What to do?? He won't leave me alone??

Question

I have a delima with my crush and his brother...Ok the guy i like my dad doesnt like him but the guy i don't like ,likes me and my dad likes him instead and my dad thinks that since i still live in his house that he can tell me who to date and blah , blah ,blah ...I know that most of you will say that he just trying to protect me because he might see something in him that i dont see but i feel that i need to learn that i mean c-mon im freakin 22 and yeah the reason i stay with my dad is cause of money issues and i cant afford my own place at this moment...I really , really , really like this guy but my dad trys everything for me to be attractive to his brother and i hate it ...Its making me not to want to be around my dad so much anymore...I told him i couldnt help who i liked or who im attracted too im just attracted to him alot more....Now i have told his brother pleanty of times that i didn't see him in that way but no matter what i say he still trys...He calls me baby

and has tried to kiss me and everytime he is around he trys to wrap his arms around me and i ask to stop and i move away he just keeps on doing it...I told my crush about his brother and he just laughed he thought it was soooo funny!!!

I dont wanna be mean to him ...But i dunno what else to say or do to him to give him the message that im NOT into him....?

Answer 1

He is stalking you and violating you in a way. You need to be firm and tell him he is violating your boundaries. Until you get serious he wont take you seriously.

Answer 2

does the bother like u? the one u have a crush on? cuz if he doesnt then u juss need to move on and find someone else! now about the brother that u dont like.... obviously hes not gonna get the picture, that boy might need some serious help or something. have u told him that hes juss wasting his time tryin to talk to u n he needs to find someone else. or maybe u could introduce him to someone else thats kinda like you soo he would forget about you and move one with the other girl and he would be out ur hair. if that doesnt work dont go were he goes. stay away from him and try n avoid him.

Answer 3

Don't go over there any more. Get your date to pick u up or meet somewhere else. In time the hornytoad will find something else to take up his horniness. When hornyboy finds someone else then your dad will also have to stop matchmaking.

Answer 4

I would say be nice and tell him in a polite way, but it seems like you are already doing that. You need to tell it to him in a more direct way. I would say go to him and say "Hey cut it out. You are being a jerk. I don't like you SO GET OVER IT" It might seem mean, but it sorta seems like its the only thing left to do right?

Answer 5

get a restraining order for the other guy lol and the one you like alot regardless of what your DAD says STAY WITH HIM!!! my dad didnt like the guy im with when we dated and a year later guess what we're married:)

Answer 6

Girl you have to tell your dad about all that "forcing you "!
Promise me ok ?
Its not OK to force a girl to do anything tell me that I'll come and f$uck him up if he does it again!
Hate jerks like that!

You're insured by Russian Mafia girl so if he bothers you again ,Holla ,k?

Answer 7

You are an adult. Get a roommate and move out. You can date who ever you want whether your father likes it or not.

Answer 8

so does your crush know that you like him? if so does he like you? and if he does like you why doesn't he tell his brother to stop? if you want the brother to stop then you really need to let him know. if you don't tell him he will just keep doing it.

Answer 9

You are under your dad's roof, you will do what your dad says. If you want to do what you want to do, then get a job, move out and financially support yourself.

Answer 10

dont listen to your dad your already old enough to choose who you want to be with
and just get a bf already so that the guy you dont gets it
maybe then he will get it that you dont like him and like someone else