how'd you know if if what u r feeling for someone is lust or love?? please help.. any answer would do...=)
2007-06-06 23:37:08 · 5 answers · asked by platoniclove28 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its lust if all you do is gawk at him and get all excited. Its love if you can talk to him for ages and not get sick of him
2007-06-06 23:41:02 · answer #1 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me give you the definition of both first
Lust is very often confused with love, it is purely physical attraction and has no lasting effect, While Love is The most spectacular,indescribable , deep euphoric feeling for someone.
Love is an incredibly powerful word. When you're in love, you always want to be together, and when you're not, you're thinking about being together because you need that person and without them your life is incomplete.
This love is unconditional affection with no limits or conditions: completely loving someone. It's when you trust the other with your life and when you would do anything for each other. When you love someone you want nothing more than for them to be truly happy no matter what it takes because that's how much you care about them and because their needs come before your own. You hide nothing of yourself and can tell the other anything because you know they accept you just the way you are and vice versa.
It's when they're the last thing you think about before you go to sleep and when they're the first thing you think of when you wake up, the feeling that warms your heart and leaves you overcome by a feeling of serenity. Love involves wanting to show your affection and/or devotion to each other. It's the smile on your face you get when you're thinking about them and miss them.
Love can make you do anything and sacrifice for what will be better in the end. Love is intense,and passionate. Everything seems brighter, happier and more wonderful when you're in love. If you find it, don't let it go.
2007-06-07 06:50:36 · answer #2 · answered by Tom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lust is just a crush, love is something way different, lust is when your attracted to one another, and dont have any emotional connection.
2007-06-07 06:45:06 · answer #3 · answered by jen w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a line between them is very thin but can be separated by a natural thing called "time"
2007-06-07 06:43:18 · answer #4 · answered by Raineli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you don;t the answer thy who dose
2007-06-07 06:46:03 · answer #5 · answered by EVA J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋