I recently attended a party with lots of alchol involved and a sober guy that liked/ might still like me tried to talk about our "relationship" and asked me what it felt like to be wasted and a few questions about my personal life. Only I was completely sober as well, but I was holding a flat sprite in one hand that I guess looked like vodka and flat A&W that he mistook for Jack Daniels. I just played around acting smashed just to see what he would do and he just sat with me, talking.
Is he still attracted to me?
Was he just trying to pump info out of me when he thought I was "drunk"?
Was he trying to be a good friend?
2007-06-06 20:14:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was wearing a long pouffy gown and he kept staring at my calves when I would lift the train of my dress up.
Is he trying to take advantage of my situation?
2007-06-06 20:16:25 · update #1
depend what kind of question. He probably interest in u if he not using u when u are drunk. I think he is attracted to u and seeing what kind of a person u are ( pump the truth). I dont think he was being a good friend by talking to a drunk girl who probably wont remember him, but he become one. Find him talk to him. Wow he was sober during the party, he sound good
2007-06-06 20:19:56 · answer #1 · answered by Just Loving It. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am trying to put myself in your shoes and imagine......I think he was kinda "lonely" and feeling out of place, looking for a sober friend like himself to keep company with. But why did you pretend to be smashed? Why would you do such a thing? Why weren't you straight with him? Why were you deceptive? I will give you credit for not drinking; at least you get points for that. But, you can't build a friendship on being deceptive. He probably was disappointed in you, thinking you're no different than the drunken fools there, guzzling down the free booze. I don't know how your gonna make things right between the two of you. Now, if you tell him you were just pretending, he may wonder why think that was a cool thing to do? plus all the questions I myself had.....
2007-06-07 03:32:00 · answer #2 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Another drunken kiddie party--with absolutely no value---you tried to do what with this guy??--I don't understand the whole stupid story--so if I don't get it--do you think he did??? he probably sees you as a jerk or a drunk--or some stupid immature kid. Choose a better way to spend an evening--or party hard and don't expect to meet a real nice guy. This case is out the door---too late---try another guy and this time act your age and have a real fun date--instead of hanging at a loser convention. You can date and avoid parties--it's your life. Oh well, good luck--I guess.
2007-06-07 03:22:59 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't play games, and expect to learn anything about what someone else feels. He may have been interested and may still be, but you blew the opportunity to find out by deceiving him. Next time be honest and sincere. You might be able to figure out what the guy really wants. It is not fair to you or to him to be dishonest. that is certainly no way to begin a relationship of any kind.
2007-06-07 03:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was proberly waiting for the chance to take advantage of u or he could have really liked u and decided to stick around so that he can protect u so that no one else might have taken advantage of u.even though u were not drinking why didn't u tell him the truth instead of pretending. who knows both of u could have proberly had some fun instead of talking and sitting all night.
2007-06-07 03:23:48 · answer #5 · answered by Rendevous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't agree with you any more, alcohol and boys do not mix!
Now alcohol and girls, that's another story altogether and can present some good times!!!
Maybe you're not as good of an actress that you believe yourself to be and he was fully aware that you were not drunk!
Then again, maybe not!
2007-06-07 03:21:47 · answer #6 · answered by runninfool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, drunk girls are easy to have sex to most men because when you're drunk you don't have energy to fight back and you don't know what you're doing.
Stay away from alcohol if you can't handle it. Alcohol is bad.
2007-06-07 03:19:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a nice guy. won't hurt to try.
2007-06-07 03:18:49 · answer #8 · answered by mustang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you made him become interested in you for the wrong reasons
2007-06-07 03:19:19 · answer #9 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋