He will tap me on the arm to say hi and bye and most of the men that touch me that way are my good guy friends...is he flirting? I've met him three times and talked less than 10 minutes. Why would he feel compelled to touch me?
2007-06-06 19:39:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
RED FLAG! He's interested in getting into your pants! n
2007-06-06 19:52:52 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've know a guy like this.
i think this is a habit.
some may think he is very friendly, or it is a kind of affection.
i'm first impression when this guy touch me was (15yrs old) :
"ey he's still with this 'kindergarten' habit. He must be retarded "
touching can also be a lack of respect.
i've told him "hey i dont want a finger on me,behave like a teen, not like a lil kid, grow up boy! "
then he touched me again, but on my hips (in tuition), i slaped him twice on his head n cheek. n he'd never did that again.
2007-06-07 03:02:24 · answer #2 · answered by eMJy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might have a sincere, warm...and somewhat frail heart. Give the guy a break if he's nice; sounds like he's far better classed that some punk azzholes, eh?
Be grateful he isn't groping you all over this early stage of things......
2007-06-07 02:43:28 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you making to much of this? or just ask him "hey bud why u touching my arm to say hi? most guy's that touch me this way are my good guy friends..soooo what's up with this touching???? hah tell why u do this for?
2007-06-07 02:44:50 · answer #4 · answered by dounut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, when you said touching me i thought you meant like grabbing your breasts and stuff. Tapping your arm is not going to win you any sexual harrasment lawsuits or nuthin.
It is probably just cos he is wierd.
2007-06-07 02:44:35 · answer #5 · answered by gt5364e 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just touchy people. It is a way of ensuring your undivided attention. I wouldn't read to far into it.
2007-06-07 02:43:38 · answer #6 · answered by I know EVERYTHING! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't really know what he's doing, and that's the only way he can get your attention. He really likes you, I guess.
2007-06-07 02:45:38 · answer #7 · answered by Vaco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is flirting with you. i think he likes you and instead of telling you he is touching you to see your reaction
2007-06-07 03:57:35 · answer #8 · answered by Tante 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people are just very touchy-feely, ...but it also may be his way of quietly flirting with you
2007-06-07 02:43:49 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think that's nice...
take a step away from him next time you see each other so he cant reach for you casually.
2007-06-07 02:45:45 · answer #10 · answered by puzzled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋