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A guy I don't really have a crush on but I want to have a friendship with like I asked but he's so quiet or kinda ignorant and he doesn't even greet me when he or I passes the other by
It's like I'm the one that do the talking.Well help me out.

2007-06-06 23:24:59 · 5 answers · asked by Straight Up! 1 in Family & Relationships Friends

5 answers

Perhaps it is what you are saying. I mean there are questions that you can answer in one word, and if your a shy type its likely you are going to answer that way.

Try opening up with small talk then move onto something more. Try asking him an opinion on something that he will really have to use his brain for, and is socially intersting enough that he will want to answer.

I cant really give you an example because I dont know the situation but yeah

2007-06-06 23:29:12 · answer #1 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 1 0

He may be shy due to the fact others make fun of him. You, yourself, make the statement "he's so quiet or kinda ignorant", so I am so sure if you see him that way, so do others. He probably figures you are just going to be another person to make fun of him, so his isn't responding.
He doesn't trust people.

You have to show him you see him differently. (do you?) Let him know quietly you just want to be his friend. Don't be pushy about it, he has a right NOT to choose you as a friend as well. Trust in someone, partner or friend, sometimes takes a while to build. Take your time and let God work it out for you. He will!

2007-06-07 06:38:16 · answer #2 · answered by mamabair 2 · 0 0

I would advice you to make the move.do what you want.go say hi to him before it is too late. you never know unless you try.everything begin with first step...be brave.

2007-06-07 06:29:18 · answer #3 · answered by jessy 3 · 0 0

maybe he's not shy, only cold and closed person, I don't think you can do much for getting his attention if it's so, just be yourself and don't molest too much, if he'll find you interesting he'll talk with you anyway...

2007-06-07 08:27:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

YOU JUST HAVE TO KEEP TALKING . HE WILL COME OUT OF HIS SHYNESS.

2007-06-07 06:28:52 · answer #5 · answered by CNT 5 · 0 1

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