I have a some what problem I think see I fell in love with my bestfriends ex old man and every since I have not been the same person I make myself look bad when I say my bestfriends old man hu but its true I LOVE him so much. Well they broke up and I have liked him for a long time we even messed around before they got together, She has made life hell see he has 2 boys with her. She keeps telling him she dont want me around her kids and man I'm tellling you what she is something else. But the problem is not her really it is he dont open up to me and tell me how he feels. When he does open up he wont come around for a few days and that I dont understand neither, He has done a lot wrong in the 2 years we have been seeing each other but I cant turn away from him I feel like he is my world I love him so much could you give me some advice on how I could maybe tell him how much he means to me or even any advice on how to get him to open up some...
2007-06-06 23:43:23 · 5 answers · asked by zackahron 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
go away, no wonder why she didnt want you around, that is your best friends, go away and leave them alone, if they get back together, you will be left in the dust, save yourself the pain, just go away
2007-06-06 23:48:32 · answer #1 · answered by jen w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never will. Unfortunately, in this case love is blind. Youre in a one sided affair; yours. He obvisiously doesnt feel the same about you as you do him. Also I get the feeling that youre not really in actual true love with himbut youre in love with the idea of being in love or else you would know exactly what you have to do here. From your question, I sense youre beginning to question his feelings for you and youre actually starting to see what is really happening here. Basically youre being used or were and without a permanent boyfriend of your own, youre going after the next best thing which is the wrong thing to do. Not only are you going to end up losing the guy but your best friend too in this. Leave them alone to sort things out themselves and work on finding a guy of your own. Theres plenty of guys out here if youll only look and not at some other girls guy. Good luck
2007-06-07 06:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on. If this guy goes back to his wife with 2 boys you will be left alone to move on anyway. You said that when he does open up to you, he doesn't come around for a couple days. That's not a good sign. Sounds like there is a lot of problems with this guy. You don't need to get hurt this way.
2007-06-07 06:58:44 · answer #3 · answered by Joe S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love him??? Love what?? Are you a little dense or what??--you have a crappy relationship with a lousy guy---can't you see that?? Why do you make these ridiculous statements?? Can't you find a decent man?? What future is there when the present is so screwed up?? it will only get worse---nothing will make it better--grow up and get a clue---MOVE ON. There's another woman--with 2 kids?? What kind of nut are you?? This is just plain silly and stupid--God what a life...!!!
2007-06-07 07:00:19 · answer #4 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what is happening hes telling you one thing and her one thing. so what do you want? hes not honest and that is why he can't face you right away if i were you i would call this nothing and move on and find someone that you can love and be in honest relationship with.
2007-06-11 01:11:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋