My boy friend is 5 years older than me and whenever i bring up sex he completley changes the subject and tells me to wait until i'm 18, he has my best intrest at heart and i can tell he loves me but i was wondering is dating an older guy when i'm not 18 yet wrong?
2007-06-06 23:30:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HOW OLD ARE YOU???
2007-06-06 23:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be dating outside of your general age apparently. His priorities are slightly misleading. He will date an underage girl, yet he urges you to wait to have sex until your at least 18. If you feel you are right in dating someone this far older than you and are actually bringing up sex and He's the one trying to talk sense into you , than I think you need to re-establish some values and morals for yourself and try just enjoy being a teen and not complicating your life with matters that are obviously to mature for you right now.
2007-06-06 23:42:12 · answer #2 · answered by Honee-Bee93 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its wrong well as long as you are minimum 16 and he seems to me like a good guy because he doesnt want you for sex as many guys are like that :/ so it may be better for you to wait? because its something that you will remember it for the rest of your life you surely wanna have a good memory of it and not looking back later and tell yourself ahh what a mistake ! i was too young and not ready! lol
2007-06-06 23:36:59 · answer #3 · answered by sAdAfKa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your bf doesn't wan't the two of you to rush into sex b'se he thinks you're still young and dating an older guy has never been wrong so hangon.
2007-06-06 23:41:28 · answer #4 · answered by Briwhi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probally thinks he is robbing the cradle, and by the way you speak i think his fears arnt unfounded. Guys who respect you in this fassion are rare, dont ruin it over some hormone induced emotion
2007-06-06 23:38:49 · answer #5 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're both at two different stages in life. He's in his twenties...Of course, it depends on the level of maturity both of you have.
It's good that he wants to wait until you're legal.
2007-06-06 23:57:15 · answer #6 · answered by darkening_hope 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all. Your obviously more mature than the guys your age.
2007-06-06 23:34:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, he doesn't wanna go to jail, that's all i can say, u're underage that's y
2007-06-06 23:38:21 · answer #8 · answered by AppleSoda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, most people do ! You ARE young. chill out.
2007-06-06 23:39:12 · answer #9 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋