Yes its really sad, im 26 and have never been on a date or even had a real relationship. There's nothing wrong with me as far as I know, I just cant seem to gather the courage to ask a girl out. Im not really shy, I just hate when they say no, and never talk to me again.
2007-06-02 20:37:53 · 12 answers · asked by Aaron D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
GET OUT! stop typing on the computer! The problem with kids nowadays is that they don't get out enough!
Typing on a keyboard and emailing and chatting with people in the net simply doesn't qualify as true social interaction for me.
If you want to date a girl, the VERY FIRST STEP you have to take is to meet one.
Get used to the "No" bit. I had to ask several poeple before I finally met my wife.
2007-06-02 20:43:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a girl who you know will say yes. I hate getting rejected to. Don't rush to find Miss Right Now...There's nothing wrong with waiting till you find that perfect right woman to finally ask out for the first time, she could be "the one" or "the winner"....If you can read signs from women, then you'll be able to weed out the ones who seem to like you too, then youll be able to ask them to "hang out" or just get a drink...and then they'll have to say yes, cause you already know they have a similar feeling towards you! Hope this helps.
2007-06-02 20:44:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to just ask her face to face.If she is interested she will say yes or else no.If u cannot gather ur courege and ask u will never be able to do it.They say no because they are taken up elsewhere.For once be in their shoes.
2007-06-02 20:52:42 · answer #3 · answered by Shab D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so bashful and shy. Start talking to girls and ask them about themselves. Find out what they like and what they do. Talk to everybody. I used to be shy and the only way to get over it is to get experience. As you talk to lots of girls, one will be one you want to get to know better. Ask her to go get a soda or ice cream cone or go to the music store to listen to some music. Something that is not a big committment. If that works out then move on to something more. Ask her to do something that she likes to do. If you talk about movies and she says she would like to see a certain movie that is playing, ask her if she would like to go. If she likes museums, find out what special exhibits are around and ask her to go. Practice your social skills and it will all get so much easier. Stop wasting time. Life is out there. All you have to do is go for it.
2007-06-02 20:57:43 · answer #4 · answered by towanda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of on line dating website that seem to cute out the rejection factor.
2007-06-02 20:42:50 · answer #5 · answered by Okwhatever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kinna agree wit dexter. it depends on the way u approach a girl or even the type of girl u go for. im sure u still have plenty of time to find a very good girl for ya.
2007-06-02 20:43:32 · answer #6 · answered by linetta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was like you at 15 its not hot like that one girl said girls go for the guys with confidence so what if she says no there 2 billion girls out there theres one for you just waiting why do you want to risk missing her because u didnt have the confidence to ask her on a date live life with no regrets dude
2007-06-02 20:44:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
shy guys are sexy and thats the reason most girls are afraid to ask u out. they're the one's scared of rejection. just be a man and ask the shy girl in the corner to a movie or coffe
2007-06-02 20:44:42 · answer #8 · answered by Fazima♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude I'm 27 and theres been plenty of girls I didnt like for whatever reason. So some girls not gonna like me for whatever reason.. Who cares theres always another girl around the corner.
2007-06-02 20:42:15 · answer #9 · answered by Mr Answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol call 1800 get a hoe... and there you have it... because your way behind the ball son... 26 and no date that means 26 and now pink taco... lol your a big V
2007-06-02 20:44:33 · answer #10 · answered by Godson 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋