Family & Relationships - 6 June 2007

Personally, I've heard horror stories and I wouldn't let my fiance have one. Why would he need to celebrate with strippers around rather than just have dinner with his frriends. I'll allow him to go out when we are married. Thoughts?

2007-06-06 06:36:22 · 49 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Weddings

I am going to look at a Rainbow System, cedar and redwood swing set today for my children. It is 10 years old and the person who is selling it said they purchased it for $2000 brand new. What is a reasonable price to pay if it is in good condition ?

2007-06-06 06:35:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

well to make it as short as i can,me and my sister was raped for many years on our younger age(the guy who raped us is only few years older than us and he's my cousin,but at that time i thought he was my brother since nobody told me he was my cousin), now i'm 16 ,ma sis's 19 and my father is like the head of the house,only he rules, and what he did when he found out that we've been melested by this monstor, he did nothing ,my cousin live with us when he ws doing this,(& hes still) l and my paps sould've sent him far away,right? i mean what would u do if your flesh was raped? for continious 3/4..years, i was so little that i don't even remember the day the melesting started,so i want some thing from all the readers, please give me the strength to move on and just forget what happened, i cry my eyes out almost everynight and i'm sick of it, i'm sick of my dad,he always give the wrong judgement.i'm sick of it ,i almost wanted to run away,and justhough you know i've never spoken about thi

2007-06-06 06:34:12 · 4 answers · asked by ursis 1 in Family

Some examples are:
1. She was in 11th grade, broke up with her long time boyfriend and couldn't bare to go to school because he was there. Instead wanted to stay home with new boyfriend that dropped out of high school.
2. Decided to quit her job because life is too stressful to go to school and work and that way she can focus more on school. She still failed classes and got kicked out the last week of school because she missed so much. But next year will be better because she will only be going half days.
3. She was suppose to go to summer school but because she did not call, like I told her to,she missed. now she has to go full day next year.

I just don't know what to do with her, I talked, yelled and reasoned still nothing. I'm ready to run away scream. I have explained graduating high school is a requirement but it doesn't seem important to her. She just keeps saying life is too stressful. We have done the couseling thing, didn't help. now what?

2007-06-06 06:34:01 · 13 answers · asked by Indiana Girl 4 in Family

I hear lots of women say that some guys seem "intimidated" by them. It's more "apprehension" than "intimidation". Do you get that? Lots of guys want to approach nice looking women but sometimes don't because they get the feeling that you're automatically misreading their intentions.

So, why do you think they're intimidated and/or apprehensive and what could you do to make things less so?

2007-06-06 06:33:47 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-06 06:32:20 · 16 answers · asked by Gõlden angel 4 in Singles & Dating

And the shy ones aren't?

2007-06-06 06:31:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I was advised to scuff my wedding shoe soles so I don't slip and break my neck at my wedding. What is the best way to do this? Wear them and shuffle across the floor? Take the shoe in hand and scrap it on the cement? Do shoe repair places have a tool to do it?

2007-06-06 06:25:35 · 20 answers · asked by Eternal Love 3 in Weddings

I have seen several questions on here from married women wanting their husbands to iniate sex more often. So my question is how do you like to be aproached for sex. And I know that everyone is different so I am not asking how I should approach my wife I want to know what you like.

2007-06-06 06:23:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If your dress didn't cost your more than $2600, then its cheap. Women your wedding day is special, something you have dreamed of since you were a little girl, don't let the pig you are marrying talk you out of getting less than $2600, if he does then he doesn't love you. Don't wear a cheap dress.. Take care

2007-06-06 06:21:17 · 17 answers · asked by Lavar P 1 in Weddings

My friend filed divorce over a year ago and moved. Since then her husband has been driving their business into the ground, not paying mortgages, going on many vacations and is apparently intent on loosing everything they had together. His lawyer just fired him for non- payment so now she is being told that nothing can be done till he gets another lawyer and they start all over again. Isn't there a motion that can be filed to inform the judge that her husband is intentionally recklessly squandering all their marital assets and dragging the case out??? If she has to wait for him to get another lawyer he will drag it out again until nothing is left to divide!!!

2007-06-06 06:17:45 · 7 answers · asked by dawn m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

eep!

2007-06-06 06:15:14 · 33 answers · asked by Nicole A 1 in Family

I am a nice person and smart. I treat others with respect. I listen to other people when they have problems. Most boys just flirt with me, and let me know through the signals they send that I am cute, pretty girl. But, why don't they treat me with genuine respect or treat me the way they SHOULD? What should I do? Any help?

2007-06-06 06:15:01 · 28 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-06 06:14:09 · 55 answers · asked by "BE HONEST " 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't want to be cheap, nor over the top. I have never been in a wedding, so I have experience to draw from.

So far, I got them a jewelry set (ncklace, earrings and bracelet) They are cute, but not terribly expensive. About $25.

I am also arranging for a Home spa pampering session. Kinda like a home party without the selling. I'll just be buying them a set of pampering items like body lotion and bath scrub or something like that.

Is that enough? Should I add something else?

I also let them pick their own style of dress that fit their taste and budget.

2007-06-06 06:12:57 · 11 answers · asked by Proud Momma 6 in Weddings

I am being married next April and have chosen the colors pink and light blue. I came up with an idea for the centerpieces for the tables at the reception. I call Simple but Elegant.

Materials Needed:

Champagne Flutes
Clear Decorating Stones
Balloons
String
White Tableclothes

Directions:

1. Fill the champagne flutes with the decorating stones
2. Tape the strings for the balloons to the bottom of the glasses
3. Place on the table.

What do you think of this idea? If you have any ideas other than this please fill free to share. I am open to suggestions.

2007-06-06 06:12:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-06-06 06:11:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so my sister isnt in college right now because my mom cant work because she is disabled. im going to be a junior in hs next year and i was thinking that to help my sister be able to back to college is for both of us to work full time and be a part time student at community college.

we dont have that much money but i think and i think i could get into a great school but i think i should just go to community college for my sister, so i can let her get her dream job of being a teacher.


im just wondering if you think that will work or if u have any ideas on how to keep the house pay the other bills and have us both in school while taking care of my brother who will be in hs then. also with helping my mom who will probally never be able to get a job due to arthritus through out her entire body.


im not taking about now but when im in college in aug. 09

2007-06-06 06:11:19 · 9 answers · asked by godschild 5 in Family

Wedding is in Deadwood, SD, a 'destination' wedding place. Casinos and really relaxed. However the bride is wearing a formal gown and the groomsmen are wearing tuxedos. Mother of the bride is not formal; wearing a tea length dress; not a 'mother-of-the-bride' dress.
Wedding is at a Hotel and reception is at a restaraunt.

2007-06-06 06:07:32 · 15 answers · asked by mac01 2 in Weddings

I split up from my ex-girlfriend because I found out she was also dating another guy. This after a 5 year relationship and me wanting to marry her. OK, so it's a couple of weeks later and I meet her and she wants to be with me again but as a lover not as her boyfriend. She wants to keep seeing the new boyfriend and have me on the side. What do you think?

OK, now you've thought about it add the factor that I'm 20 years older than her and the new boyfriend is only 10 years older. Hmm...interesting - maybe?

Then add the fact that I've had a vasectomy and she wants to have kids. It'd have to be IVF with me of course but Mr New is in tact.

So tell me?

2007-06-06 06:06:09 · 22 answers · asked by crow3862000 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for almost 5 years now in my second marriage. A lot of things have happened and I find myself unhappy in this. I truly do not feel the love any more. But my husband is a good person and we've had a child together. But is it fair to him or me to stay in a relationship where I feel unhappy and want to move out of it? What are your thoughts?

2007-06-06 06:04:31 · 24 answers · asked by sistermoon 4 in Marriage & Divorce

What is the deal with men and porn? I mean I can understand a teenager or a single man but a married man with as much sex as he could ever want? Why? I just want to understand... :) I dont think its cheating but Ido find it disrespectful...but if I could understand better maybe I would get over the bad feelings about it. Any takers?

2007-06-06 06:03:39 · 54 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

when my hubby and I got married we didn't really have our "first kiss" till we got away from everybody...my brother (who is older than me) burst out with a very annoying "EEeewwwww" just as we started to kiss which only the first row or two of people, the pastor, my hubby and I and the attendants heard and of course we all started laughing and most of the people there couldn't figure out what was so funny...anyway...trying to come up with something to get him back with...want to keep it clean since I'm not sure if he will be getting married in a church or not...thought about having the sheriff come "arrest" him...but someone else beat her in the past election...

Please help...I'm stuck on ideas here...THANKS!!!

2007-06-06 06:02:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Okay my husband and I are wanting to get remarried. The first time we didnt have a real wedding. We just went to justice of peace. But now we are getting married in a church. I dont even know where to begin in planning this. Should we have bridesmaids and groomsmen? Should we have flowers? Should I wear a wedding dress? Should we put rings on eachother again? What should we do?

2007-06-06 06:01:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

will she just pray that Harold, her pet beaver will bite my finger off. I've always hated that damn thing, and he's never liked me, but if I'm nice to it, maybe I'll get lucky more often.

2007-06-06 05:55:45 · 21 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

She uses their kids to make him feel guilty about marrying someone else. She doesn't want him anymore, but she doesn't want anyone else to have him either. We have been married for 2 1/2 years. Does it get any better with time?

2007-06-06 05:55:34 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How do you know if a boy likes you

2007-06-06 05:55:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been divorced for almost 4 months now and and it was my decision and definitely the right thing to do, but I just can't seem to stop thinking about and missing my ex. I have started seeing someone else whom I care for a great deal and we are moving along slowly and I am very happy but I just can't seem to get thoughts of my ex out of my mind or heart and I am tired of feeling this pain and want to move on. Does anyone have any helpful ideas for my situation?

2007-06-06 05:53:53 · 11 answers · asked by hulagirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

you've moved on with another in some sort of way be it casual or intimate? How does it feel? Are comparing the two or do u still miss them or are you just feeling good and floating on a cloud? I'm curious how one feels after their heart is broken and someone else steps into their life...

2007-06-06 05:53:01 · 7 answers · asked by WOW U all make me feel normal! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am having a small wedding (just my folks and my husband to be) and even with how small it is its already becoming overwhelming! My husband can't have his family (they live far away) and we will do another ceremony when we get to see them again but Because he can't have them now (hes sad) I want to have a party with our coworkers and his friends. We have a very small one bedroom apt and he doesn't want it there, my parents have a rundown old , small house, and we dont have friends with houses, anyone have any good ideas for some place that is free and or fairly cheap (under 50 bucks)

I figured could buy cake, platters of food, and have my family and friends make a few dishes but we need a location! heh

2007-06-06 05:51:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings