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im 19 and i have a cousin whose 14 and we have been really good friends all our life...since we met...weve been so close....

she holds my hands and hugs me...sits close to me...eats with me we go out together...and everything we do it together...and she even started to sit on my lap when she was around 4 or 5 years old....and i already had started thinking she was cute when she was around 9 or 10 and a few yrs later i fell in love with her....and shes so close to me still...even now she hugs kisses sits on my lap....and eats goes out with me says im cute...and stuff...and she says that im cute....and shes so attached to me...and she said she doesnt want any guy in her life ever but me...and she doesnt have a boy friend...she thinks of me as sort of her boy friend....and we are both living in pakistan....and we both are muslims....and my parents wont accept her because she has a darker skin colour than me...and i truely love her...and i think she loves me...i really want to marry her

2007-06-06 07:10:58 · 7 answers · asked by mr nobody 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

i know many countries and religions dont allow it and cousin marriage is banned in many states...and that there are risks of birth defects....but love and a happy life is more important than all that....who cares about all that.....true love and 2 happy people is more important.....

what would you say does she have some kind of crush on me....does she love me...or what.....please dont be negative.....

2007-06-06 07:14:06 · update #1

7 answers

I know a few people that are married to their cousins. It's not my thing, but I don't have to do it.
If you really love this girl then give her time to grow up a little, she is very young. You should both go and live life a bit.
Also don't presume to know what your parents will think, they might surprise you.

2007-06-06 07:19:23 · answer #1 · answered by Go you good thing 3 · 1 1

Hermione Granger and Draco malfoy or Blaise Zabini and Hermione Granger

2016-05-18 02:09:51 · answer #2 · answered by hallie 3 · 0 0

It seems like you already made up your mind about her. You don't need validation.
If you honestly like her then . . . well, I dont' know you have to decide.

2007-06-08 09:11:51 · answer #3 · answered by andrea c 4 · 3 0

Nasty!
sorry, but she is JUST a child! you dont do that to a child, whether she is a cousin or not...
the cousin thing, well, your family can deal with that!

2007-06-06 07:14:25 · answer #4 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0 3

if you are for real then STOP the relationship , do you want to ruin the family ?
besides are there not any other girls for you to date that you are NOT related to ?

2007-06-06 07:16:59 · answer #5 · answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 · 0 3

that is why no marriage. the birth defects are horrible. no feet hands or something wrong with face or retarded. i wouldnt' take a chance.

2007-06-09 18:37:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 6

hmm.... she is only 14...i think it'a too young for you...are you sure you want to be with her?

2007-06-06 07:17:32 · answer #7 · answered by roxanna_16 1 · 0 3

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