for a year now yet i feel like the love in him is dying, just because he's sad and i can't figure out why... i want to help him but he tells me he's happy and in love even though his actions say otherwise , he's trying too hard to keep me happy that he doesn't realize my happiness will only come when HE's happy(even though i've told him), we are starting to drift apart and neither one of us know why, i need help we both do, we both are fighters help... please.. my heart is breaking and i'm tired of tears...i'm really depressed :(

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2007-06-06 07:22:23 · 41 answers · asked by Meow! 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this girl(24 yr old) and I'm 26, we met for a coffee and then chatted the next day on internet....she said she feels comfortable with me, but wants to take things slow because she has been in abusive relationships..so she asks if I would like to come over as a friend and stay the night, even sleep in same bed as her....I ask if she wants me to sleep in shorts since we are friends..she says no, whatever i normally sleep in is fine.....then she says she usually sleeps naked, but will wear PJs that will be uncomfortable to sleep in...do you think she is looking to do more then just sleep?

2007-06-06 07:21:54 · 6 answers · asked by Canada G 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I have been dating my current girlfreind off and on for about a year and right now this is our 6th month straight and im starting to get bored.
i care about her and i don't want to hurt her i don't know what to do. I don't get to see her as often as i like and i've tried to get her parents to loosen up (im 18 shes 17) so we could see each other more but that looks like a no go. I know it would hurt her if we broke up but i really care, I feel like im stuck between being in a relationship that i would have no fun in and losing someone I care about

2007-06-06 07:21:11 · 18 answers · asked by justin_digitaldevil07 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-06 07:19:47 · 3 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Singles & Dating

How come you dont see the same phenomenon among women ? Women are still looking forward to marriage as much as their peers 50 years ago despite the high divorce rates. Why did the social change majorly affect mens marriage willingness and had only very little impact on womens marriage willingness ?

2007-06-06 07:17:41 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It annoys me when my boyfriends comes over my apt and he never cleans up after himself...........leaving me to do it...........

2007-06-06 07:17:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-06 07:14:58 · 9 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Singles & Dating

Hi Im 15 and my girlfriend keeps on going on asking when we are going to have sex. I don't feel ready and want to wait with her but also really dont want to upset her. We have been together nearly 8 months now and really close but I don't know what to say. What should I do?

2007-06-06 07:14:45 · 34 answers · asked by simon 1 in Singles & Dating

So here is my dilemna-
My husband and I met when my daughter was 2, married when she was 3.
I had her ears pierced when she was 3 months old and always wore them until she was about 4. At that time one got stuck and we couldn't get the back off. We had to use plyers. So my husband said no more earrings until she is old enough to put them on herself.
I agreed to wait until she was old enough. At about 8 she wanted to start wearring them again. He said she can't wear them full time until she is at least 13.
In 3rd grade (age 9) I bargained with him for wed/sunday. He said fine as long as we don't discuss it again until she is 12.
Well, today is wednesday and she had them on. He totally freaked out and said he meant only during the school year.
It is summer she is not even around anyone. I am her mother and I want some sort of say in this. Am I wrong. Shouldn't I have some sort of decision make power here? Why does this marriage have to bea dictatorship?

2007-06-06 07:14:40 · 26 answers · asked by momof2 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband plays video games constantly. He doesn't help with the house work or children. I'm begnning to think he has lost interst in me. How do I approach him about my feelings and concerns. Should I just take what he is not saying, to mean he is ready to move on and his video games is an escape. And I should eventually read between the lines.

2007-06-06 07:14:07 · 38 answers · asked by overthetopkid 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband's uncle just passed away, and the funeral is Saturday.

I need a sounding board--I don't know what approach I should take as my husband is at work and wants to discuss this when he gets home in a few hours.

The pros of going:
--Support for family

The cons of going:
--10 hour journey with 2 stop, but with a 2 year old who has a really bad cold and myself being nearly 7 months pregnant, it takes around 14 hours to get there.
--I was just diagnosed with gestational hypertension; I'm running, on average, 190/100.
--We're moving on Thursday of next week and still have half of the house to pack.
--ALSO because we're moving, money is fairly tight. With gas prices the way they are now, it would still cost a pretty penny.

As you can tell, I'm leaning against not going BUT I want some other opinions. I'm hormonal and sometimes when you're hormonal, you tend to overreact and not make the best judgement calls.

What do you think?

2007-06-06 07:12:33 · 15 answers · asked by FaZizzle 7 in Family

im 19 and i have a cousin whose 14 and we have been really good friends all our life...since we met...weve been so close....

she holds my hands and hugs me...sits close to me...eats with me we go out together...and everything we do it together...and she even started to sit on my lap when she was around 4 or 5 years old....and i already had started thinking she was cute when she was around 9 or 10 and a few yrs later i fell in love with her....and shes so close to me still...even now she hugs kisses sits on my lap....and eats goes out with me says im cute...and stuff...and she says that im cute....and shes so attached to me...and she said she doesnt want any guy in her life ever but me...and she doesnt have a boy friend...she thinks of me as sort of her boy friend....and we are both living in pakistan....and we both are muslims....and my parents wont accept her because she has a darker skin colour than me...and i truely love her...and i think she loves me...i really want to marry her

2007-06-06 07:10:58 · 7 answers · asked by mr nobody 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im more comfortable with it since it saves a lot of stress as going through the process of changing it is too much trouble for me. But my husband seems to have a problem with it and this is causing a lot of quarells.
Am I wrong to keep my maiden name?

2007-06-06 07:10:20 · 18 answers · asked by Babe30 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend's sister, and my friend, is getting into all sorts of things that she shouldn't be, just falling into the wrong crowd. She started talking to me (she's only a year younger than us) about it and people freaking out about her, and I want to know what a good way to talk to her is without telling her what to do or scolding her.
She's a friend, but she's also my best friend's little sister, and my best friend is worried.
How is the best way to help both?

2007-06-06 07:08:35 · 11 answers · asked by KM 2 in Friends

why dont they remove while they play. i just want to know. is there anyone who explain the reason behind it.

2007-06-06 07:05:48 · 9 answers · asked by vivekijs 3 in Singles & Dating

how do u tell if she like and also how to u tell if she turn on

2007-06-06 07:04:53 · 4 answers · asked by James is the name 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-06 07:04:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

and have had a long relationship with someone and they have done something in the past you cant get over, does that mean you are not really in love with them and are just used to them?

2007-06-06 07:01:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex wife moved in with a man 4 days after our separation. Two years later I'm single, by choice, and she is in that very shaky relationship. She and I still talk and get alone well enough. While married she had to have a hysterectomy. At the time I accepted that I'd not have more kids. About 6 months ago I was kicking around the idea of a vasectomy. At the time I wasn't sure I'd have a ride home after the procedure so I asked if she'd be able to help me with that. She agreed. A month or so back she asked me about it and I told her I had decided not to get it. She freaked out. She went on and on about how I took her son from her and she can't have kids but I can. I do have custody of our son. We have a set visitation schedule but the reality is she sees him pretty much whenever she wants, excluding when she and the b/f are fighting and she calls to say she doesn’t want him there that day. Why is she upset that I can still have children if I choose to?

2007-06-06 07:00:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-06 07:00:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My sister always choses to hang out with our neighbor ( 8 years) and my sis is 11!! She never choses me! I'm always nice 2 her! What could i do wrong?? I'm ALWAYS there 4 her and i'm always nice 2 her. But she doesn't even notice or care! I asked once what wuz wrong but she didn't answer. She just started 2 laugh. What should i do?

2007-06-06 06:56:36 · 10 answers · asked by dancegirly1995 2 in Family

I have heard that people tha have their tonges split can frenchkiss better or that you feel more pleasure... and not ounly when you frenchkiss... because you learn to muve the both halvs independently and therefore can make other types of mouvements

2007-06-06 06:56:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need to know.

2007-06-06 06:50:14 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, me and my bf went out 4 bout a week. Then he came up 2 me 1 day and said dat we should get bak 2gether wen we noe eachother better (we started going out bout 2 weeks after meeting). So i didnt freak out and he thought dat waz really cool. I still walked him home after skool and we hung out on his porch often. Now he says not 2 walk him home anymore and idk y! Im freaking out. i tried 2 talk 2 him but da right words just wouldnt come out. idk wat 2 do, i really like him and i dont wanna lose him. wat should i do???

2007-06-06 06:39:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating