i am never happy for freinds who find love.
instead i feel angry taht it didn't happen to me. and it puts the pressure on me to find the one.
i often wish that they get dumped or they break up with their love. just so it can make me feel better.
like everytime i hear from my friend, i pray that she says that he cheated on her or something just to make me feel better.
cause i don't have anybody and never been in love before.
does this make me evil?
2007-06-06 02:03:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i go to the museum, read books and go to the library and nothing good ever comes out of it. actually i am sick of doing things by myself.
i am nice to other ppl but i haven't found love yet. it hasn't benefited me at all. i am still alone.
i just get mad everytime i see someone find love when i feel i am much more deserving. and i hate seeing my friend with her boyfriend kissing and flaunting her relationship. it makes me angry because i want that. so i choose not to talk to her at all. it causes me pain
2007-06-06 02:16:19 · update #1
You are Full of Jealousy......Green with envy. You need to Love yourself, because as soon as you love yourself you won't have these feelings.......then you can give the love away to someone else......
You need to Remember that you are a Princess. You are a diamond (in the rough). You are Priceless. A treasure to behold.....Remember who you are.....and walk in the Love of Knowing who you are.
2007-06-06 02:09:38 · answer #1 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.. you are not evil...i think you feel like saying when is it going to be my turn?.... that has made you a little bit resentful, and you know i'm a firm believer that things happen for a reason, maybe it just isn't the right time for you as yet eventhough you think it's long overdue... i was single for a few years before i met my partner, i was enjoying my life without putting too much pressure on myself to find someone...and it was then when i was giving up looking that my partner and i actually found each other.... relax! and enjoy your life as it is now learn about yourself more, make yourself a better person, work on you, and be kind to yourself, don't worry about anything else... and just watch how things fall into place when the time is right.
2007-06-06 02:16:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No you are not evil. You are just bitter/jealous that you may not have found your true love. Just don't tell your friends, this is something that should be kept to yourself. Don't worry love will come to all in any shape, size and form. Everyone does have love at least one time in their lives and for some there are more. Good luck.
2007-06-06 02:15:34 · answer #3 · answered by Jamezy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Evil....close. Extremely frightening, vindictive, catty, and over all jealous...absolutely.
It scares me....your depth of self-loathing right now. I know people deal with things differently, but your secret desire to see your friends hurt, deceived, or unhappy is not healthy. And you are no friend at all to them.
You need to do a self-inventory and learn to relax. Do you realize that your negativity is pushing any prospective men away? Men are attracted to women where they see they will be an enjoyable person to know.
You need to work on yourself before you even consider dating....your behavior. Go buy some literature on improving your confidence and esteem. Affirm to yourself that you are as great as you believe, and put it to use.
Good Luck, and stop those ill-feelings you are harboring. Your friends are happy. You are the one holding the animosity. Its time for you to face the music.
2007-06-06 02:10:46 · answer #4 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're evil, you just don't have enough going on in your life to enjoy it. Think of this...when you exude positivity and kindness, you'll get it back in return. I think that when you start feeling better about yourself (not having a significant other does not make you a loser) and feel happy for your friends happiness, happiness will start shining on you. That will attract the right person to you too.
2007-06-06 02:11:25 · answer #5 · answered by crabbyone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are evil. You wish others bad and that makes you evil. You will have a hard time finding love with a heart that black. Learn some generosity and kindness.
2007-06-06 02:11:02 · answer #6 · answered by Wicked Little Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!......not evil...more like envious....why waste time concentrating on other peoples relationship.. when you try look for someone special your self....
2007-06-06 02:14:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care whether or not you are - you're not. Be patient. What goes around comes around, or in other words, you get what you give.
2007-06-06 02:08:54 · answer #8 · answered by John R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your are just jealous it is ok
2007-06-06 02:22:18 · answer #9 · answered by christy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bitter. not evil.
2007-06-06 02:06:50 · answer #10 · answered by panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋