Well there this guy i like and he likes me but recently i had an arguement with him and then we made up but now he told me that he dont want 2 get involved with a girl this summer because he wants to chill with his boys and he goes to me that he don't mind chilling and meeting up but thats it and he wants to think about us 2 before getting into things so i really dont know what to do. I have liked him for a year we done nearly everything together apart from sex but I really like him and its really hurting inside that he doesn't want to be my boyfriend yet. Please help.
2007-06-06 23:09:20 · 4 answers · asked by Miss_Party_Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you girls are failing to understand is that he needs space. I guess its possible he wants to go on a playa spree with the boys and by keeping his distance from you he can do that
The more likely reality of it is that he is confused. Its likely he is inexperienced in these matters and doesnt realise that good relationships have their ups and downs. He had one fight and thought, is this what the relationships going to be like and sorta fled.
Give him some space and time to think about things, then perhaps in a suttle way remind him of the good times you guys have had. If it ends up that he isnt interested or its not working move on, your young and there are plenty more fish in the sea
2007-06-06 23:19:43 · answer #1 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same situation, except he hasn't even had the decency to explain why he doesn't want to be with me yet. You need to just sit him down and explain it a last time and if he doesn't seem up for it, let him go. Let him see you with other guys. Don't call him as often. Don't pay him so much attention. You deserve someone who is upfront, honest, and wants you no matter what time of year it is.
2007-06-07 06:14:02 · answer #2 · answered by MissJustineLynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just wait for him and give him time to think..it sounds to me he likes you alot as he said he dont mind seeing you to chill and that....but i think after the argument he just needs to cool his head ...but if you dont hear from him and see him holding hands with another girl when it hits summer then you should tell him to **** off and you should find someone new it aint easy but it will be worth the pain ok?? GOOD LUCK AND JUST GIVE IT TIME or if its really stressin you just talk about your feelings to him
2007-06-07 06:16:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means he is keeping his options open.
2007-06-07 06:13:47 · answer #4 · answered by jen w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋