Hi i will be turning 25 next week on 17 june... do u think it's time for me to get married?
I havent met anyone yet and wonder when i will meet him :(
Please tell me what is the perfect age for a girl to get married?
I want to study further... I am just a graduate and wants to start some business...
Please advise...
thank you
2007-06-06 02:32:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am currently working and i earn quite well...
2007-06-06 02:39:14 · update #1
Well, there is no right time to get married. You have to feel that. Of course if you want to get pregnant is going to be more difficult when you’re getting old, but nowadays it's just a problem after you turn 45!!! So, you have plenty of time to find the right person, and that is what really matter... Don’t care about family or social opinion, just be patient and you‘ll find the right person and will know the right time.
But if you are an Indian girl you have to be careful!!! The Indian girls are the most beautiful, attractive and sexy girls in the world and sometimes is difficult to find the right person among so many candidates.
2007-06-06 09:35:16 · answer #1 · answered by cleciods 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know this may sound cliche but the perfect age for you to get married is when you have met the right person and feel you are ready to get married. There is no such thing as a perfect age. Just consider your life goals: where you are in life now, where you want to be in the future, and what is important to you. Love usually comes along when you are not looking for it. So my advice is do what you are planning to do with your career and still keep an open mind and healthy social life and you will be fine. Good Luck with your career and future with or with a man 8)!
2007-06-06 02:45:47 · answer #2 · answered by Sparkles_65 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's really a "perfect" age to get married. It all depends on when you meet Mr. Right, but I will tell you this- for the most part, guys your age are NOT husband material yet- most of the 25-year-old guys I know are still quite immature and selfish, not to mention pigheaded. If I were you, I'd focus on my studies and just do other stuff while waiting for the right guy to come along. Don't get pressured into marrying someone who's not right for you because of wht social norms dictate.
2007-06-06 02:38:58 · answer #3 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 57 and living with my BF. I don't want to get married yet.
25 is young. Take classes, start your business. Live your life. Don't wait for a man to join you to begin your life.Buy and use your good china for yourself.Travel. Stay up late, eating crackers in bed-do things you couldn't do with a guy.
Read romances in the tub, dance naked on the coffee table--go camping with your girlfriends--live!
I have been married. Nothing worse in the whole world than marrying for the wrong reasons- and growing everyday to resent him and be ashamed of yourself for being a weenie.
Make yourself proud. Contribute to the world-with or without a guy- and kids-
YOU matter-all by yourself.
Make your life happen.
There is no perfect time to get married, even after you have met the ONE and have dated for 2 years and know everything there is to know about each other.
Slow down and enjoy YOUR OWN LIFE!
No perfect age for a GIRL to get married-when you start thinking about being a WOMAN- and getting with a grown MAN-then--you might be closer to ready.
My best advice: go back to school. Prepare yourself for you best possible life.
Forget about marriage and the ticking clock. Adopt in 10 years if you must have a child.Meanwhile:prepare and enjoy.
Nothing more attractive than a confident, happy, self- assured woman.--to a confident happy- self-assured man.
You don't want JUST anyone to marry you, right? You want someone who is wonderful- and thinks YOU are wonderful, right? And knows how to keep you happy.
2007-06-06 02:57:46 · answer #4 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, 25 and the whole world of opportunities is yours. First, are you finished with school? What are your own career goals? Think first about what you want to do career wise. As part of that, have you sat down and planned your economic future? How much do you need to make to save in a certain amount of time for a house or stock investments. Once your own goals are defined, think about that same future with a husband somewhere in that time frame. Also children. Think how that would affect your marriage and career.
Marriage is not a matter of age, but being mature enough to accept your husband as he is when you marry and that you won't change him but he'll change on his own anyway and you can deal with those changes. Remember to compromise if need be. No "my way or the highway!"
Arguing about how to squeeze toothpaste tubes is solved by buying two tubes: each gets to do their own thing.
Best of luck and God bless....
2007-06-06 02:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by wrflyer2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hehe, that's crazy. Get married when you are ready. Some people wait well past 25. Trust me I'm 26. Was in love with a guy and kinda wanted to marry him. But something didn't quite click. Turned out that I was right with my instincts. So glad I didn't just get married because of pressure to do so.
2007-06-06 02:37:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no perfect age luv, when you meet the love of your life -then ıt wıll be perfect time for you to marry. İn the meantime go for you career and do what you want, afterall the most attractive female ıs a sucessfull female. ;)
2007-06-06 03:53:05 · answer #7 · answered by miss poem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are only 25. it is time to get married when u are in a relationship and u know that u want to be with him for the rest of your life. also when u have stable income and finished your education.
2007-06-06 02:36:01 · answer #8 · answered by Val 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
26 27 or 28 are the perfect ages...that's just my opinion
2007-06-06 02:37:16 · answer #9 · answered by helloooo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait your time will come.But don't try to rush into anything with guys cause you might scare them away lol...Just keep looking your special someone will come along some day , some where
2007-06-06 02:42:25 · answer #10 · answered by halleyluvu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋