Do you think she wants more then me just sleeping over?

Question

I met this girl(24 yr old) and I'm 26, we met for a coffee and then chatted the next day on internet....she said she feels comfortable with me, but wants to take things slow because she has been in abusive relationships..so she asks if I would like to come over as a friend and stay the night, even sleep in same bed as her....I ask if she wants me to sleep in shorts since we are friends..she says no, whatever i normally sleep in is fine.....then she says she usually sleeps naked, but will wear PJs that will be uncomfortable to sleep in...do you think she is looking to do more then just sleep?

Answer 1

Ya see, this is why guys always confuse the "signals" females supposedly send out.

Why can't people just say "Hey, wanna shag?" or something and be done with it?

Answer 2

Well to me it sounds like she does want more but then she did say that she was once in an abusive relationship and she also said that she feels really comfortable around maybe she just wants someone who will just be there for her just take it slow eventually it will happen..........she just wants to feel secure!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 3

Uh YEAH.
I never invite young men into my bed as 'friends' and then sleep butt nekkid! I always have plans when someone is in my bed. :-D
She's clearly sending sexual signals and I suppose here is the place where you decide if you are going to act on them or not.
Have a good sleepover! (wink)

Answer 4

Dude, I don't know if she knows what she's looking for. Talk to her. Explain your confusion with the situation. Ask her to clarify so neither one of you has the wrong idea.

Answer 5

haha, if she mentioned they're uncomfortable then probably ya, but take it easy. only if she's really leading you on do you do anything, and then take it slow, so she can stop you if she needs to.

Answer 6

ummmm DUHHH!