Family & Relationships - 6 June 2007

my gf who i have been with for almost 3 years left because i wasnt mormon, but now after a month of pain and misery, i am becoming mormon on my own terms. she left me because i wasnt mormon and she wanted to see other people, but she has been out on dates with a different guy almost every day, and me and her still kiss. she tells me that she wants to play the field but im lost in that part. she is my best friend to me but i think differentelly of how she thinks of me cause when she talks to me when she is hanging out with another guy or just stopped talking to them that she gets short with me. but when she is with me she is nice, i put her at the top of my list cause i will help her with anything but she only comes to me when she has noone to talk to or hangout with some one please tell me whats going on

2007-06-06 05:12:30 · 8 answers · asked by d_smugglin86 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am married with three children and have been having serious problems with my marriage. I guess it really started two years ago where my husband left me and my children so he could figure things out; he refused to tell me where he was, openened a PO box, and started to move his paycheck to another account. This situation would have left me high and dry as I was a housewife at the time and would have no way to support our family. So I stayed by my phone any waited for his calls so I could beg him to come home. A week later he came home and I found out that he was receiving letters from a girl he met while on duty. These letters talked about him visiting her and how much she loved him. Never really seeing what he had done was wrong, I eventually forgave him. Little did I know, last month (the day before mother's day), I relived the same thing all over again; my daughter told me that while I was at school, he was looking at women on sites such as match.com.

2007-06-06 05:12:06 · 38 answers · asked by Missy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My Dad wanted to visit my brother, sister-in-law and his children. He asked my brother and he said that it would not be convenient for them. My brother will be out of town and his daughter who is 6 will be in horseback riding camp all day. She will be cranky and not much fun according to my brother.

I think that this was wrong of my brother. He should have asked his wife to make accommodations for my Dad to visit for a few hours. My parents don't see these grandkids very often. They live about 3000 miles away.

I won't say anything but it just makes me mad. I told my Dad not to go if that's his reaction. They are too protective about thier daughter anyway. She won't get to know her grandfather though if they do this too much. My dad is 73 and not in the best of health.

He was going to visit them for a few hours and then staying with some other friends.

2007-06-06 05:11:50 · 8 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Family

She's been living w/ my mother-in-law for almost 18 months. She messed up, joined bad crowds, was behaving in a really unacceptable way. We had to punish her severely. She apologized, said she regretted and would change. But anyway we were firm, she was grounded from almost evrything for 4 months, had a bad time. Maybe we went overboard, but we wanted to be able to trust her again. This let the girl devasted, she didn't expect that from us, and though she changed got extremely resentful and depressed. Her grandma loves her a lot, had some influence over my hubby, gave the girl love and trust and we agreed she spent some time with her. She moved, made new friends, new school, today is a wondeful girl, but never gor over what happened. Says we didnt trust her, weren't her parents when she needed us most. She doesnt want to come back home and her granma neither. She hardly talks w/ us, avoids us. Should I make her get back home anyway? I feel I'm losing my girl, this is devastating

2007-06-06 05:11:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm not talking sex.

I want to know what you have sacrificed or gave in order to get or keep what you considered love?

2007-06-06 05:11:07 · 14 answers · asked by Still*Perfect 4 in Singles & Dating

Just married, I haven't changed my last name yet. I have 3 boys. The youngest 2 are biologically my husband's and have his last name. The oldest has my current (maiden)name. I'm thinking of hyphenating my last name with husband's...reason so oldest child won't ever feel left out not having the same last name as everyone else. I'm not sure if I'm making a big deal out of this. He's 7 and he has told me that he doesn't mind if I just take my husband's last name and he would have the only different last name in the house.

2007-06-06 05:11:02 · 5 answers · asked by webby 1 in Family

my bf and i had been on bad terms and he stop being affectionate with me and gentle and when we chatted online today, i asked him if the time for our date was good and he said 'yes baby' - he can be sarcastic at times but lately he has been acting like he wants to change.

2007-06-06 05:10:21 · 13 answers · asked by thetruth 2 in Singles & Dating

alright so i had this girlfriend... everyone told me she could do so much better than me but i didn't think she could.
we broke up a bit ago and i'm starting to see what people were saying.
shes:
funny
smart
hot as he.ll
great personality
always makes people laught, even when she's in a bad mood.
takes care of everyone she cares about
very independent
very outgoing
always tries to help

i guess i didn't realize how good she was til she was gone.
the problem is i dumped her and i've started dating a new girl. and she's so got this thing for a guy who, i'm not ashamed to admit, is better than me.
he has a great job, new car, very caring, anytime she's needed him whether we were together or not he'd come help her.

i guess i'm feeling that i lost a good thing... how can i make sure i made the right choice by dumping her?

2007-06-06 05:04:04 · 26 answers · asked by True_Blue 1 in Singles & Dating

Being a foreign student in the another country sure is lonely.I try to make friends but it is unsuccessful.Well,maybe because sometimes I have a problem with understanding their accent.They seem don't understand my accent too(sometimes).And I don't know the stuffs they like to chat so they look at me like a idiot.I still have to catch up a lot of things in study and don't have time to talk with.Well...I am sort of good at study and usually get A+ in average;so I think they are jealous because I am not come from a impressive country and they kinda underestimate me at first.But then when they discover that I am better than them,they try to make me sad by advoiding me(in the way telling me like;you are good at study but you don't have any friend at all).So I really need advises.Help me,PLEASE!!I am desperate.

2007-06-06 05:03:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

...expect my guests to pay the $4 it costs to get into the park where my reception is?

I'm having my reception at a state park that it costs $4 a day to get into to. I could insert vouchers to get in, but I don't get a discount or anything, and I'm trying to find ways to trim my budget so that I can accomplish what I would like to do. It is only $4 a car and everyone in my family has been there and knows of the cost. Half of them have yearly passes. It just seems logical to cut this, but don't want to assume too much. I'm having a fairly large wedding, and it would save me mucho dinero. I'm not cheap, just overbudget as it is.

Also, should I mention the fee on the reception card if I choose not to include the voucher? Again I don't want to assume that everyone knows or is going to think about the fee.

Thanks.

2007-06-06 04:57:30 · 15 answers · asked by aerishkigal 2 in Weddings

My sister is getting married!!! How much should I put in the card?

2007-06-06 04:54:18 · 13 answers · asked by DK 3 in Weddings

I am feeling the kind of down...

2007-06-06 04:53:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hi,
I was just wondering how often you have sex when you are in a relationship or married. I have heard that the average is around three times a week and I just wondered if this indeed was correct.

Thanks and I know this is personal but I am just curious.

2007-06-06 04:51:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know a man that lies to his wife because he doesn't want to hurt her feelings. He feels like its best to do that so she won't get hurt. So why do things to hurt the other person?

2007-06-06 04:51:43 · 23 answers · asked by Sunshine 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-06 04:50:45 · 3 answers · asked by dennis 1 in Family

My boyfriend recently reconnected with an old friend. They hadn't spoken in 4 years and decided to email back in forth which was fine, until they started flirting. He argued that because they were friends, it can't be considered as flirting and I want to know what you think. They sent each other pictures and he called her beautiful, talked about an old photo he still has of her, tellng her how cute she looked back then. He wrote to her saying that he looks forward to getting her emails everynight, and that they are what he looks forward to at the end of the day. She told him that he looks great in his photos and that she still keeps an old valentines day card that he gave her in underneath her matress. She actually came down to see and while she was here my boyfriend and I took her out where they continually walked of wihout me, leaving me behind.
Do YOU consider it flirting? Let me know!

2007-06-06 04:50:00 · 29 answers · asked by short n sweet 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-06 04:49:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi im polly ( no lez) its just this grl from skwl says brunettes are better and me bein blonde i just wanted to know wot the lads thought ??????????

2007-06-06 04:46:09 · 31 answers · asked by pollypolly000 1 in Singles & Dating

i don't what to do.. i hate my boyfiriend but i miss him and I still love him...
thing is, few days ago, he said he will come to my place then we will go out together... so I called in sick from work and waited for im but he never showed up.. this is not the first time he did this to me, but I forgive him.. I mean i understand him, we used to be on the same office but he moved to another company for a higher position, so i have extended my patience and understand him.. but this last time that he didn't show up, it's breaking me like hell.. he only call me up on the next day which i havent answered also bec i am at work.. I broke him up thru email but he didnt email me back.. I erased all his information.. but I realized I missed him thats why i emailed him again telling im sorry... still there was no reply.. this whole thing is making me crazy.. please enlighten me up what's the best thing to do...

2007-06-06 04:45:56 · 25 answers · asked by jami... 2 in Singles & Dating

a different ring cause he was assuming i wouldnt marry my fiance . He was having an affair with her and was confident she wouldnt marry me.... Should i tell him to buy me another engagement ring for my wife....

2007-06-06 04:45:28 · 12 answers · asked by bust15nutz 3 in Weddings

can anyone please tell me where i can find good web hosts.and can you give me ideas as to what to put on the sit to make it more memorable and fun.i've got just about a month left so i dont have much time left.
p.s-i tried formattinh it on paper first and after two pages it looked very boring and i was short of ideas.

2007-06-06 04:44:35 · 6 answers · asked by lovesexy 2 in Singles & Dating

It's so annoying, because if I want to buy something productive, my mom will say no and threaten to punish me if I do. Then later she'll come and take my money and use it to buy something else.

We (meaning us kids) NEVER get to buy anything that we want! (cell phones, computers, laptops, ipods, educational things, etc.)

2007-06-06 04:44:01 · 9 answers · asked by . 4 in Family

I am 53 years old and getting a divorce from my husband, who cheated on me. The truth is, even though I still have my daughter, the thought of her growing up and leaving me on my own terrifies me. Am I too old to fall in love again?

2007-06-06 04:43:48 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I guess I am question "black" but it's nice and cute and I could wear it again and again. Plus it has a lot of coverage which I like... I am not really a sun dress or little strap person. But on the other hand- I don't want to look like a nun.

http://www.daddyos.com/retro/cb15.html

This would be my second choice-
http://www.daddyos.com/retro/epr93.html

An then I go to another extreme and love this one!!
http://www.daddyos.com/retro/epr90.html
But I am afraid I'll look too old.... in it.. like 20 years to late for the prom! LOL

Thanks for all your input!!

2007-06-06 04:42:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-06-06 04:41:56 · 13 answers · asked by t_|_n_A 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been friends for a while, I don't want to end up this friendship. I think he knows that I like him, sometimes he gives me hints but I don't know if he likes me to or I'm just mistaking. I don't know what to do anymore. How can I stop this Plzzz give advice on this situation.

2007-06-06 04:41:17 · 14 answers · asked by dont know everything I might 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2nd husband is being buried with his 1st wife. Children say if new married name is used it will be disrespectul to first husband. I 'm kept my married name when I remarried, just added new name. confusing ,HUH

2007-06-06 04:40:13 · 34 answers · asked by wonderingwidow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My bros sparked a debate on this Brooke Hoga,Jessica Alba,Paris Hilton,Eva Longoria,Ashlee Simpson,Jessica Simpson, or Nelly Furtado? I think the worst competition would be Paris in a girls opinion.

2007-06-06 04:39:45 · 9 answers · asked by Un-Happy Gilmore 4 in Singles & Dating

I love my engagement ring by itself and don't really want the little contour band that goes on at the wedding.

What's your thoughts? I know it's my choice but I was curious if this was typical. Thanks.

2007-06-06 04:38:56 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-06-06 04:37:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating