i asked in the ltr for hr to keep it confidential, i didnt sign my name, and i will mail it from a different town. is there any way he can will find or think i did it? i dont want it traced 2 me? any suggestions? he is a forklift driver and smokes weed, and alcohol. one time he hit a girl in the arm and said she wasnt looking where she was going. do u think he might suspect i ratted him since we were engaged and he dumped after 5 yrs cuz i loss my job to cancer. he is with another girl at his job.
2007-06-06 20:10:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i want to inform his job so he will get fired and leave my building so i dont have to see or him screwing and cheating on me, so he will have to move in with parents in another city.
2007-06-06 20:12:22 · update #1
You should want to report him out of genuine concern for who he may hurt while under the influence. Sounds like you are just doing it out of revenge. I feel for you, but your motives are a lil twisted.
2007-06-06 20:17:02 · answer #1 · answered by JENNIFER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, someone wants revenge. Maybe the best way to handle this would be to do something else. How is revenge going to solve your problem or make you feel better. The best thing to do is just learn to move on and deal with things in a different way. Remember KARMA could also get the best of you as well. Calm down and maybe something else would be a better solution. Also from the looks of things you need to seek professional help, maybe some counciling would do you some good honey. Sounds crazy to me! Best Wishes!
oh and how is he smokin alcohol because i would love to try that one!
2007-06-06 20:15:57 · answer #2 · answered by ~* Garden Empress*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell me this: will exacting this form of revenge bring you joy and happiness? Because those I've seen and known to have exacted revenge on others NEVER got the reward of happiness they thought they'd earn.....NONE of them.
I wonder if you're any different.
You can't prove he's physically abusive. However, a surprise on job drug screen (if done right) might prove interesting.
And how come do I suspect the job you lost to cancer and the one he has when he dumped you are one and the same????
And I hope you were savvy enough to keep a photo copy of the letter. Company human resources are supposed to keep such letters confidential if the person who wrote it asks for anonymity.
He might suspect....however, it's your job to APPEAR you didn't rat him out.
2007-06-06 20:18:53 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He would likely suspect that the letter was from you. It would be best to find another way to get back at him if you don't want him to know that it was you.
2007-06-06 20:17:53 · answer #4 · answered by tonymrep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call his employer, tell them what you know and if they ask for your name make one up.... It's not that hard to do. My ex was talking to another girl whom I used to be friends with. I called her boss and told them she was harassing me from the business phone..... which was a lie. She didn't work another day after that. lol
2007-06-06 20:17:59 · answer #5 · answered by jescilynj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are broken up,he isn't cheating on you..
I think you'll find someone else..
Good luck.
Don't worry about him...You'll be Ok,and find another when you refuse to leet him run your thoughtlife.
2007-06-06 20:17:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure he will be able to understand anything you write, because I sure as hell cannot.
2007-06-06 20:13:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋