I have been dating this wonderful guy for about 2 months now... we met online and have just really hit it off... Now for the help I need... I have serious strong feelings for him and really do love being around him. You know the whole heart beats faster, palms sweat, knees weak when he kisses me thing. How do I ask (without asking) if he feels the same way? I have not said that I have these feelings yet. Should I even say anything? I don't know what to do... please help.
2007-06-02 12:09:43 · 10 answers · asked by lopezjri 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would suggest leave it a bit longer, study the way he is around you, does he touch you or look at you alot, stuff like that, listen to the way he speaks to you, once you do that you will start to understand where his at, then tell him the way you feel, and look for his reaction, its all in the eyes
2007-06-02 12:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's way to early to tell him, all you will do is scare him away. Just keep having fun and he will tell you when the time is right.
Keep this in the back of your mind, what you are feeling is hormones right now. That doesn't mean you don't have strong feelings, just that you really can't tell yet. This early the two feel exactly the same. This is just one more reason to wait.
Good luck.
2007-06-02 19:14:15 · answer #2 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, chances are the guy is thinking the same thing. You could come right out and tell him, or do it a little secret way. You might have you both write down your feelings on a piece of paper, and then one person reads the other, and then the other person reads it. And if they're the same great, and if they're not. Well, you can figure that out ;)
2007-06-02 19:16:28 · answer #3 · answered by run2home93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is very lucky to have someone such as yourself love him the way you do,wished my wife did.
When he kisses you....are his hands everywhere or is it a more gentle meaningful kiss?you can tell if its just passion or true feelings also look into his eyes and see if the sparkle is there for you,does he look forward to your company or is it just a chore.
When the moment comes you wont be able to stop yourself from telling him how you feel and hopefully he feels the same way.
You will know when.
good luck babe
2007-06-02 19:20:42 · answer #4 · answered by steve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember, us men can't decode a lot of women's emotions so I think you should go for it. Tell him! The worst that could happen is that he may not feel the same. What do you have to lose? Tell him, girl, tell him!!
2007-06-02 19:16:17 · answer #5 · answered by clayp72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never ask a man about their feelings? you just get frustrated.. Just look at his eyes and you know the truth.
2007-06-02 19:15:42 · answer #6 · answered by luff3742 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask how much he's enjoying being with you, that will give you some ideas.
2007-06-02 19:17:00 · answer #7 · answered by PL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the easiest way to find out would be to tell him, and see how he responds.... its better to find out earlier on than later
2007-06-02 19:12:58 · answer #8 · answered by Tomma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's impossible, you gotta say it.
2007-06-02 19:13:51 · answer #9 · answered by Derek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just act like an adult and ask him straight!!! :D
2007-06-02 19:14:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋