Why people that love to be the center o attention are always the most popular?

Question

And the shy ones aren't?

i mean there are lots of shy ppl that r really nice
and some extroverts that are total meanies

i dont get it

Answer 1

Hey sister, Thanks for the points ; Now my answer is -

.... because they love being the center of attention. I love to enjoy my life, I live it ONCE, I get to trample on some people, but the ones who are nice to me, matter to me more than the ones who dont. Thats the law of life.

But no shy people also get awards and distinctions. Many great people were also shy and humble.

Look at Beethoven and Mozart.

Anyways, as my character is one of fashion, I tend to be very flamboyant, proud and confident of myself, in all the right ways.

Thats how one should be and if they feel they lack certain characteristics then I advise them to polish themselves and act the way they love to be !!

Answer 2

I think you meant to ask, "Why do outgoing people love to be the center of attention, and why are they the most popular?"

Outgoing people make more connections with other people and they appear confident, relaxed, and love to take the risk whether it works out for them or not.

Shy people, never connect with anyone, only a select few who are the same as them, so therefore never really relax in a large group setting. You may for a while be popular but because it's not a natural thing for you - it may turn out to be a stressor and you'd eventually break.

It's like writing with your left hand when you're right-handed. Your dominant hand writes better, when you write it feels more natural, you feel confident about the work that you do...but if you use your left hand, your writing is sloppy, it's awkward and you can't really make anything you do look good...if you use it too much you'll cramp.

You could do it too, but being something you're not is tough and there's always that level of confidence in a large group that you need to deal...while it's natural for the outgoing-popular people, it's not a natural thing for you.

Answer 3

because usually the ppl who are the center of attention are the more prettier looking ones...and the shy ppl are the not so prettier looking ones thus, the shy ones aren't the center of attention. ppl just judge the book by its cover without getting deeper into the book.

Answer 4

They usually make a fool of themselves and people are sitting back and watching what stupid thing they are going to do next. Popular doesn't mean you have real friends it just means people know you. That's all! Ask yourself does everyone sincerely care about the popular person? Having many fake friends should not be your focus.

Answer 5

Popular people are popular because they aren't afraid to call someone out. Or be a total phsyco infront of people. They aren't fake they are totally real people. Thats why and Shy people are afriad to stand up for themselves and embarrass easily..

Answer 6

because the ones who love to be the center of attention will do anything to get on people's good sides, even if they're faking or being stupid, so they CAN be the center of attention, hence if they have more friends there's more to show off for. it's a cruel cycle

Answer 7

Why is Coca Cola the most recognised soft drink brand in the world?

Because it spends a mind-boggling amount on advertising (estimated to be $1.8bn in 2005).

You can't be popular if you don't advertise your presence and you can't advertise your presence if you don't like the limelight.

Answer 8

Because it's like that every body thinks there perfect!

Answer 9

we are the center of attention because we demand it!

Answer 10

DULL sounds like you answered the?