This new manager at work is always eyeballing me and smiling at me and giving me these flirty looks. And sometimes he likes to squeeze or grab my arm. Well yesterday when a 17 yr. old girl came in to apply for a job, he was googoo eyed and friendly to her in the same way he is with me. P.S. this man is like 36 yrs. old and married with kids, but he's just moving here so his wife and kids are in another state. What would you think about someone like that if you had to work with him everyday? Would you be afraid?
2007-06-02 22:16:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he is a cheap womanizer and not a gentleman. Just freeze and glare if he touches you ever again.
I would slap someone and report him for this. Dont take crap form anyone... you are valued far more than any man...
2007-06-02 22:20:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you're not a little jealous because his attention drifted to this young girl? Do you secretly desire his attention?
You could come on to him and I'll bet he'll run a mile and realise he was messing with the wrong woman. On the other hand, maybe he was doing it to her to get a reaction from you.
If you're truly not interested, ignore him for a while. He probably just needed an ego boost. I would not be afraid. If he tries it again, just laugh at him. Or remind him he has a wife!
2007-06-03 00:29:47 · answer #2 · answered by Chatterbox 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him that his attentions are unwanted. I'd start thinking sexual harassment and start keeping a log of what he's done and when. There are laws to protect you against this. If you are afraid, though, change jobs. This guy sounds like a jerk. Most companies train their managers thoroughly in how to treat people so these allegations can be avoided. I guess if it was me, I'd just find a new job and quit. Jobs aren't hard to find.
2007-06-02 22:39:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't necessarily be afraid, but I would have my guard up. I would document every time he gives you a "goo goo eyed - to use your term" glare.. or if he says something inappropriate.
Guys like that are lurches. You need to say something direct to him if you don't appreciate it or tell him how it makes you feel. He may not even be aware of it, but once you make him aware of it.. it should stop or be reported. But document it for your own safety in case it comes back on you later. Good luck.
2007-06-02 22:21:19 · answer #4 · answered by B B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez, give him some slack he's only human.
I suppose if it really makes you uncomfortable you should talk to him about it. To be honest I don't think he's doing anything all that wrong. "Flirty looks" and "Arm squeezes" can easily be mistaken for friendliness.
2007-06-02 22:21:58 · answer #5 · answered by Specs919 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not worry too much a squeeze on the arm is nothing to worry about just tell him you would like him not to do it ~~
2007-06-02 22:22:21 · answer #6 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pervert. Yeah I think I'd be afraid. I suggest you be careful and alert around him, if you really need to talk to him or something, get a bunch of colleagues to stay close and look out for you. :)
2007-06-02 22:20:19 · answer #7 · answered by teehee :D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont allow him any leeway.... he is feeling out the situation and is possibly setting things up in his mind for later.... or maybe he's just playing around while the wife is stored away elsewhere.
either way if you do not like or do not intend on liking then stop it now by telling him you do not like his touching.
2007-06-02 22:34:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sexual harassment definitely. If he makes a move on you like touching you report him to higher management. Sexual harassment is a criminal offense.
2007-06-02 23:13:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt be afraid but i would let him know that that sh*t wont fly with me. Guy sounds like a sleze ball and should be treated as such.
2007-06-02 22:20:36 · answer #10 · answered by Terrell D 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋