So if your in a good relationship and everything is going good. You have sex offten and its good you try you best to forfill them sexualy in every way. Cook for them, basically base your world around them and enjoy doing it. Why do guys still seem the need to go f*** some other chick. And what makes it worse is when the chick he cheats with is not prettier than you at all. Doesn't have anymore money or anything better to offer then you. I can step down gracfully if she is better then me or if things wern't good at home and in bed. But that is such a shitty feeling. Especially after you find out when you were pleasuring him orally on a regualar basis there is no telling where his d*** had been. YUK!!!!!! Can any of you guys help me understand this?
2007-06-02 11:52:01 · 8 answers · asked by Jenifer C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No not all guys are the same. There is difference. Its difference between rather you are a guy who is mature and is ready for a relationship or if your guy who's immature and gets scared and does something stupid knowing that you have something good in your life. If he was mature he wouldn't have screwed up what he had because he would know that your the only one for him and sex can't come between that. The guys that are immature get bored with there sex life and want more rather its from you or someone else rather your he's in love with you or not. Hopefully the more mature they are the more they learn how to handle relationships.
2007-06-02 12:09:07 · answer #1 · answered by luvfades 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys are not the same, however, the majority of us have the same thoughts. The difference between a good and bad guy , is the good ones resist their tempations. Me and the guys I know and talk to like to look at and think about sex with a variety of women. For instance, I love my wife and our sex life is good, but, I still desire other women and look and think about them often, as do my married friends. Its not about you, its about guys liking sex and different women. Every time Beyonce comes on tv i think about sex with her or even women in the store.Honestly, most of my married friends cheat (all in face, but i do not) and they all have great looking wives who they think are good in bed, but they want some "strange" so to speak. Its hard to explain, but no matter how satisfied a guy is with his wife or g/f, most can never be satisfied totally. Thats why we look at porn and stare at girls assets all the time. There is a reason a study has shown we think about sex every 7 seconds.
2007-06-02 19:26:44 · answer #2 · answered by big stan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are the same. Some get into deep conflict when they even feel the tiniest spark for another woman. They would die if they dared cheating. But the men that do cheat easily... no idea what they think or feel.
2007-06-02 18:57:56 · answer #3 · answered by freebird31wizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi my ex did that to me and i'm a guy!!!!!!!
Some people just never appreciate what they have if you did all that for him get someone who will appreciate it!!!!
There are good guys out there we just been hurt like you and tend to play very safe now
2007-06-02 19:05:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not all guys are the same you just ended up with a jerk, a prick, an idiot, ect... You just need to find someone that will see the real you and fall in love with that person!
2007-06-02 18:57:56 · answer #5 · answered by luckyman 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
damn mamas.
sorry to read that! =[
that sux. why guys do that;
THEY`RE *****!
THEY G0T *****!
& THEY THiNK; PUSSY!
no one really knows why, but
you should leave him ..
you dont need that!
2007-06-02 18:58:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no.. guys are not the same..
2007-06-02 18:56:18 · answer #7 · answered by certified b*tch 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
U r worth more than that wat a fool he is cant he see wat a good thing he has right in front of him.
2007-06-02 21:55:10 · answer #8 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋