Family & Relationships - 2 June 2007

Okay i love him but he pushes me against stuff when he gets mad because i'm flirting with another guy!

2007-06-02 12:28:29 · 37 answers · asked by Treeluver 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a black woman 29 he is 35 white. He is the first white guy i have given a chance to but i still can't bring myself to be intimate with him. He is such a wonderful guy.probably the best man i have met in person. I really enjoy spending time with him but whenever it comes to us getting close i suddenly freeze & i suddenly notice his race. i don't understand why he is so patient with me. He could easily walk away from me and & himself an other girl(because he is drop dead generous, he has his own money making business and every thing women want in an ideal man). I have been seeing him for 6 months & i have met his whole family and he introduced me to them as his girlfriend. Our friends know we are a couple but they don't know we have never MADE LOVE. He has tried but i have given every excuse in the whole. I often spend weekends at his house. we do share a bed, we have kissed and yes we ve both seen each other naked (so it has nothing to do with my body).Read on at the bottom

2007-06-02 12:19:18 · 23 answers · asked by good_but_naughty_gal 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I have been married for 10 years. Every so often, while I am with her I notice her making prolonged eye contact with other men. She usually accompanies this with a smile. I must make it clear that this is not just a friendly smile as occurs throughout all of our days. I am talking about the kind of prolonged eye contact and smile that clearly indicates that there is something more going on. She always denies doing this and then claims to not even remember seeing anyone that she might have "noticed". In one instance, she was making eyes at a guy across the room at our kids band concert. I sat there watching her look at him and him look back, them lock eyes and smile and the cycle continued probably a dozen times. It turns out she knew this guy from work and she talked to him afterwards for about 15 minutes. She completely denied looking at him during the program. I feel very bad, it makes me wonder if my wife is looking to dump me.

2007-06-02 12:15:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-02 12:15:53 · 45 answers · asked by Taddster 4 in Singles & Dating

Im not sure what the intention is but my friend who is a girl has not called me back in 3 days. We ussually go hang out atleast once a week and lately she has been going out with other guys. Does it mean she lost her interest to hang out with me? The last time i saw her i gave her a kiss on the cheeks as a friendly good bye. i left her a text message on wednesday, a miss call on thursday, and a voice message to hang out on friday. I even asked a friend who is going out with the sister to see if she is mad at me, and the sister said no. I just don't get why she hasn't called, i've known her for 7 months...any opinions?

2007-06-02 12:15:00 · 1 answers · asked by mangolove 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to sing a song for my groom at our wedding but I am not sure what. I thought about singing Wind Beneath My Wings because I once sang that at a friend's wedding but I am thinking that maybe that is overdone. I have a soprano voice so I can hit the high notes but I do not want to be too overbearing when I sing. I want to sing something that I can look at my groom in the eyes and sing to him and forget everybody else is there for the moment. I want to sing something where the words will say that you are everything to me and I will love you forever. Does anybody have any good suggestions?

2007-06-02 12:13:04 · 30 answers · asked by V H B 3 in Weddings

I mean we all know its sick to try and mess with a 13 yr old etc. But, these guys are lured in with all kinds of bait. I don't think some of them would even do it if they weren't lured. Alot of older men have fantasies of messing with younger girls (maybe not 13, but like 17 or 18), however guys usually dont' act on it, but its tempting to a lot of men and I was just wondering what your opinions are on this.

2007-06-02 12:12:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-02 12:11:49 · 13 answers · asked by naughty lady 2 in Marriage & Divorce

so i like this girl, and we keep kinda talking ambigously about stuff. so i just want to tell her i like her, but not completely directly. she sent me some poems recently. is it okay to say to her "ur writing has always touched my mind, but bc i feel so much for you now, your writing touches my heart too." is that a good mix between direct and subtle?

2007-06-02 12:10:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this wonderful guy for about 2 months now... we met online and have just really hit it off... Now for the help I need... I have serious strong feelings for him and really do love being around him. You know the whole heart beats faster, palms sweat, knees weak when he kisses me thing. How do I ask (without asking) if he feels the same way? I have not said that I have these feelings yet. Should I even say anything? I don't know what to do... please help.

2007-06-02 12:09:43 · 10 answers · asked by lopezjri 2 in Singles & Dating

I was a battered wife of a very extreme violent man. I brought a car to try and get my license to get away, he stole my car which I reported to the police and they cannot seem to find the details, anyway, I have just received a letter saying that I have an outstanding fine to the total of $71.00 dated 17/06/1998 Canberra ACT, I split with him in 1994. I cant pay that right away. I have never had a license and have never driven anywhere, I am too scared to.

2007-06-02 12:09:15 · 2 answers · asked by isuccor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

because of his work schedule, I'm home alone with her for a few hours a day. not sure if i should mention it to him or not because she's the type of girl who would probably make up some crazy story that i was the one hitting on her or something like that...

2007-06-02 12:07:37 · 36 answers · asked by me 3 in Singles & Dating

I heard from a hand full when I ask about Mom's Day. Now I'm curious about your plans for your dad on his special day. I like to compare notes for special events. I would also like to hear from people whose dads has passed on. My dad passed on 3 years ago. So far, I always take my mom to his resting site to put fresh flowers on his grave. But, if any one has any good ideas on how to make this a more joyous occasion with family members I would love to hear your input. I thought about having a memorial in dads honor at a pot luck family gathering. But I don't know. What do you think?

2007-06-02 12:05:32 · 6 answers · asked by Vida 6 in Family

They have been together for 3 years and he still hasnt left the one he has been affairing with

2007-06-02 12:04:27 · 15 answers · asked by missylynn2005_1829 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Come on guys there got to be some good ones.....
mine went out i was driving so didn't drink she introduced her bruv who was gay and he hit on me when she went to toilet... we left she puked in my car then i had to rescue a stray cow from main road!!! (completely honest this) beat it if can

2007-06-02 11:59:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been paying to put her through school on and off for the past six years. I know she has a lot to do (we have two kids together) but I'm getting soooo frustrated with her taking so long with school, and I really don't feel like she appreciates the sacrifices I make to make it possible. I've been entertaining the notion of divorce for almost a year now, but I don't want to do that to the kids. I think about cheating all the time. I know this isn't healthy, but when I talk to her about it, she says she's doing everything she can. She has about four years left of school, which could easily take her ten, lol. If anyone has any recommendations, please let me know. Thanks.

2007-06-02 11:58:34 · 11 answers · asked by utahbizboy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-02 11:56:27 · 40 answers · asked by taytay101 2 in Singles & Dating

I love him to death. He's all i ever think about, 24/7. Every love song i hear makes me think of him. I'm so afraid to loose him. What do i do if he walks away and it ends? I dont think i could do it because hes the first guy who has treated me right since i was sexually abused. I'm afraid about something that i hope wont happen, but what if it does? I just cant stop worrying about that. He means so much to me.

2007-06-02 11:55:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So if your in a good relationship and everything is going good. You have sex offten and its good you try you best to forfill them sexualy in every way. Cook for them, basically base your world around them and enjoy doing it. Why do guys still seem the need to go f*** some other chick. And what makes it worse is when the chick he cheats with is not prettier than you at all. Doesn't have anymore money or anything better to offer then you. I can step down gracfully if she is better then me or if things wern't good at home and in bed. But that is such a shitty feeling. Especially after you find out when you were pleasuring him orally on a regualar basis there is no telling where his d*** had been. YUK!!!!!! Can any of you guys help me understand this?

2007-06-02 11:52:01 · 8 answers · asked by Jenifer C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I asked a question and some people wonder why i stayed so long with a nut case..because he is a nutcase!! People who aren't around a real nut case can never understand. If i had left with the kids he would have caused such trouble you wouldn't want to know...and if i would have left without the kids he would have made trouble in any way he could and get them against me as you can imagine..i stayed because that was the least troublesome way for the kids. Trouble all the same but the least. I was 19 when i met him and i was a naive and stupid girl. I am not now. I didn't leave for a long time after the kids grew up because of the ''trap'' i had been put in but now i am more confident and feel strong and for some reason able..It is like a miracle. I can't explain. There is no stopping me. I did turn 50 and am attractive and confident and figured i better not waste any more time..do you think that did it..my birthday?

2007-06-02 11:50:43 · 8 answers · asked by vilot2000 1 in Singles & Dating

well im pretty sure this guy is gonna ask me out..... ive liked him all year so im rele excited the only problem is i wont be able to see him during the summer ill probably be pretty busy i would tell him i will go out with him next school year in sept. but im afraid he'll have moved on what do i do? im going into 8th grade

2007-06-02 11:48:59 · 10 answers · asked by living the life 3 in Singles & Dating

You're 34, your wife is 27 & you've been together for almost 9 years (almost 3 married). There were some problems (obviously) & your wife left back in November 2006 & moved into her own apartment.

In April 2007, she comes to you & says she wants to work it out. You tell friends & family. Then you find out 3 days after that, your wife has had an extremely intense 6 month affair because she has just told you so. Was it done to clear the air or just to repair her guilty conscience?

She's been in contact with the other guy up until last week, even though you have her change her cell #. She's the one initiating the contact with the other guy (phone calls & text messages). She basically bad mouths you to the other guy & tells him she still loves him & is seeing you but not back living with you yet. Has she lost her effing mind?

Both you & her agreed that her teaching job had driven a wedge between you, yet she's going to teach again next year. What's that all about?

Read on..

2007-06-02 11:48:25 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It's a bittersweet divorce, and I am still quite wounded and just finding my way. The divorce papers just arrived today, and I'm not sure what to do or how to feel. I feel lost. Any suggestions for coping for the next while?

*No mean comments please, I'm already pretty low*

2007-06-02 11:41:40 · 12 answers · asked by The_Cookie_Goddess 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I really loved my boyfriend and one of his friends told him he should break up with me and I really loved my boyfriend and he loved me. What can I do to get him back? PLEASE HELP!!!

2007-06-02 11:39:58 · 20 answers · asked by Sheriden 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband is a jealous man. When i am happy, he is ''scared'' i guess and tries to get me down. When i am down then he is happy. I am tired of this game. He is a jealous man and accuses me of adultry and calls me a flirt because i am a friendly and happy go lucky kind of woman. He feels threatened and is insecure and immature emotionally. I have been faithful and have loved him but i don't love him as a woman to man anymore..and i long to be loved by proper love. I will always love him as a person..in a familiar way..forever, but i can't be his wife any more. Am i correct to divorce him?

2007-06-02 11:37:44 · 15 answers · asked by vilot2000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she only cares about what she wants. she makes promises she can't keep.

2007-06-02 11:37:13 · 4 answers · asked by KiWiMeLoN 2 in Family

I'm 19 I've been dating this girl for a month now... she always wants to hang out with me but never actually GO out or spend money... she doesnt like going out to lunch/dinner with me but she'll cook for me at home. I found this strange because I'm used to eating out every meal, everyday. so.....

I did a background check on her and found out that her family is pretty poor... My family is very wealthy and now the things she does makes sense to me. Was doing this background check really that wrong? Why would she be mad if i told her?

2007-06-02 11:36:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK here is my problem. This guys I like a lot is in Arizona and he will be gone for the whole week. There is this other kid in my class who I had a thing with in the begining of the year. We are starting to have that same thing again but I still really like this other guy who is on vacation.I dont want to have to start flirting and hanging out with this other guy and still have feeling for the other one. Basically I dont want to hurt the kid in my class. What should I do?

2007-06-02 11:34:30 · 9 answers · asked by toppercheerleader2012 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband accuses me of adultry all the time and the fact is i am totally faithful and have been for 30 years..He finally put the nail in the coffin when he suspected me of adultry with a guy at work, because i was happy at work and like the people i worked with. That is a no no with him as he is a miserable person. I made the fatal mistake of talking nice about my work instead of pretending it was ''terrible''. But too late. He came up to the office at my work and yelled out loud that ''Ted and i were having an Affair'' and vice versa. I was shocked and the people i knew who knew me know it is not true. I had worked there for a year but some of the ''mud'' stuck and it was an odd atmosphere and Ted's wife never came in as she was scared of what my husband might do. So i quit..i felt sick at work from stress and his threats. I am going to divorce him now. Do you think i am correct in doing so? thanks. I know the answer..i just want to see what you all have to say.

2007-06-02 11:31:50 · 27 answers · asked by vilot2000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I like my doctor alot& i think he knows it.I know it's unethical 4 him to date his patients & that he could loss his license.I'm willing change doctors if i know he is interested.But i want to know what he thinks without making a fool of myself.I also want to know if he's married.I ve not seen a ring on his finger& i ve checked 4 it.I think he maybe attracted to me but again it maybe my wishful thinking.So tell me what you think about his body language.He likes to talk about my culture because i'm not from this country.I always ask for the last appointment so i can spend more time with him.4 my last Appt we spend 1hr30mins in his office talking about nothing(we were flirting).he is irresistable.He usually leans forward toward me when writing prescriptions.We ve awkward moments(gazing into eachother).he always walks me out & stands so close i feel his breathe,our bobies are literally touching as we stand.I'm 12yrs youger than him.i want him so much.How can i approach him?

2007-06-02 11:27:29 · 17 answers · asked by Na 2 in Marriage & Divorce