my gf and I(high school)?

Question

i really like the girl and she wants to have relationship with me too(her friends said she likes me and care about me), and we really have fun times together..but several things that make me donno what to do with this relationship
- we don't talk using phone a lot(either meet in real life or IM)
- we used to IM like crazy...now all of a sudden, she seems busy with her stuff and talks less
- we only see each other like MAX once a week(cuz we have school and she makes plan with friends on weekend)
-she said she's free this week and will tell me when she wants to meet, but she ended up not telling me and made plans with her female friends(sometimes she doesnt say like she does for other things too)
-when i'm down, she just gives me quiet time instead of questioning me and stuff(donno if she wants to give me quiet time or just don care)
-sometimes when she's cold or w/e, i ask her if she want a hug, and she says no
so what do you think what i should do in this relationship?

to the first guy... wait for what?.......

Answer 1

well the reason she stopped IM may be because she doesnt think u care enough.

and the plans well maybe she couldnt help it or wanted to know if u really want it or not

and when u're upset she either doesnt know what to say or she likes to have a silent companion when she's upset so she's doing the same with u (im like that)

a girl never want to force herself on some1 so u should ask her out proparly so she'd know u2 have a real relationship.

hope it helped =)

Answer 2

I strongly suggest you to wait and see.

You might want to sit down and reflect what caused all this, and if you can't find the reason, you might want to look into your attitude.

You can also talk about it with your girlfriend, ask her if there is a problem and why has she been acting like that.

In the meantime, pay more attention to her, read between the lines, and look for any subtle actions.

If the problems continue and become worse, then seperate and go on your own ways.

Hope this helps. Good Luck!

Answer 3

Hi,

I think she's that kinda of girl who isn't really deep in a relationship and she just doesn't care about your r/s. But I realy think you shouldn't date it's a waste of time. The time will come where you will find someone you marry and lead a wonderful life, it's just not now..

You could find a time to talk to her face to face and tell her how you feel, nicely of course. Good luck :)

Answer 4

Both of you are just children imitating the elders. In any case you are too your both are too young to form any mature opinion and stick to it. Better take theepisode in this spirit and devote your time to your studies and other youthful activities like sports etc.Perhaps after you both mature a little more you both may smile to think how immature you both ware.

Answer 5

talk to her tell her wats bothering you, wats the worst that could happen, if she wants to end it then she probley wasnt even worth it.
from wat i here i dont think she is worth it, but if u do rly rly like this girl and u think it can work then go for it k
hope it helps

Answer 6

Date someone else, she's not the one.

Answer 7

wait

Answer 8

um....find out if she really likes you cause if you ask me she doesn't