2007-06-06 07:04:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
First of all, how old are you? If you're a teen, it's normal that she's acting bitchy, trying to stick her nose in your business and the like. It's a complicated stage, you're becoming an adult and she doens't like your behaviour. You should do your best to show her that you trying to behave the way she'd like you to, that you're willing to cooperate. Being rebellious isn't going to help at all. Let her set up rules, and if you're going to brake them, at least make sure she will never find out. If she sees a possitive behaviour on your part she'll eventually relax and trust you more.
You should also talk to her whenever you can, about school, movies, TV whatever. It will help strengthen your bond with her. And try not to argue. Talking back to her is really not a good idea. It's better to let her think she's right.
When I was 14/15 I didn't get along with my mother at all, but now I'm really close to her. So just remember that it's temporary. Your relationship with her is likely to change.
2007-06-06 08:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by Cocó 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not chose you family... And remember all those years ago it was your mom who gave birth to you. I imagine she loved you since the moment she found out she was carrying you in her tummy. Maybe mom just wants best for you... Maybe its you with the problem...
And if it is mom being horrible.... Just try not communicating with her until she treats you right. It also might help to talk to someone close to her and ask them what they feel you should do....
2007-06-06 08:00:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out on your own and pay your own way. You will get to do what you want and you'll get some insight into why your mom acts the way she does. You might also gain a little more respect for her.
2007-06-06 07:10:52 · answer #3 · answered by J D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as a mom sometimes we just need someone to talk to. we have alot of things to deal with in a day - job, housework, cooking, laundry etc. sometimes we need a helping hand and sometimes we just act like a B - seems to me everyone does from time to time. talk to to and see what the problem is -- it may or may not be you.
2007-06-06 07:18:13 · answer #4 · answered by crazicowgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
speaking as a mom....there is a reason we are B*tches......sometimes it has nothing to do with you, sometimes you are a jerk, sometimes.....we are just people that have normal everyday issues. Have you stopped for a moment and asked...is there anything i can do to help?! No i am sure you just sit back and expect your mother or others to do things for you....you are part of the problem...not the solution!
2007-06-06 07:13:30 · answer #5 · answered by Lil_bit_witty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone and keep my distance! Besides, I wouldn't be interested in maintaining a relationship with someone who's going to be a major pain in the neck-especially someone who doesn't have any respect for anyone!
2007-06-06 07:42:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she really, or is it, that she is not letting you do what you want to do...
Parents often seem harsh when they have to lay down guidelines...
Take some time to look inwardly at yourself.
A professor once told me:"want to see a change in others...you might start with #1"
Good Luck!
2007-06-06 07:35:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You move out support yourself instead of living in her home.
You are very disrespect full and ungrateful to the person who gave you life. Wake up and grow up.
2007-06-06 07:22:22 · answer #8 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is she being a *****? You are not being specific on what she did to you and what you did to make her turn into a *****?? There is always 2 sides to a story.
2007-06-06 07:46:18 · answer #9 · answered by SG GAL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just deal with the crap until it is time for me to live on my own thats what I would do... :-)
2007-06-06 07:08:18 · answer #10 · answered by Flawless 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋