I have been trying to get here to do it but she wont. i think this is ruining our marriage
2007-06-06 19:04:33 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Certainly, when two people who are married have no sexual chemistry, it makes for a very arid environment at home. It's like living with your sister. You two have to come to a decision as to what you each want in your life. If no resolution is reached, then you perhaps have to part ways.
Now there may be other issues involved, however, you have no disclosed any other information.
2007-06-06 19:25:21 · answer #1 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is marriage without sex. Just wondering, maybe she is already menopausal. This sometimes causes women to lose appetite for sex. If this is the case, maybe your time is up.. Just make a compromise with her. If she doesn't want to have intercourse, maybe she could help you by using her hand/s. Bottom line, talk this thing out and see if you can still make this work. If all things fail, it's your call.
2007-06-07 02:20:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Note this SAK :
If most marriages didn't consist of sex there would be a lot of divorced women out there.
Not that it's based on sex, just that sex is part of marriage
I'm sure any red blooded guy will agree!
2007-06-07 02:19:48 · answer #3 · answered by mes210 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just a question and nothing more to it.Should you still insist then I must say that you deserve it.Have you ever asked her if she feels deprived of something in her life.A wife generally uses such tactics as a leverage or a bargaining position.Now go ahead and solve the problem.
2007-06-07 02:16:57 · answer #4 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For a wife not wanting her husband to make love to her is a problem. She must have the reason why she is refusing to make love to you. Try to be romantic to her. Try to set her moods before asking her. If still she doesnt then its time for you to talk about it seriously. But discuss the matter with her calmly.
2007-06-07 02:59:36 · answer #5 · answered by Zhoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put on some Al Green or some die hard romantic song, take her in close for a slow dance look her deep in her eyes and say " I know that the moon it out among the black sky but I only want to gaze into the stars in your eyes tonight."
you say that while whispering in her ear, and she just might ride you like a pro rodeo star on a bull called thunder down under.
yeehawww!!
2007-06-07 02:18:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a pathetic society we have today, men basing their marriages on sex...
Give her time. Ask her if anything is wrong. Calm the hell down..While you're worrying about not having sex little children are dying out there...(Hah, I know, its so dramatic, but do I care? No. Why? Because its true.)
2007-06-07 02:09:32 · answer #7 · answered by Me Being Me 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Ultimatum won't work.
Sit down and be honest with her - there may be some issue you don't realise - one that may need counselling for both of you.
2007-06-07 02:23:20 · answer #8 · answered by Unicornrider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is cheating on you and she has decided the marriage is over. She is looking for a way to suck you dry before she just leaves.
2007-06-07 02:13:48 · answer #9 · answered by Bones 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Maybe you arent making her happy. Maybe she justs doesnt like it that much. You married her for her, and not for sex, so you have to get over it. If you DID marry her for sex you should get a divorce and allow her to find a good man.
2007-06-07 02:23:25 · answer #10 · answered by amy 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋