Is ıt possible to stay faithful to your spouse all life?...Or do we have to leave the sex just out of the love game of our marriage as having sex with the same person is considered boring and nonsense in our modern times?...
2007-06-06 23:53:24 · 16 answers · asked by pandora's box 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No. Everything in life and love is an option. Given the right surroundings and scenario with the right temptation and anything can happen. If the relationship is strong and healthy these temptations are easily overcome. But it also has to do with the right mindset. Why enter a relationship with the notion that someday he/she might cheat instead of thinking of ways to make it strong and healthy to make a relationship last and endure its challenges. Many couples out here have and still are totally faithful and committed to each other and never once think about all the evil temptations out here. If youre truly with the one you love, who really cares what society oranyone else thinks about you. Marriage is a lifetime committment between two and only two people as a gift by God. Never ever did it include a third person along the way. Life and love are exactly what you make of it and what you put into it youre surely to get out. None of us was ever promised an exciting and happy life, but an equal chance to create one for ourselves during our life journey but in the end we all end up the same. Its all about options and the oneswe make for ourselves. Also we all are only responsible for our own actions in this life. Think about it
2007-06-07 00:13:03 · answer #1 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IT MOST CERTAINLY IS POSSIBLE TO STAY FAITHFUL TO YOUR SPOUSE ALL YOUR LIFE!
If you got married for a good time in bed, then you got married for all the wrong reasons and you will definitely cheat.
If you are having sex with you spouse and it becomes boring, then again you were married for all the wrong reasons and you will definitely cheat.
If you were in love with your spouse and you made a commitment to spend the rest of your lives together till death do you part, then you would never have to think about MAKING LOVE to your spouse. That will happen naturally and there is nothing better than a man and woman, who are in love, making love.
If you had to ask that dumb question, then you obviously have no idea what love is. You probably have no idea what sex is, if yours is real boring.
2007-06-07 00:11:40 · answer #2 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes! Sex boring with your spouse? My friend, we have to look at this matter and fix it. Your wife is right there, and
hopefully willing and able. Between the two of you, you should be able to create an enormous amount of steam that will transcend anything you can have with a stranger.
If she agrees, why not make an effort to crank up your love-life to the extreme, and the attraction of "strange" will diminish as your love-making takes on a new and exciting dimension.
2007-06-07 00:03:40 · answer #3 · answered by Elwood Blues 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not inevitable. I always tell myself that before one goes into sex, they must understand each other well, care, love, share with each other. They shouldn't cheat on each other. They must understand the values of a marriage. Just think that why you guys fall in love with each other at the first time. And think of the consequences of adultery. I am sure in all religions, the culprit of adultery will not be tolerated, or rather, adultery will not be tolerated.
2007-06-07 00:45:51 · answer #4 · answered by pertinacious-gal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you make a commitment to be faithful, then that is exactly what you need to do. If sex is just sex to you, then you are not truly in-love with your spouse. And YES, it is possible to remain faithful to one person your whole life, but not many people live up to their promises these days.
2007-06-06 23:58:22 · answer #5 · answered by Briana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!!
Marriage is marriage, committment, two into one, in God's name, in God's House (usually), and with God at the head of the household, you cannot go wrong. Don't let the devil tempt you to be drawn into that "modern times" thinking. People don't see today that "modern times" are as a result of our sin, and these are the consequences our society is suffering as a result. We have brought this on ourselves.
Be strong, and be a part of society that keeps our values of life and marriage strong!!
2007-06-06 23:59:12 · answer #6 · answered by mamabair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its on inevitable if the person or persons cant control their hormones. I mean come on if you genuinely care for your spouse........how is another woman and or man appealing? Now im married and i can say damn thats a hot looking woman. But im not gonna go and try to have sex with her.........because honestly a quick piece of @@@ isnt worth what you can have spending a lifetime with one person.
2007-06-06 23:58:18 · answer #7 · answered by SS4 Elby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really loves your partner, you should be faithful to him / her throughout your life. Think of the consequence of a minute of pleasure may ruin you entire marriage if you commit adultery unless your love is not deep enough.
2007-06-07 00:00:35 · answer #8 · answered by moonlighter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't argue faith. And who says it incredibly is inevitable? through fact 3 left-wing states authorized it vs what share that nonetheless have overwhelming majorities helping the male/lady definition? The U.S. is incredibly 2 international locations and the faster it is going to become official the extra efficient off we are.
2016-12-18 16:39:08 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question is ridiculous. It's like asking if creating a bank means it will inevitably be robbed. A bank will be robbed when and if bad people decide to rob it. People will cheat if they have low integrity. Stop trying to find excuses for bad behavior.
2007-06-07 00:27:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋