Is this chid abuse,and if it is what should i do?

Question

-my dad used to hit me with a belt (he never does that now,but he used to,the unfair thingy was that he never did it to my my elder sister and kid sister.i’m such an unlucky girl.)
-my mom hurts my feelings
-someone once took an incessant picture of me
-my dad slaps me
my gramma said something bad about me and i felt bad and my mom told her not to bother me coz i'm not normal
(this hurt my feelings)
-someone i know(cant tell who)once hit me with a broom
-many kids atschool call me weird and bully me verbally
what do you think?

yes they hit me when i'm bad
and yes.
i can be naughty at times but my big sis is(no offense)worse and my little
sis is Very Spoiled .

Answer 1

Yes, unfortunately it is abuse and what makes it worst its that its coming from your own parents. I know what your going through because I've been there before. At times I preferred getting hit because I was numb but their words would hurt more because they played over and over again. You are going through physical and emotional abuse. Next time they try to hit you tell them you are going to call the cops. Let a family member know your situation somebody that could talk to your parents and open their eyes. I would also suggest a school counselor but school is out for most kids. Hopefully this helps if you need somebody to talk to feel free to message me anytime.

Answer 2

Is this chid abuse,and if it is what should i do?

-my dad used to hit me with a belt (he never does that now,but he used to,the unfair thingy was that he never did it to my my elder sister and kid sister.i’m such an unlucky girl.)

I know I've seen this question before, and people assumed that it was sexual abuse. The belt is probably what your Dad got for what he did. You say your older sister doesn't what does she do that's equivalent to what you do that deserves the same punishment?

-my mom hurts my feelings

That's life. Mom is being a mom, not your friend.

-someone once took an incessant picture of me

Report them... no more year restrictions on this

-my dad slaps me

Again, a way that Dad was raised.
Spare the rod, spoil the child... Instilled in fathers for centuries.

my gramma said something bad about me and i felt bad and my mom told her not to bother me coz i'm not normal
(this hurt my feelings)

Teen in action. Sounds like you got about 4 plus years to be on your own.

-someone i know(cant tell who)once hit me with a broom

What caused it? Where you in need of prozac? Did you do something so dumb that you stressed your mom out to whack ya with it?

-many kids at school call me weird and bully me verbally

Ah, the gothy emu child (I know its emo)

what do you think?
Get your education from high school, behave yourself, clean off the black aura and be the best that you can (from societies point of view), then leave and become the super goth/emu that you always wanted to be.

Answer 3

Yarme= can i ask you a question? why is your family ganging up on you , ?? now think about it , firstlyyou do not mention as to how old you are , , but that does not matter in this case , the first thing you must have is proof that what all these people did to you can be identified , so if like you say your dad belted you , then your doctor will help you out on that one , providing you went to see him when you were belted . i do not think you would get away with child abuse by you mother hurting your feelings , , it would be a different matter thou if she saw your dad belting you , if as you say your dad slaps you , and belted you , then this would be child abuse but you need proof of this , the conversation between your granma and your mother saying you are not normal , , this will be a very tricky one to prove in a court of law , because again they have hurt your feeling , and i do not believe that remark would stand up for you in the courts as for being hit by a broom and you say someone you know , but cannot tell anyone , well if you cannot tell anyone then i believe that you will not go to far with a child abuse claim on this one , as for the school one this is another one that could go your way but it might not also , THE children that are calling you names , why have you not reported this to your teacher or principal . especially the bully and verbal remarks that they are saying to you , now you ask at the end of your question as to what i think of this , well read though my answers to you , As far as i can see the only one that you might be able to get on child abuse is your dad , for giveing you the belt , and slapping you , I wish you luck Yarme ,

Answer 4

I dont think its child abuse. I think that they are neglecting you. But 2 questions, Do they hit you for no reason? or Do you feel that they hate you? Try to be calm and soometimes talk with your sister about this. You can tell a teacher or a counselor and they will understand. Hope this helps and hope you and your family gat together!

P.S The Question I ask above If you say yes to all of them, then It's Chid abuse

Answer 5

Hitting you with a belt is abuse. Slapping you is abuse. Calling you names is destructive to your spiritual, mental, and intellectual growth. Your mom calling you names is going to stay with you your entire life. Taking indecent pictures of you is criminal. It is no wonder the children at school don't treat you like they treat themselves as most of them don't understand the pain you are forced to live with. You are definitely being abused, and need to seek counseling as soon as possible. Find someone you trust, or start by making a phone call to a telephone help line who can put you in touch with the right people to help you. The kind of abuse you are experiencing is going to affect you for years to come if you do not deal with it as best you can right now. Seek out professional help, and take my prayers with you.

Answer 6

This is a combination of physical, mental and verbal abuse and should be told to someone. If you DO NOT feel comfortable reporting this right away to the police (which I honestly believe is your best option) then you should at least report this to a school councilor. Either way, you need to report this matter ESPECIALLY if someone is hitting you!

Answer 7

Yeah that is. It must be hard for you. Talk to an adult that you trust, maybe a teacher you like in school.