i love piercing and i don't have any on now. But recently i asked him if i can pierce my eyebrows.. Immediately he started saying that i am not a good wife and if a wife loves piercing ... she is never a going to be a good wife or mother.!!
I got so angry and we argued!!
But is it true?? Can't a wife have these likes?? Is it wrong to?
2007-06-06 19:05:36 · 13 answers · asked by sUnseT 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
wow... sounds to me like you shouldn't have married someone who was so different, obviously he is not as open-minded and that is going to cause A LOT of problems if you ever have children..... what you think is ok is not ok with him and if that doesn't change or you can't compromise, look forward to a lot of grief.
2007-06-06 19:11:57 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs.Neville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all. Thats taking thing to the extreme. If thats the case I must not be a good father because I have a piercing and 3 tattoos. Contrary to what your husband says, getting a piercing doesnt weigh heavily at all on the things that disrupt marriage. He should more less tune into those types of desires you have and understand that that is a part of who you are. A womans mind is very different from a mans, to him all it is is a piercing, to you its a decision that you thought about and made and you want him to support you on it. Tell him that those are the little bugs that eat marriages ALIVE.
2007-06-07 02:14:35 · answer #2 · answered by BLUE DEVIL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need to ask your husband permission to do anything that you want to do? Something is wrong with that picture.
Having piercings does not make you a good or bad mother. Just remember that you are an example to your children and don't do anything that you believe would harm them and you will be safe.
By the way, don't let the children get facial piercings until they are old enough and mature enough to make that decision.
2007-06-07 02:13:59 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi friend
just ask your husband in place of fighting that is he dont love piercing or where he got this that those who piercing not idiol wife. first find out the reason and sources .
2007-06-07 02:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by relaxxxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you start questioning your motherhood and you being a wife it mean you are not self confident . dear we are girls ..we love piercing , shopping , going to hair dresses ..those all are women things and men cant understand that ...they cant understand why we do our best to be beautiful by piercing or by any mean we see it make us more attractive ...
don't worry
this is because he is a man
and you are a woman
2007-06-07 02:14:36 · answer #5 · answered by Silent tear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering your past questions have you considered getting an annulment based on fraud. He is not the man you thought you married!
I would have left the moment he hit me. (link) Or he would have had to deal with a broken knee cap after I kicked him in vengeance.
2007-06-07 02:34:37 · answer #6 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's supposed to love you for who you are (wether it's full of tattoos and piercings or not), not dictate who he thinks you should be - next he'll be telling you nhow to wear your hair! That's ridiculous!
2007-06-07 02:22:20 · answer #7 · answered by Unicornrider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give him more oral in the bedroom and maybe he will let you get a piercing. i can't believe you have to ask for permission for that. lol
2007-06-07 02:08:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no darling it is absolutely fine as long as both guys agree. in marriage you have to compromise as both guys may not really like each other' fantasies/likes.
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2007-06-07 08:40:17 · answer #9 · answered by bh37bh37 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course its fine- he's an idiot. Be true to yourself and your personality. If he doesn't love you the way you are, leave him.
2007-06-07 02:09:03 · answer #10 · answered by Renesme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋