I have begged him to come back to me he came back last night and told me he still loved me and wanted to come back. So he came back and "stayed" awhile. After that he left again. I know stupidity on my part. What can i do to get back at him?
2007-06-06 19:16:37 · 14 answers · asked by total brandy21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
living well is the best revenge!
You messed up...but just go on. If he wants top come and stay again just say "Sorry, I don`t think its a good idea" If you are cool and indifferent, then it`ll hurt more.
If anyone says that they heard he stayed, just say "it was a moment of weakness...it was that or chocolate icecream.....think the icecream would have been more satisfying."
2007-06-06 19:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by psychokitty 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go out and have some fun. Get your girlfriends together and see some male strippers. Flirt with some cute guys.
If he dosent want you let him go. If he happens to call be sure to let him know how full your social calendar is. If you beg him to come back and he comes and goes then you're no more than an easy booty call.
Thats the first part, next spread some rumors that he has herpes and you're so glad you always used protection.
Last part is optional and may affect your karma ;)
2007-06-06 20:32:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really shouldn't try to get revenge... you should try to let go and move on with your life. Don't continue to place yourself in a positon where you are compromising your heart. I know that it hurts but... there is life after a broken heart and there is also someone else out there who will embrace your life with joy. Take time out for you... sort out your feelings... allow the healing process to begin. Revenge is not the answer and it will not help you move on. So, pull yourself together... and realize that you deserve better... never again beg a man that doesn't want to be with you to stay. Good Luck!
2007-06-06 20:08:55 · answer #3 · answered by Candy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get a real picture by how he "stayed" awhile; a common condition most men in this guy's stituation has I call the blue ballz syndrome....and it's quite common w/ most ex's and newly divorced guys.
And guess what: increasing numbers of newly divorced women are getting the same thing!!!!
It's stupid of you to even think of revenge.
The best revenge is living well, healthy and happy---without him. So stop kicking yourself, let him go and let things be.
Pick up and rock on well w/ life, OK????
2007-06-06 19:47:34 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi friend
dont go for revenge thing it will more hurt you then him.in your situation you can tease him and play with him but not revenge. for example you to call and talk with him nicely and go to his place for having fun make the atmosphere of fun and leave without having fun with him , sometime if u want to get sex with him then go for it and enjoy when he ask u to come sometime , say that u will come and dont go till last minute he know that u are not coming give some ginune excuse. if u want him to be with u means u want to be in relationship and make him crazy for u too . so make urself in that way . give him a craziest sex and when he will ask u for another day to come say him u will come , u come to him and without doing anything , u leave with urgent work . make your friend to call you. in this way u can enjoy his company and play with him too but dont revange because revange hurt u only.
best of luck enjoy urself
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2007-06-06 19:26:30 · answer #5 · answered by relaxxxx 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Best way is to toally move on, and treat him like fresh air - nothing will irritate him more than to know he cannot get back into your life.
2007-06-06 20:34:30 · answer #6 · answered by Unicornrider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he leave because you are vengeful? Act with some poise, confidence and maturity. That will be the best way to get even with him because he will finally feel he lost something.
2007-06-06 19:28:24 · answer #7 · answered by theartisttwin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um try growing up ill bet that would really tick him off or make him come home for good.
2007-06-06 19:22:10 · answer #8 · answered by dad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgive and let go... vengeance will hurt u more than him.. be a better person and move on.. find a person who deserves u..
i know its hard.. but its the better thing to do.. and that way u end up as a better person and not as cheap as him
2007-06-06 19:19:34 · answer #9 · answered by who ?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
genuinely believing in each other is the basis of a long lasting and happy relationship. if it aint there then there is no point.
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2007-06-07 01:39:17 · answer #10 · answered by bh37bh37 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋