im having a few problems and i need somebody to answer this question in the quickest time possible
2007-06-06 23:27:35 · 12 answers · asked by tamzin b useful today 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you feel you cant be with someone, you really dont love them
2007-06-06 23:30:17 · answer #1 · answered by jen w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh this is a very difficult situation... first u need to know why u cant be with this person...
there could be several reasons like:
the person is already engaged, the person is going somewhere else to another country, the person is of another religion etc...
if the person is engaged then definitely u both can stay gd friends...
if the person is going away, why dont u go along or why dont u tell that person u love him/her so that u can eventually stay together...
and if the person is another religion and nobody will accept in ur family then who tells u that u will be happy with a person of ur religion!
better discuss with ur family and the guy and have them approve ur relationship with that guy by any means...
in other words, if u really love the person aand so does he/she, just fight to be together...
but both of u need to cooperate in this... if ur partner is not then this means the latter can let u down anytime...
ur partner should also be as determined as u to be together...
and if it's really impossible for both of u to be together then i would suggest that u both keep in touch and
try finding someone who will keep u happy and can make u forget ur ex love... this is possible!
gd luck
2007-06-06 23:35:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel like you cant be with them? I guess you mean there is something in the real world stopping you "ie bf/gf, distance or something". If its something simple like you dont think your good enough for him then thats easy, all you have to do is realise that he isnt perfect and that regardless of the front people put on there is always an ugly side.
2007-06-06 23:31:13 · answer #3 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that is a tough one! But i have been in the same boat so to speak. I give it another go but in the end i just felt like i couldn't be with them anymore. So i ended it!
You don't feel things like that for no reason, maybe you should ask yourself why you are.
2007-06-06 23:34:20 · answer #4 · answered by Mike s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-07 20:07:04 · answer #5 · answered by jackson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have a reason behind this question. If it is a family problem then you hae to decide whom you have to prefer first then as time comes it will all come on track
2007-06-06 23:34:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that's very difficult and hurts a lot.Probably you have personal problems and either you are scared or scared to hurt the other person.Something in your character or his/her stops you and you should deal with it.If it's at you then just know that no one's perfect and if it's at the other person, then learn to love people as they are..
2007-06-07 07:33:46 · answer #7 · answered by EternalLilith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you love someone but feel that you cant be with them its because your scared you wont admit it to yourself but you are because you love them your scared of getting with them and disapointing them or loosing them or they not the person you think they are its all natural if you love this person and they love you go for it you really have nothing to loose
2007-06-06 23:32:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
m in the same situation,but let it go my friend
2007-06-06 23:42:49 · answer #9 · answered by mommy2be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why can you not be with them, what is it thats stopping you, post more info
2007-06-09 03:39:49 · answer #10 · answered by steff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋