i met this guy 5yrs ago,his work it all over the world, i have travel may places whith him,i return back home and he goes back home we live in a differen continent, we have had very well comunication, problem like any couple, whenever i have problem (fiancialy he always there to help me no matter how it takes, he will even send his atm card (once) to pay my house rent, he alls me everyday!,but the problem is my relatioship isonly been like this for 5 years nothing new, he dont pland anythng more than ust that, and when i tell him he says he will but never has,we dont make any other step, he help me for my rent,iwill see see him 7-10month,if i go to him or he come here,so idont knowwhat to do, my whole life am waiting for him,and it hurts me cause cause i cant leav him cause i love him, and he pays my house rent,,its vey difficult for mrthan for him,and when i tell him this he amke empty plans ...then i endup same person,, please ur help a lot...
2007-06-06 20:05:28 · 5 answers · asked by shito 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you thought of taking the next step? Maybe marriage?
2007-06-06 20:08:50 · answer #1 · answered by Dunkel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure that he is not married to someone else? Tell him that it is time to make a decision. Is he willing to make a committment or not? Don't continue to waste your young years on a man that has no plans of making you his wife. You will regret it. I spent 12 years waiting on a man I loved dearly. Now I am alone and much older, and much more bitter. It was not worth it.
If he says no, believe it. He really means it. If he says yes, make him to buy a ring, and set a date right then and there. Five years is plenty enough time to know whether you want to spend the rest of your life with someone or not!!!
2007-06-06 20:14:16 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-07 19:57:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he married to someone else?
If so,drop him,unless you like he fact that he pays your rent(who wouldn't?).
7-10 months is a long time not to see someone,but for five years???
Wow.
I don't know.
You have to make a hard decision,but it'll work out.
2007-06-06 20:13:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why you have to put your life on hold... Go with him or don't, you have to work out exactly where this relationship is headed. Ask him. Don't stay with him just 'coz he pays your rent...
2007-06-06 20:10:09 · answer #5 · answered by Lizzy309 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋