I have seen several questions on here from married women wanting their husbands to iniate sex more often. So my question is how do you like to be aproached for sex. And I know that everyone is different so I am not asking how I should approach my wife I want to know what you like.
2007-06-06 06:23:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I was going to answer something really insightful, but then I realized it doesn't matter HOW my husband approaches me, as long as he continues to do it.
He's been fairly creative:
He does the kiss on the back of my neck thing, and rubs up against me while I'm trying to cook dinner.
He doesn't come out of the bedroom for a half hour and when I go in to see what is going on, he's naked and "ready."
He meets me at the door and says he knows I've been naughty and I need to go to my room.
2007-06-06 06:31:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like it best when he does something mundane like telling me a story or whatever then suddenly looks at me "different" as if he just now realized I am here and his wife. Then he will kiss me and NOT LET GO OR STOP. That's the kicker - we kiss all the time but when he pulls me closer for a deeper kiss, I definitely am rarin to go.
For me and mine, it a matter of breaking his attention from whatever other stupid thing he's looking at... sometimes if I can get him to quit obsessing over the internet or whatever he'll realize he likes having sex and the idea is agood one. Most times, I just wish he'd realize that on his own but I'm pretty much resigned to the fact that he won't and I have to be the one to remind him now and then that I am here.
Oh and as for technique: I echo the majority here - there is nothing sexier than having him run his hands all over my body. I think most women really dig this and I know I totally do.
2007-06-06 18:03:48 · answer #2 · answered by Cassandra G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me it is the intellectual challenging conversation. Nothing warms me up like a little mental sparring while drinking a fine glass of wine.
But then again, there's the opposite approach...visual!
Cook dinner only in an apron, and I mean ONLY.
Man, that gets me hot.
I see other women are into foreplay...Sometimes foreplay is just annoying to me, it's like, get to the good stuff already!
Be different from your usual approach. If you are usually gentle, toss your wife on the bed and be a little aggressive, obviously nothing that will scare the lust out of her. If you are usually more agressive, then try a real gentle approach, teasing her with a feather.
Do it someplace different. Cook dinner, and then before you serve her, take her on the kitchen table.
(notices I have two cooking fantasies)
(mmmm...those two could be combined into one...)
Sneak up on me while I'm sleeping...don't start foreplay because that's just annoying when I'm half-asleep, go right for the gold.
2007-06-06 13:41:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have no problems in the bedroom, both my husband and I are very satisfied and fulfilled. As far as approach, that's simple. His body belongs to me and mine to him. If he wants it, and there's no GOOD reason why he can't have it right then, then he can have it. I can tell when he wants it by the way he kisses me and touches me. Sometimes it's just his usual affectionate way, which means "I love you and just want to show you" or he'll be a different way - which I can't really explain - and I know that means "I love you and want to show you by doing more than just kissing you". I'm mean, not trying to get graphic or go into details. We just "know". Though there are sometimes he'll just say baby can I have some or he'll just come up to me while I'm washing dishes or cooking and take it (I love that!).
2007-06-06 13:36:17 · answer #4 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not one of the married women who complains because my hubby knows when to come and bend me over the kitchen sink and pull my hair and spank me he also knows when I need a tender heart wrenching love making session. Speaking from experience I personally want it like it is in the movies 99% of the time HOTT passionate jungle style freaky sex, with no inhibitions
2007-06-06 13:31:10 · answer #5 · answered by mrsknowitall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love it when my hubby suddenly grabs me by the hand unexpectedly as i pass by, wrapping his arms around my waist, kissing me passionately on the lips, then starts touching me alll over. This really turns me on and i can't resist it when he asks me to the bedroom after that... (good tip for you) Women just can't ignore the sweet, sexy gesture from their better halfs most of the time! Be the man! Your wife is lucky you're interested in knowing how to do it from the other wives' point of view...Goodluck to you both! enjoy!
2007-06-06 14:04:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like it when my husband touches me while I'm doing something else (washing dishes, picking up around the house). I also enjoy him just rubbing my back lightly. Sex doesn't always have to be implied.
2007-06-06 13:28:37 · answer #7 · answered by New Moon Daughter 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seduction is the key. Real live seduction. Life gets in the way of that sometimes. Its nice to know he still thinks your hot and worth the effort.
2007-06-06 13:49:09 · answer #8 · answered by ~Heathen Princess~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my husband comes up behind me while I'm doing something else and wraps his arms around me and kisses my neck really slowly. I'm all his after that...
2007-06-06 13:31:08 · answer #9 · answered by Kitten 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wine and dine me, then lets go for a ride out in the country...
2007-06-06 13:28:46 · answer #10 · answered by kim t 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋