I split up from my ex-girlfriend because I found out she was also dating another guy. This after a 5 year relationship and me wanting to marry her. OK, so it's a couple of weeks later and I meet her and she wants to be with me again but as a lover not as her boyfriend. She wants to keep seeing the new boyfriend and have me on the side. What do you think?
OK, now you've thought about it add the factor that I'm 20 years older than her and the new boyfriend is only 10 years older. Hmm...interesting - maybe?
Then add the fact that I've had a vasectomy and she wants to have kids. It'd have to be IVF with me of course but Mr New is in tact.
So tell me?
2007-06-06 06:06:09 · 22 answers · asked by crow3862000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This sounds like a problem for your brain. Can your brain (emotional) handle it? If you really wnated to marry her, I do not know how you could imagine this set-up. Now if you were just dating her for awhile, it might be no big deal and maybe even a turn-on. But once emotions and marriage get involved, the casual dirty sex on-the-side thing... might be just too hard to do and keep your sanity.
Good luck.
2007-06-06 06:14:30 · answer #1 · answered by Ryno 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie-pie; she probably would never want to get back with you. however, your soon-to-be ex-wife is a pretty decent person. you obviously never did deserve her in your life. what is holding you back dear, is that you really believed that her life would be over because you dumped her -- you thought that she'd forever be emotionally damaged, and sobbing in her coffee cup every morning. she found out what kind of husband you were; and she probably wishes your girlfriend luck if you ever get married. she almost certainly has a very rewarding life. she has a wonderful son, and she doesn't have the aggravation of living with a cheater. leave her alone, but remember that a child needs both of you. what would you have felt like if she had decided that you would not see your child on father's day? try not to be a louse any more.
2016-05-18 01:11:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't brotha's recognize a "Bootie Call" when it comes calling?
Why would you want to have kids IVF with someone who's had more ***** than "Richard's" have nicknames? It's quite clear that she's not about to settle down.
There's no time for you to be feeling self conscious about your groceries, that surgery is irreversible. So focus on a woman that can except you for who you are. Meanwhile, you can treat her like an ATM, swipe it every now and then and get as much cash as you can.
2007-06-06 06:30:49 · answer #3 · answered by dadgonewild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants her cake and eat it too. You say the two of you split up when you found out she was dating another guy, so my own opinion is you shouldn't let her back into your life like that. Maybe the two of you can still be friends, but I just don't know about that.
2007-06-06 06:20:41 · answer #4 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nail her. Why pass up a good time? You're doing waaaayy too much thinking about it. She's obviously not a keeper ( I see a pattern of infidelity), regardless of age or kids.
I'll take "Sex with my ex" for 400 Alex! The answer is: What is, something I should be doing right now?
2007-06-06 06:14:17 · answer #5 · answered by bardstale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can be a funny thing. But you have to ask yourself why do she only want to be with me as a lover. Are you taking care her financially and she want to use you to take care of her and her new boyfriend because he cant or is sex just that good she cant get enough. What her real reason why she want thing that way. Younger women can be scandalous.
2007-06-06 06:13:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead if you want but I think you are headed down a road of disaster....that chick sounds like a complete cheater...but you can't knock her up so have fun with it and kinda get back at her through this if you want but be careful that she doesn't contract something that she can give to you then you will be sorry....if she is giving it to you and him then I promise she is giving it to two or three others as well
2007-06-06 06:11:33 · answer #7 · answered by mlp7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even concider being in that mix up with her. She would be doing the same thing she did to you to the new guy. On top of the fact that she doesn't deserve to have your time anymore. I would keep it movin and leave her in the past if I was you. You have her thinking she can have her cake and eat it too!
2007-06-06 06:14:33 · answer #8 · answered by honeyb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhm NO. Don't do that. If you know she played you and you were hurt. Now think about how that man would feel if she played him with you. The same pain. THAT GIRL IS A SLUT. Get away from her. And your 20 years older?? Somethings wrong here....
2007-06-06 06:12:02 · answer #9 · answered by BEAUTiFUL CAiTLYN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's get this straight.No commitment sex,where there's almost no possible way to get her pregnant,and she's 20yrs younger than you.What is there to think about?Just wear a rubber,because you know that she's still sleeping with the other guy(or guys)too.As long as you're protected,have fun.
2007-06-06 06:21:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋