Family & Relationships - 6 June 2007

2007-06-06 02:40:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother always told my sister & I growing up that if we did not have a big wedding her & my dad would help my sister & I with a down payment on a house. My fiance & I are going to be married April '08, but we are buying our home in January b/c our apartment lease will be up. I recently asked my mother if her & my dad could give us the money before our wedding so we could have a better downpayment on our home. She said that would be fine at 1st and then 2 days later she told me it was not nice of me to ask for the money before our wedding. I said well if I was having a big wedding you would be helping me out now. I don't want to sound like a spoiled brat or anything. Everything would have been fine if she would have never told us that she would help us out with a down payment. She is helping my sister out now with her wedding. I don't know why she won't help me out with a home. I don't know what I should do please help me out.

2007-06-06 02:39:42 · 11 answers · asked by Amy J 1 in Weddings

I have been finding songs to play at my wedding and most of the are from the 50's is it okay to have that as the only thing? Because I will have alot of older people attending and I thought it would be nice to have something they use to listen too....Help!>!>! I'm so confused.!

2007-06-06 02:38:07 · 27 answers · asked by Lishia 2 in Weddings

im female and im trying to say Best Friends to a male, but in russian.. can anyone help.. I know friend is said Droog, but how would i say best friends if im speakign to the opposite sex.

2007-06-06 02:37:46 · 1 answers · asked by *starrynight* 1 in Singles & Dating

i answered the phone and told her i couldnt talk right now but she keeps calling and she isnt leaving any messages.

2007-06-06 02:32:40 · 26 answers · asked by jesse 2 in Friends

Hi i will be turning 25 next week on 17 june... do u think it's time for me to get married?
I havent met anyone yet and wonder when i will meet him :(
Please tell me what is the perfect age for a girl to get married?
I want to study further... I am just a graduate and wants to start some business...
Please advise...

thank you

2007-06-06 02:32:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

wat do i no help me

2007-06-06 02:31:40 · 12 answers · asked by delaneybaird13db 1 in Singles & Dating

I have told her my needs over and over and she doesn't do anything about it or even wants to talk about it. She bailed out and we see each other at her convenience. She wants her cake and eat it too. I am getting nothing out of this relationship, but I still love her.
I told her I'm ending it; and all the reasons why I'm ending it. It's hard to do; but I can't keep going on like this. I think 7 months is long enough for her to decide what she wants.

Am I wrong for doing this?

2007-06-06 02:31:37 · 19 answers · asked by Keeper 4 in Marriage & Divorce

one night we were having foreplay, which turned into sex, but before the sex, she said she was too dry and needed to use lube. she said she didnt want to hurt in the morning... am i doing something wrong or is this normal??

2007-06-06 02:30:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

http://www.target.com/gp/browse.html/ref=sc_fe_l_0_16033001_1/602-3343630-7381424?ie=UTF8&node=34700601

Or any other alternative place other then a bridal store??

2007-06-06 02:30:28 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

to the wedding, or should i wear a shoe with a heel? The flip flops i would be wearing are brown and shiny with gold sequins on them.

2007-06-06 02:30:01 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am 8 years younger than my guy, and I am still all about having sex, but he is like we need to be responsible we dont need anymore kids....and sometimes it is a pain in the rear to trun him on to the point sometimes its not worth it, but once i get his where he wants it, he is all about it....So my question is what is a never fail way to turn a guy on?

2007-06-06 02:28:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-06 02:27:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have been going out with my boyfriend for over a year now and he made a comment about my hair how it looked really bad I have not heard from him for a month can guys be that nasty and not want to see a girl because of her hair?

2007-06-06 02:26:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-06 02:25:31 · 12 answers · asked by Lefty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why is that when your man lets you out of the bedroom or the kitchen... you think it's acceptable to cheat? 99% of all women really cheat. Instead of cheating, why not respect your man, and pick up the broom or at least start dinner?

2007-06-06 02:24:30 · 22 answers · asked by andrew a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have not had sex in a long time, and I've got back really tight again. Well, the other night me and my boyfriend tried to have sex and we can't. He's hard, and then when he tries to put it in me i'm so tight it hurts him, and he goes limp again.

He told me it's got nothing to do with me. I mean, that i turn him on and everything, but something seems not normal about this. I'm 20, and he's 31, but I dont' think it should make any difference. We love each other, but could his age have any thing to do with this. Or is there something I don't know. Please help me out here. And none of those "dont' have sex untill your married" notes please, thanks

2007-06-06 02:21:28 · 15 answers · asked by wingedstrider 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-06 02:19:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

...if you can get them to do it, that is. I have heard this one repeatedly.

2007-06-06 02:18:47 · 17 answers · asked by Gaius_Cassius_Longinus 2 in Singles & Dating

Our wedding is on March 22, 2008 so we still have 9 months till the wedding and were not sure when we should register.

2007-06-06 02:18:45 · 11 answers · asked by jenn p 3 in Weddings

I've got abt $150 US savings in an envelope tucked away in my drawer, at the bottom of a huge pile of stuff like books and pens. i've been keeping it there since about 1 year and a half ago, and recently it's stolen. My parents are fuming, pushing all the blame on me, though I suspect a certain someone who gains entrance to our home cuz she does chores when the family's away. So, am I really the one to blame? Please reply and thanks.

2007-06-06 02:17:22 · 10 answers · asked by Lady Fish 3 in Family

I still love my wife dearly, but sha as made it plain that she do's not want to have sex. I have tried talking to her but she is adament she is no longer inerested in a sexual relationship. She is 7 years older than me and I still need a physical relationship, she claims she still loves me. What should I do, I don't want to upset her but I have sexual needs.

2007-06-06 02:14:43 · 32 answers · asked by LordSmurf 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-06 02:13:52 · 30 answers · asked by Lisa O 2 in Weddings

Hello,
Since my dad died and my mum kicked me out, I have not spoken to my mum, I am doing well in my life, I was living with my gf,whos parents happen to be close friends of my mum, now that I have broken up with my gf, my mother is trying the old, I care about him alot and vindictive trick to make people think she is nice and caring and I am the one with the problem,
the question is I don't want her back in my life, I am getting along just fine, what would you do in this situation.
PS: My gf dad clearly like me and would like to see me and thier daughter together, but my drama with my mum who is their mate is making things difficult, now he has been asking what the story is?

2007-06-06 02:12:51 · 10 answers · asked by Intellithug 3 in Family

My best friend from college happened to get engaged in Nov and her wedding is 1 month after mine. Her Bridal Shower is June 23 and I had plans set that afternoon my future sister in law....the shower is like and hour and a half from where I live and I fear I wont have enough time to make my previous plans. (and even if I did it would be by the skin of my teeth). Am I terrible for not wanting to go to the shower? I'm her bridesmaid, and she's mine, but its so far away...(not to mention I'm having a feeling this might be my bachelorette party and my friend didnt make it to my shower- not that this part plays any role in my decision)

2007-06-06 02:12:43 · 16 answers · asked by ♥Mommy to 3 year old Jacob and baby on the way♥ 7 in Weddings

Q5 Is it wrong to hate your wife?

Now, i have this wife, shes smart, beautiful, but the problem here is; she studied Psychology. And, we all know what happens when a woman is old enough to be your mother, and most probably studied Psychology as well as some other BS, is that she is going to use what she has against you. As well, as witholding her love e.g. kisses.

Now, this girl whatever she is, has known me for a long time, but i've been what you could consider jail bait, im a good looking guy (some would consider a heart throb - what she loves to call the younger Johnny Depp). Now, even though i posses the smarts on the rare odd occasion, lets face it im NO genius. Even though i like to sympathise with Malcolm in "Malcolm In the Middle".

The question here is folks (and maybe my old lady too, not that one!); should i dislike my wife from loving and devoted to down one notch to "like" because i found out that her mental abuse she had put me through was all for her own pleasure

2007-06-06 02:08:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2yrs and living together for 1yr. Lately I've been really frustrated with having to pay bills and such. I've been feeling like I should move back home. But I feel it'd be wrong to bail out on him and just leave him stuck with an apartment alone. I love him so much but have you ever felt like your missing something in your life? That there are other things your supposed to be doing? I kind of feel that way.. and I feel guilty for feeling that way. I'm happy WITH him... But I'm not fully satisfied with my lifestyle.

Idk what to do. I don't want to leave him.. but I feel somewhat empty.

2007-06-06 02:03:58 · 19 answers · asked by CrazyBeautiful 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Lets say you had a very passionate lover who made you feel like you were on cloud nine in everyway when you made love. lets say you and this lover were very close and had fun together. But for some reason you split up. How do you move on after a great lover has exited your life?

2007-06-06 02:03:42 · 9 answers · asked by Big Sam D 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am never happy for freinds who find love.

instead i feel angry taht it didn't happen to me. and it puts the pressure on me to find the one.

i often wish that they get dumped or they break up with their love. just so it can make me feel better.

like everytime i hear from my friend, i pray that she says that he cheated on her or something just to make me feel better.

cause i don't have anybody and never been in love before.

does this make me evil?

2007-06-06 02:03:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-06 02:03:01 · 5 answers · asked by sunil 1 in Other - Family & Relationships