my gf who i have been with for almost 3 years left because i wasnt mormon, but now after a month of pain and misery, i am becoming mormon on my own terms. she left me because i wasnt mormon and she wanted to see other people, but she has been out on dates with a different guy almost every day, and me and her still kiss. she tells me that she wants to play the field but im lost in that part. she is my best friend to me but i think differentelly of how she thinks of me cause when she talks to me when she is hanging out with another guy or just stopped talking to them that she gets short with me. but when she is with me she is nice, i put her at the top of my list cause i will help her with anything but she only comes to me when she has noone to talk to or hangout with some one please tell me whats going on
2007-06-06 05:12:30 · 8 answers · asked by d_smugglin86 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you are being used and you are the only one that can stop it. sounds like she needs to grow up and treat people right. you need to let her go.
2007-06-06 05:19:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A. Do not join the LDS church for ANY reason other than you believe it to be the restored Church of Jesus Christ, that te Book of Mormon is the word of God just like the Bible, and that we have living prophets today, starting with Joseph Smith. Any other reason, and you are going to regret it, and be very unhappy.
B. Sounds to me like this gf is more trouble than she's worth. Are you SURE she's really worth it? I know it might be hard, but perhaps a clean break will be the best thing for both of you.
2007-06-06 20:12:14 · answer #2 · answered by mormon_4_jesus 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My little brother married a {mormon) they are very religious whatever. He never converted and they divorced seven years later, but he now has 5 kids. Unless you're serious about becoming a mormon you are better off in finding someone else. Sound like, not to be blunt, but she may be using you. Good luck!
2007-06-06 12:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by John B 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
obviously, you're nobody on her list but yet she's first on urs. that makes you whooped!! you need to move on and not revolve your life around her. still be friends, nothing more. she wants to play the field, in other words: she doesn't wanna get serious, she wants to date other guys!! theres more girls out there...find someone who will appreciate YOU!! good luck...
2007-06-06 12:54:28 · answer #4 · answered by girlygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it or move on. People who can't be relied on aren't worth relying on. No matter what, pursue Mormonism for yourself, not for her.
2007-06-07 10:14:39 · answer #5 · answered by je_apostrophe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your sprung and you need to get over her. cheer up buddy this girl is just your master and you nothing but a slave. think of it as a rebound. you dont need that though. just walk away.
2007-06-06 12:25:32 · answer #6 · answered by Big Head 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is so using you. Why do you have to change to make her happy. Only change to make your self happy.
2007-06-06 12:17:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her
2007-06-06 12:15:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋