Family & Relationships - 6 June 2007

me my friends were just hanging out at school, eating my lunch then my 2 friends grabbed me and took me to a secret hiding spot. They told me that this girl and her friends said that I said that she was racist, which I did because she was really mean to me but no one else and made fun of my race which was bosnian) and she got her friends and formed an angry mob and they were all searching for me.I had also said something horrible about her this morning and she was angry. So feeling sick I went to the nurse and soon the angry mob had foundme there. What was worse was my best friend had a crush on her and he was really angry at me and I think he hates me for saying things about her. Thankfully the bell rang and they went of to another class and my other best friend and I were still hiding in the nurse and we went to class.(They are in different subject). After school My other best friend hid in the bathrooms because I wasn't able to stand up against them. So what do i now? Im so scared!

2007-06-06 20:17:35 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I recently attended a party with lots of alchol involved and a sober guy that liked/ might still like me tried to talk about our "relationship" and asked me what it felt like to be wasted and a few questions about my personal life. Only I was completely sober as well, but I was holding a flat sprite in one hand that I guess looked like vodka and flat A&W that he mistook for Jack Daniels. I just played around acting smashed just to see what he would do and he just sat with me, talking.

Is he still attracted to me?
Was he just trying to pump info out of me when he thought I was "drunk"?
Was he trying to be a good friend?

2007-06-06 20:14:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When we make out, or are close to each other's face, her breath always has an unpleasant smell. It seems really hot also. When we kiss, and she breathes out of her nose, I always inhale it through my nose and I don't like it. It's like.. I always breathe in her breathed up air. How do I avoid this or bring this up to her?

2007-06-06 20:12:46 · 12 answers · asked by biru819 3 in Singles & Dating

i asked in the ltr for hr to keep it confidential, i didnt sign my name, and i will mail it from a different town. is there any way he can will find or think i did it? i dont want it traced 2 me? any suggestions? he is a forklift driver and smokes weed, and alcohol. one time he hit a girl in the arm and said she wasnt looking where she was going. do u think he might suspect i ratted him since we were engaged and he dumped after 5 yrs cuz i loss my job to cancer. he is with another girl at his job.

2007-06-06 20:10:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Personally, I don't believe in prenups. This is like signing a contract hoping to get divorced. Isn't a marriage about sharing and compromising? If you don't trust the person you are marrying, why would you marry them? Don't give me the "just in case" crap either. What are your thoughts?

2007-06-06 20:06:56 · 19 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently moved to a new city and don't really have any friends here. I am kind of shy and have trouble making friends. (age range 21-35, as im 26.)

2007-06-06 20:06:10 · 2 answers · asked by A 1 in Friends

i met this guy 5yrs ago,his work it all over the world, i have travel may places whith him,i return back home and he goes back home we live in a differen continent, we have had very well comunication, problem like any couple, whenever i have problem (fiancialy he always there to help me no matter how it takes, he will even send his atm card (once) to pay my house rent, he alls me everyday!,but the problem is my relatioship isonly been like this for 5 years nothing new, he dont pland anythng more than ust that, and when i tell him he says he will but never has,we dont make any other step, he help me for my rent,iwill see see him 7-10month,if i go to him or he come here,so idont knowwhat to do, my whole life am waiting for him,and it hurts me cause cause i cant leav him cause i love him, and he pays my house rent,,its vey difficult for mrthan for him,and when i tell him this he amke empty plans ...then i endup same person,, please ur help a lot...

2007-06-06 20:05:28 · 5 answers · asked by shito 2 in Singles & Dating

I've decided the time has come, and yet I find it bittersweet as I accuse myself because of my young child (pre-school). I know the rationale behind a child living in a happy home rather than a sterile one, and yet I think to a child a home is always their "home" and divorce is the worst of all legal things a married couple can do. Was it the hardest thing for you divorcees to take that final step - to actually speak the words, and how did you assist your children with the transition, the "parent moving out" and so forth. All sane advice and experience would be most welcome.
Thank you in advance.

2007-06-06 20:00:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'd ask friends and family for help, but I know they don't have a lot of time :(

*FYI: I know nothing about having babies either. I probably just need a book that's titled "women's lives 101".

2007-06-06 19:59:48 · 20 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2 in Weddings

i have a boyfriend....at first i was very very inlove with him that im willing to take risk just for him...but now...that feeling is gone...but i show to him that i still love him because i dont want to hurt his feelings...should i leave him or should i learn to love him again?

2007-06-06 19:58:54 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'll try to make this short.. Married for about 4 1/2 years and I've fallen out of love with him long ago...

1. It's been 8 months since we've had sex, this time around (but he lets me swing, BUT makes me feel guilty about it, sometimes)
2. He's also lazy around the house with most things (but had been making some dinners since we had our baby, 4 months ago).
3. Doesn't back me up with the kids when I'm having a real tough time with them. (kids from my 1st marriage)
4.He is also not consistant with them and gives in easily to get them off his back.
5. Never spends quality time with my son. (mainly just criticizes him.)
6. Makes fun of my own views, sometimes.
7. Very messy around the house.
8. I've threatened many times for divorce and each time he got better, but then went back to his old ways.
9. Selfish. (ie- keeping the house at a comfy level for himself, while I'm extremely cold)
10. Treats me like I can't make my own decisions sometimes or speak for myself.

2007-06-06 19:56:05 · 31 answers · asked by ṼξŋØლǿԱ§ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I really love a girl and you may not believe it, but I do really love her. But I do not really talk to her because I got really nervous every time I am with her. I had had a lot of opportunities to go up to her and talk to her, but I missed most of them. It's just that I am scared her friends would tease us and it would ruin our friendship, because I have told her my feeling last year but she said she just want to be friends. Moreover, there is this another boy who also likes her and I don't know how she feels.

And, that shyness and nerve has caused me to be afraid in standing up for her.

Am I of any worth? I am 15. Say, years down the road, if I have 'metamophosises', will it be too late for me to apporach her?

2007-06-06 19:54:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So me and my crush hugged for the first time and when he hugged me he held me really close and i could feel his body trying to push against mine. Is he turned on by this or something, what does it mean? I dont have that much experience with guys.

2007-06-06 19:53:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been in most relationships where I put on a lot of efforts but as time goes on, I just found my self in tears. Crying for the very reason that the guy left me without giving me any reasons at all. Many of my friends told me that I do look good and my attitudes were way too good towards those guys. ! don't know what to do to make them see who I really are..

2007-06-06 19:51:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-06 19:51:15 · 8 answers · asked by abby 1 in Singles & Dating

I used to really like this guy and he seemed to like me as well. We were hanging out with each other a lot. However, he was somehow staying with reserves and so was I. Once he asked me if I can kiss him and the next time when we were at the park he asked me if he could kiss me. I do not understand. He knew that I liked him. Why did not he make things happen but kept asking which turned me off and made him suspecious.

2007-06-06 19:48:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a straight female, but one of my biggest turn on's is to see two straight guys kissing. I guess it has the same appeal to me as guys like to see two chicks kiss. I especially like it when the guys are really masculine it deepens the thrill. I've had this fantasy since i was a teen and my boyfriend at the time kissed his best friend as a joke. I'm just wondering are there any other girls out there with this same kind of fantasy? Is this uncommon or do some girls just don't like to talk about it?

2007-06-06 19:45:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok this question is about the same guy. ive know this guys for about 4 years i really like him hes 16 and im 14 hes not a virgin i am. i talk to him almost ever week and when i do he tends to ask weird questions like do i have a bf, how much ive done with a guy, how much i wanna do with a guy, personal questions like that. what does that mean ? is that a weird way of flirting or him jus being weird ?

2007-06-06 19:45:12 · 14 answers · asked by *********** 2 in Singles & Dating

He will tap me on the arm to say hi and bye and most of the men that touch me that way are my good guy friends...is he flirting? I've met him three times and talked less than 10 minutes. Why would he feel compelled to touch me?

2007-06-06 19:39:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So everyone says that eye contact is a big thing when seeing if a girl is into you and just in general if you're talking with a person. But sometimes I think it could creep a girl out if let's say you're across a room and you catch eyes with a girl you've said hi to maybe once and keep contact with her. Would that creep/weird a girl out to do. Also if you're having a conversation with someone, people say you know you can trust someone if they can look you in the eyes when they're talking to you. But sometimes I'll get weirded out even if I'm talking with my brother and we're just looking right in eachothers eyes. Is this just something I need to get over or is there some sort of rule about making eye contact with people?
* More important is the question about a across the room eye contact and what to do in that kind of situation.

2007-06-06 19:33:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is mentelly ill. I told him he needs to be more open with his doctor so that he can help him.But the this is problem His doctor only sees him for 5 mins.The last time we was there he change his meds, and when my husband called him to tell him the the new meds was not working, doctor never called him back.Now he is sick and I don't know what to do about.

2007-06-06 19:23:18 · 21 answers · asked by Mary M 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-06 19:21:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have begged him to come back to me he came back last night and told me he still loved me and wanted to come back. So he came back and "stayed" awhile. After that he left again. I know stupidity on my part. What can i do to get back at him?

2007-06-06 19:16:37 · 14 answers · asked by total brandy21 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i love piercing and i don't have any on now. But recently i asked him if i can pierce my eyebrows.. Immediately he started saying that i am not a good wife and if a wife loves piercing ... she is never a going to be a good wife or mother.!!
I got so angry and we argued!!
But is it true?? Can't a wife have these likes?? Is it wrong to?

2007-06-06 19:05:36 · 13 answers · asked by sUnseT 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been trying to get here to do it but she wont. i think this is ruining our marriage

2007-06-06 19:04:33 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

whenever he gets mad at me for this that or the other thing and never says sorry to me. he never feels that he has done wrong, always blaming me for his course of actions. is this a vicious cycle? i asked him if he has been physical with his ex-wives before (yes, married and divorced 2 times) but he denies it. I asked if i am the first woman he has ever been physical with and he says yes. even after all the abuse, he never says sorry or make it up to me... will he do this again in the future?
i am emotionally very attached to him and everytime i am hurt (even though it's not his fault), i tend to show him the frustrations cuz i want his attention, his love, his hugs and kisses and i will feel a lot better but when he ignores me & i throw a fit about it, he turns out to be a monster and strangles me and yet he boldly says he loves me. Does love hurt anyone? Has anyone been thru what i have been thru?

2007-06-06 19:01:55 · 37 answers · asked by Such is Life! 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How Can a Man sit there and be a complete Axxhole after you just poured your heart out to him?

2007-06-06 19:01:52 · 9 answers · asked by Elysia H 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-06 18:51:59 · 10 answers · asked by Crazy Cheese 1 in Friends

My very needy mother in-law moved away two days ago. She was a trouble maker & kept my family on pins & needles for four years. She has drained my wife both mentally & physically.
Should I be expecting my wife to start focusing in on me due to lack of hysteria or turmoil in our household?

I am a str8 up husband & daddy who wants to know what you think - HONESTLY.

2007-06-06 18:49:52 · 15 answers · asked by F H 2 in Family

In my home searching for alliance from past 5 yrs, m not getting any suitable guy, iam working in centrl govt orgn. finished engg. my problem s now i m fed up with seeing guys, so i told my parents that i ll not marry, my mother very much tensed, she worried abt me. mentally i am very much disturbd, pls guide what i hav to do?

2007-06-06 18:43:31 · 19 answers · asked by ani123 1 in Family