I love her, but I'm concerned. Recently she seems to be uninterested in sex with me, and she says that she's been fantasizing about other women. She's even asked me how I felt about having a threesome with another woman. It could be just a coincidence, because I have an addiction to pornography that I am very successful in keeping off, so far. She's told me that in the past she has flirted with being gay or bisexual, but she could never 'see herself with a woman.' I love her, and I feel she's the most beautiful woman on the planet. But for some reason I feel like maybe she's hiding something from me. Maybe it's because we've been separated for the past month, but I really hope that she isn't gay. I not only think our relationship couldn't withstand a threesome but that it would be total hell upon our children.
2007-06-02 22:09:03 · 6 answers · asked by Jontelleo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A lot of women fantasize about being with another woman, whether or not they go through with it is a different story. Maybe she is testing you to see if you would sleep with her and another person. If she is, she might be testing your own fidelity within the upcoming marriage. If she is being serious, then you should be grateful that she is opening up to you with her own personal feelings. This situation depends on how you truly feel about it. Can you really handle seeing your fiance be sexually active with another women? Is this the way you want to start your marriage off with? It seems you really don't know a lot about her and she doesn't know a lot about you with your addiction to pornography. Maybe taking the title of "fiance" off the table would be benefical to your situation until you two really know each other.
Good Luck!
2007-06-03 03:23:56 · answer #1 · answered by carissa m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you and your wife own it to each other to be totally honest and up front, for the sake of your marriage and your children....I would sit down with her and talk about what has been playing on your mind. tell her how you are feeling, an ask how she is feeling too, its important to try and understand whats going on in her mind, as well as whats going on in yours. Best of luck.
2007-06-02 22:12:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you had kids before getting married? oh well. if she's telling you thesee things, she is thinking about it. you better make a decision before the wedding. no use in paying all that money if you are just going to separate in a few...
2007-06-02 22:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am straight but for some reason I have fantasy about us with other women.Most girls have that but ask her.trust and the truth is the most importanting thing in a relationship talk to her be truthful.to her and nice
2015-03-16 06:46:09 · answer #4 · answered by rachael 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loosen up and open up if you want to stay with her,,have a threesome ,,they are great!!,,,why tell your kids?? they dont have anything to do with your sex life,,do they?
2007-06-02 23:43:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Physiologically, yes she is a bisexual because of her interest of the same sex.
2007-06-02 22:13:38 · answer #6 · answered by Ric S 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋