We have been friends for a while, I don't want to end up this friendship. I think he knows that I like him, sometimes he gives me hints but I don't know if he likes me to or I'm just mistaking. I don't know what to do anymore. How can I stop this Plzzz give advice on this situation.
2007-06-06 04:41:17 · 14 answers · asked by dont know everything I might 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe you should focus more on just the friendship with him than a relationship. Just remember he trust you with probably his most intimate details. If you tell him that you have feeling for him and he's not interested he might end the friendship. If he's gay he might flirt or it he might not be but its what you choose to see because you like him! If its that difficult, put some space between you. Good luck.
2007-06-06 04:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by Lil_MissVal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Accept the fact that he is gay. Treat him as a friend. If it helps, think of him more as a "girl" friend just to take your mind off his looks. I am guessing that you didnt become friends with him just because you thought he was good looking. There is no need to dump a friendship.
Honestly... see if he has the same taste in guys as you. Take him to the mall or a park and look for guys to meet there. You may have more in common then you ever thought.
Just be the friend. Being gay is not a light switch that people turn on and off when its convenient. Accept him for who he is and his lifestyle and be best buds.
If you feel the need... just tell him that you KNOW he is good looking and that you would be willing to date him if he was straight... (its a confidence boost for anyone) Also that you will stand by him and his future relationships because you know that he deserves the best. Best of luck.
2007-06-06 04:51:54 · answer #2 · answered by FuriousRain007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend who did the same thing with our gay friend. they were so much a couple but the only reason they couldn't call it that is because he didnt want to be labeled Bi. I think you should insist he wear a condom, and enjoy your benefits while they last cuz if he is like my gay friend who had sex with our girl friend he will eventually get a new love interest and your sex will go bye bye.
2016-04-01 05:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't really like him per say, you like the man he is and what you see in him you want in a man but because he is gay you cannot have him makes you want him more. Just give yourself time to find a guy who you can have a relationship with.
2007-06-06 04:45:35 · answer #4 · answered by heathermichelle9 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just think about the morbid act that this guy is willing to engage in.
He puts his thing (or wants to) in other men's rear ends. Yes I know it's blunt but ture.
That's disgusting and will instantly cure you of "liking" him.
2007-06-06 04:44:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i can tell you gay people are the most honest people in the world to meet. but liking one is great. just not romatically its not fair to him and you. they are just framed with one mind andthey really can't make it with oposiste sex.
2007-06-09 18:29:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you are in the same area being gay you should back away or you will be deeply hurt.
2007-06-06 04:57:04 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie he is gay just remember that
2007-06-06 04:44:28 · answer #8 · answered by Murders Princess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u can turn a gay man to normal if u really want to help him
2007-06-06 04:44:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
you could talk to him but he's gay so he probably don't like u .
sorry
2007-06-06 04:45:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋