Family & Relationships - 6 June 2007

Does anyone know of any sites that have gothic wedding dresses?

2007-06-06 09:57:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am doing my radio show on internet radio (as always, every Tuesday); and I posed a question this week about what music festivals you lot were all planning on going to this year! I had a great response - so THANK YOU! So; I have decided that most weeks; I will be sending out a question to you lot!

So; this week's question - WHAT DO YOU GET YOUR DAD FOR FATHER'S DAY....?! I want to know what to get for the man who has everything?! Do you quiz him in advance for the kind of present he's hoping for? Or just get the usual gifts that are acceptable just like every other occasion - Birthday's, Christmas etc...? Or; do you reckon it's just another commercial excuse for us all to go out and spend money?!

As always - your responses will be aired/shared - all answers/comments are appreciated - just PLEASE keep them clean!!!

If you want to tune into the nonsense - feel free! www.generationmix.co.uk from 10pm on Tuesday 12th June 2007.

Lynne xox

2007-06-06 09:56:37 · 9 answers · asked by angelforlife1999 1 in Family

My husband and I have been married for 3 years, and are both 23 years old. I know women mature faster than men, but I thought by 23 he would at least start acting like an adult. Sometimes I swear my husband is a 16 year old boy trapped in a man's body. How do I get my husband to start acting like the mature adult man I want to be married to?

2007-06-06 09:55:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he is a cancer and im a libra

2007-06-06 09:54:47 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

4yr relationship. A couple of weeks ago I was at his sisters bachellorette party and he never came home, when he came home he lied about where he had been. Finally he told me he ended up with another girl, claimed nothing happened he had never done anything like that before. I started packing my things because I wasn't going to wait around for him to doit again. He begged me not to leave, he said he was so sorry and that he wanted to be with me and not her. He claimed that he was drunk and scared because I am going to be moving to a different state soon. Then I went on a small weekend vacation with a few of my girlfriends and I never heard from him again and he would not answer my phone calls. When I got back to town I found out he had stayed with her the whole time. Its only been 2 weeks and he is now living with her and took her to his sisters wedding. I still haven't been able to get a hold of him and I just don't understand why he would beg me to stay and then leave?

2007-06-06 09:54:15 · 13 answers · asked by leala315 2 in Singles & Dating

I am about to start planning our wedding but honestly have NO clue where to start. It is a year away and everyone tells me that I need to start planning but I am not sure about what I need to start doing. Can you help me? Our wedding is not going to be anything huge but is there little things that I can start doing?

2007-06-06 09:54:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Okay, today is the 6th which means it is the day of the trial.
Recap: My cousin was shot and killed by his daughter 6 months ago. today was her trial. she lied her way through it and here's what happened.

She only got 2 years! That is bullshit. I'm so mad. She got
2 1/2 but got credit for already being in custody for 6 months. She will be under watch until she is 23 though.


Please go to this for full story: http://www.kake.com/news/headlines/7863782.html

2007-06-06 09:53:01 · 8 answers · asked by **Amanda** 3 in Family

2007-06-06 09:50:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I like this guy but he says we're just friends

2007-06-06 09:43:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-06 09:41:51 · 31 answers · asked by samantharockgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-06 09:34:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I have been married to this man for almost 3 yrs and we have been together for a lil over 4...he was the most laid back sweet considerate man i have ever met...now days he is being very controlling he dosent want me hangin out with the one girlfriend i have and when i do he insists on a curfew and how many times a week i can go out...he even made me delete my myspace because i had friends that were guys(whom i never talked to) that he didnt know...he is a cop and when i asked if he was cheating because naturally i got worried due to the drasyic attitude change he said yeah ok when do i have time and i actually dont think he does...our sex life is great also...do you think its the job??? what should i do i love him but i do not wanna be treated this way we also have 2 kids...

2007-06-06 09:32:22 · 5 answers · asked by 4everheartbroken 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

for your home decor, and when you show them the picture they do not comment on it, either positive or negative, is that basically telling me they dont like it?

2007-06-06 09:32:17 · 9 answers · asked by stinkyhotdogs 3 in Friends

2007-06-06 09:28:45 · 4 answers · asked by firefighterace 3 in Family

I am SO confused. Okay, sorry to bore you people, but there this guy, and I kind of like him, but I'm not so sure. He's going on and off, as in flirting. Like a few times he'd ask me to movies and pay for everything, carry my books, talk to me whenever, and always gives me a view in his perspective when I need it. But then he'll tense up and doesn't talk to me for a few days, doesn't IM me, and if he does doesn't bother to say anything or say bye when he logs off. I don't think he's backing away at all...because it's just like a pattern...and it's really confusingggg!

I don't want to let him be a major crush because I'm not sure if I'll be disappointed or whatever. I'm usually good at answering this probs, but i can't myself! I have no idea what to do, because we are friends, and I don't want to ruin that either. Please help! All answers are appreciated ♥

2007-06-06 09:28:29 · 29 answers · asked by city of love*♥; 4 in Singles & Dating

Okay so my BF and I have lived together for 1 1/2 years. Everything is great. We are very happy and hope to spend the rest of our lives together. However he hasnt proposed yet for financial reasons, and thats fine by me. The problem is that people keep assuming we are engaged. Or they ask when the wedding was...etc.etc. I try not to let it bother me but I do feel the need to correct them. and I say "No we are not engaged, or married." then I get an understanding "Oh." or "I'm sorry"... Is there anything else I can say in reply that doesnt sound so... pathetic? or that would instigate some pitiful reply? Thanks!

2007-06-06 09:28:18 · 4 answers · asked by Mrs. Bethy O. 4 in Singles & Dating

My SIL is getting married in TWO WEEKS!!! :) Anyway, so we were going to buy a topper for the groom's cake, but we decided to get some writing on the cake instead. The cake is going to be chocolate with chocolate icing (he's a chocolate freak)... but they can write on it with white icing or something like that.

I figured with the brains that you guys have, someone could come up with something silly, clever, witty, or a collection of those attributes that would be fitting... :) So, don't let me down, ok? LOL

My only idea was "Justin - Under New Management" :) ha ha So, whatcha got? :)

2007-06-06 09:25:52 · 7 answers · asked by CC 3 in Weddings

or should i just wait until he does.... thats if he does ?

2007-06-06 09:25:40 · 10 answers · asked by jacsy 1 in Singles & Dating

My mom uses this a lot, so what's the odds of her actually seeing this post? I'm kinda just curious about it. What do you all think?

2007-06-06 09:25:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i work at a daycare right now, and my son comes with me, i need to pay 1/4 of what i make for him to be there. and i dont make more than $150 a week. My husband makes good money, should i stay home with our son and his soon to be sibling(in december) or stay working until the new baby comes and then worry about what i should do then since the daycare doesnt accept 6 week olds. My paycheck is just basically my own spending money, our bills get paid by my husbands paycheck so is it worth working or should i stay home with him now? Let me know what you think? This has been on my mind for weeks now.

2007-06-06 09:23:41 · 18 answers · asked by hunters mommy 1 in Family

My younger sister came home one day from day and was crying. She was 'Syruped'. She was at a middle school party and some of the girls there took a capless syrup bottle, made my sister open her mouth somehow and squirted the syrup into her mouth. After this they 'shanked' her, which i now know means to pull down someone's pants (not underwear.) She ran off crying. She also said later that this had happened to alot of girls at her school, and to most of the girls, it was their only fear at their school. This NEVER happened when I was in junior high. I think it is just ridiculous! Does this happen where you live? what do you think?

2007-06-06 09:22:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I stuck on what to do for the Cinderella Theme. I still need a cake topper and centerpieces. But i still want more ideas of what to do...my wedding is sept 15...so i dont have much time left to think and get them. Im not sure if i really want anything with the pumpkins...i have been thinking of the glass slipper but im not sure.....if anyone has any ideas...please let me know!

PS: My theme is Cinderella but some of it is disney too (cuz we got engaged at disneyland)

2007-06-06 09:22:17 · 17 answers · asked by shortychik667 3 in Weddings

I AM GETTING READY TO BE 26 YEARS OLD. I AM MARRIED AND HAVE A 6 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER. MY LIFE OVER THE PAST 5 YEARS HAS DEFINETELY BEEN AN ITERESTING ONE! I FEEL THAT I HAVE RUINED IT IN SO MANY WAYS. LET ME EXPLAIN:

I AM ABSOLUTELY BROKE! I AM GETTING READY TO LOSE MY HOUSE AND MY CAR. MY CREDIT SCORE IS A 400 AND MY LIFE IS IN SHAMB LES. MY PHONE IS RINGING OFF THE HOOK FROM PEOPLE I OWE MONEY TO. I AM ASHAMED TO LOOK AT MYSELF IN THE MIRROR. I WANT TO RUN AWAY. FAR FAR AWAY AND START A NEW LIFE, BUT MY HUSBAND WILL NOT DO THAT. HE WANTS TO STAY WHERE WE ARE AND GRIN AND BEAR IT. I LOVE MY HUSBAND VERY MUCH, BUT I CAN'T STAY HERE ANYMORE. AM I WRONG FOR WANTING A NEW LIFE? I FEEL THAT I AM RUINING MY DAUGHTERS LIFE BECAUSE I AM SO DEPRESSED AND DOWN ALL THE TIME. I KNOW THAT GETTING A FRESH START SOMEWHERE NEW WOULD BE GREAT.

HOWEVER, I DO NOT WANT MY DAUGHTER TO GROW UP WITHOUT HER FATHER EITHER.

WHAT DO I DO?

WHAT IS POSSIBLY LEFT FOR ME IN THE WORLD?

2007-06-06 09:21:15 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-06 09:20:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here's the thing, I asked 2 other girls out in the past, and were denied by both, and never really in a flat out manner, but I'm over that.

There's this girl I had a crush on for about a year now, and fortunately, through that time, I became friends with her, even being invited to her Sweet 16, and even getting an honorable mention. I make her laugh easily, and we talk a lot about random stuff.

I actually kept it all together and decided to ask her out, and she gave me this flirty look and said maybe, which most likely means no.

Now that she said maybe, I don't know what to do with myself. I don't want to be persistent and ask her again, or ask what has she decided, or else it would seem annoying. Because to me persistence = annoyance to the other person.

Or maybe she's actually flirting with me, but if she truly would like me, why wouldn't she just say yes in the first place?

2007-06-06 09:18:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My father just passed away yesterday. My wife's brothers wife delivered a stillborn baby boy on Friday. My fathers services are this weekend in Tennessee and my wife's brothers babys service is in Ohio this weekend also. I want my wife to be with me, and she wants to be there for me, but I know that she wants to be there for her brother too. What is the right decision? I told my wife it would be okay to go and be there for here brother, but I know its a tough decision. We live in North Carolina. Like death is not hard enough, why did this have to happen!!!! Please help make light of this situation. Thanks

2007-06-06 09:16:15 · 25 answers · asked by Burl T 2 in Family

I have not 'lived in' with anyone yet and will do next year (after 6 yrs of relationship) coz am due to have a baby in 2008. We have decided to live in my house (my BF has his own place too which he will put into rental) , and am paying 2200 for the home mortgage. I don't know how to split the payment when we move in together....this is what I plan to suggest to him...
1. We will pay 50-50 on the mortage (1,100 each)
2) We will pay 50-50 for the babysitting (300 each)
3) We wiil pay 50-50 for all the house bills (cable, garbage, food, pge etc . Probably around 300 each

So he has to give me 1600/month (his share). I have not told him yet this.. do you think my split payment plan and amount given above fare enough? Am I asking that much money from him. Well, its not about money, but eventually we must discuss this in the future.. so I want to be ready with my suggestion. Pls advise.

2007-06-06 09:14:32 · 27 answers · asked by pinaytechie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

this girl i asked out a couple of months ago said no, but when i asked her to be my friend on myspace she accepted me. does it mean anything?

2007-06-06 09:08:22 · 15 answers · asked by my name 1 in Singles & Dating

Guys, is it hard for you to forgive? And do you think my guy will ever forgive me? I have been with him for over a year and he has been 'away' until next month. We had this rule where if i had an " itch" that needed to be "scratched" i could do so up until 6 months time for him to come home. I visited him in November and told him i had had sex with some one and he went off! He later said he forgave me but everytime we are in an argument he throws it in my face. He says he's mad because when i wrote him i said i didnt want anyone but him and he feels i was lying to him. But i wasnt lying to him, that is the truth but he is not here with me and has been 'away' the entire course of our relationship and like a human being i got lonely.
Guys do you think he'll ever forgive me?

2007-06-06 09:04:55 · 23 answers · asked by superbad~honeydip 4 in Singles & Dating

Is it the same as asking someone to date you?

(Before you call me stupid or anything, where I live it isn't generally used.)

2007-06-06 09:04:08 · 3 answers · asked by Lozza 2 in Singles & Dating